posted May 02, 2017 05:00 AM            

Not attracted to taureans but I am attracted to Taurus traits in other different signs.

I find some neg qualities I understand as Virgo - detail-orientated verging on petty, worrying, critical, mentally dwelling, slight in body a big turn off. On the otherhand, I like the mercurial and fast mind a huge amount. I suppose I like the positive traits a lot, the lower manifestation I hate. I've sun square Mars if that affects it.

If that Virgo energy is harnessed I think it's hugely sexy but I've a big preconception that perhaps doesn't match reality.

I think Sean Connery was very attractive.

posted May 02, 2017 12:09 PM            

I noticed that guys I like tend to have Capricorn like traits or placements in their charts with Capricorn. I tend to like older men vs men closer to my age or younger men that are mature for their age.

posted May 02, 2017 02:29 PM            

What we look at is the first applying aspect by the Sun, which in your case is sextile Saturn. That indicates Saturnine qualities are an essential part of the balance a mate can offer you. That may show up in a single aspect in his chart, such as conjunct/parallel Moon/Sun/Asc, or by way of placements in Capricorn, etc.

We also look at first applying aspect by Mars, which in your case is to the Moon.

posted May 02, 2017 05:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
It isn't necessarily about natal placements by sign/house, but about characterization of the man/men considered.

What we look at is the first applying aspect by the Sun, which in your case is sextile Saturn. That indicates Saturnine qualities are an essential part of the balance a mate can offer you. That may show up in a single aspect in his chart, such as conjunct/parallel Moon/Sun/Asc, or by way of placements in Capricorn, etc.

We also look at first applying aspect by Mars, which in your case is to the Moon.

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Just googled 'first applying aspect' - is this the first aspect counterclockwise that your sun makes? In my case my sun only makes one applying aspect, which is an exact (7minutes) square to moon in leo.

And the first applying aspect from mars is, I think, jupiter, 2 degrees away and out of sign, but a loose conjunction (and at 0deg virgo).

So for me. I'm not into taureans. But I do quite like leonine confidence and pride. I like guys who can take the limelight and have fun, and treat me like a queen. Not arrogant or over the top, but enough for me to feel proud of them. In fact, a guy who uses the word pride in context makes me melt a little ha.

My mars is also in leo, conjunct NN (leo, separating) and jupiter (in virgo, out of sign, retrograde). I love guys who have a sense of adventure and like doing stuff. I like doing stuff with guys - physical activity, running, climbing adventures. I like to feel free. It's important to me that I guy knows how to channel his energies...

Definitely going to look back at some charts and see how this has played out in the past. Suffice to say that the guy I'd like to get with in the future has sun scorp and Sagittarius rising (mars conj jupiter), his descendant is in gemini (v my 3rd house sun) and also has leo moon. I can't possibly see why he's attractive to me!

posted May 02, 2017 07:50 PM            

A woman is attracted to [HIS] Sun and Mars in a man's chart.

posted May 04, 2017 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
I know that the sun in a woman's chart denotes the type of man she is attracted to (as well as mars). But my question is fairly simple. Does the house placement make a difference.

E.g. Sun in Gemini in the 8th house. Would she be attracted to both Gemini AND Scorpio placements???

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posted May 05, 2017 02:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
It isn't necessarily about natal placements by sign/house, but about characterization of the man/men considered.

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True for me!

Mars in Leo and Sun in Virgo...not particularly attracted to Virgos and Leos, but the characterization of the signs is attractive to me

posted May 05, 2017 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Just thought of something....if Sun is the attraction point in a woman's chart , and the Moon is the one in the man's chart...then why do the astrologers say that Sun / Moon conjunction in synastry is not so good if the Moon is the man and the Sun is the woman..for example my Sun in Virgo will look for a Virgoish guy and his Moon in Virgo will be attracted to a Virgoish woman. in my synastry we do have my Sun in Virgo matching his Moon in Virgo (and ASC)..

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posted May 05, 2017 03:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Just thought of something....if Sun is the attraction point in a woman's chart , and the Moon is the one in the man's chart...then why do the astrologers say that Sun / Moon conjunction in synastry is not so good if the Moon is the man and the Sun is the woman..for example my Sun in Virgo will look for a Virgoish guy and his Moon in Virgo will be attracted to a Virgoish woman. in my synastry we do have my Sun in Virgo matching his Moon in Virgo (and ASC)..

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posted May 13, 2017 07:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
if Sun is the attraction point in a woman's chart , and the Moon is the one in the man's chart...then why do the astrologers say that Sun / Moon conjunction in synastry is not so good if the Moon is the man and the Sun is the woman

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posted May 16, 2017 07:11 PM            

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if Sun is the attraction point in a woman's chart , and the Moon is the one in the man's chart...then why do the astrologers say that Sun / Moon conjunction in synastry is not so good if the Moon is the man and the Sun is the woman

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The Sun, outside of being a placement in a chart, is about power. The Sun is the source of power in synastry. Power, as we know, is responsibility. The Sun gives direction, protection, and provisions to the Moon. Overtime a woman who is made to provide for the male will feel burdened/used by having to assume the Solar role. Some men may feel devalued having a woman lead/protect/provide for them.

Of course, some signs can adapt to these conditions better than others. Eg, a woman with a "masculine" Sun sign will have an easier time playing the Sun in Sun-Moon synastry than a woman with a "feminine" Sun sign. Libra & Cancer being the gender benders.

Eg. All things being equal: A guy moves his girlfriend into his apartment. He pays for everything. Lucky girl.