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hypatia238
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posted May 11, 2017 01:09 PM
  
He says people tell him he is like a robot. He says he has feelings but he doesn't let them affect him. He says his mind is always trying to solve something, that he is restless and has an ADHD mind, he has learned to live with this constant "angst" feeling in the background, he makes decisions based on logic. Externally he looks calm and contained. He has sun in capricorn conjunct Saturn.I am exploring this with him but I wonder if he just doesnt like talking about feelings and the mutability of gemini allows him to intellectualize his emotions, let them go and repress them. I imagine his moon is also in an air house based on his personality or an earth house, definitely not in a water house....unless maybe its in the 12H and his emotions evade him and feel hidden from him.... What has been your experience with Moon in Gemini? Do you have moon in Gemini in an air house? How are you like? IP: Logged |
Lerena
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posted May 11, 2017 01:22 PM
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What has been your experience with Moon in Gemini? Do you have moon in Gemini in an air house? How are you like?[/B]
My Gemini Moon is officially placed in 7th house, but it's also about 15 minutes from moving into the 8th house.When I communicate how I feel to other people, it provides me emotional relief. My emotions run deep. I am very emotional and complex. Typical descriptions of Moon in Gemini do not describe me as I am too deep to fit the superficial, light-hearted descriptions of a Gemini Moon. This said, I do relate to getting bored easily and I require communication with others to be emotionally fulfilled. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 11, 2017 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by Lerena:
[QUOTE]What has been your experience with Moon in Gemini? Do you have moon in Gemini in an air house? How are you like?
My Gemini Moon is officially placed in 7th house, but it's also about 15 minutes from moving into the 8th house.When I communicate how I feel to other people, it provides me emotional relief. My emotions run deep. I am very emotional and complex. Typical descriptions of Moon in Gemini do not describe me as I am too deep to fit the superficial, light-hearted descriptions of a Gemini Moon. This said, I do relate to getting bored easily and I require communication with others to be emotionally fulfilled.[/B][/QUOTE] That fits well based on the placements you have, 7H conjuncting the 8H  IP: Logged |
appleberry
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posted May 11, 2017 03:28 PM
My experience with one Gemini moon was difficult because his feelings would change every five seconds. He would sometimes clam up about feelings too because he simply couldn't hold down one feeling for long enough -- and then he would get angry if you pressed him to let you know his feelings. It felt very bipolar. He had his good points and bad but it was the moon that made him unbearable and I'm happy to not have to deal with it in a relationship anymore. He also had a fire Sun and Venus but an Earth Mars. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
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posted May 11, 2017 05:23 PM
I have encountered many Gemini moon, in my opinion, since it is a mutable sign, the aspects the moon has, and then the house that the sign is in, is MUCH more telling about the person than the generic interpretation for a Gemini moon. Also, since it is a mutable sign, and the moon is more of a secretive personality aspect, the whole chart influences this as well.One of my exes was a Gemini moon in the 1st house. He was full of wisdom and his wisdom helped me make some much needed changes and recognize problems in my life. He was a Pisces sun, but a heavy Saturn and Capricorn dominant, with a Capricorn stellium in the 9th house. I wouldn't say he didn't have emotions, because I could tell that he did, but he was very restrained and even though his expressions gave away his emotions, he would never express them out loud until he had intellectualized them and thoroughly thought about how to properly word it. It was difficult for me being a Leo moon and a moon dominant person, because he made me seem way too emotionally and not logical enough. He was actually pretty irritable too, and thought all his irritations were rational, when they were definitely NOT. The love of my life is a Gemini moon in the 12th house. He is a Virgo and Cancer dominant, with a Cancer Ascendant and Mars. It's really kind of sad watching a man who's inherent nature is emotional, bottle his up emotions, and retreat to intellectualize their feelings. Unfortunately, with that Cancer mars, his bottle emotions eventually explodes into something huge, when if he would have dealt with his feeling at the time, the outcome would have been much healthier and less destructive. The 12th house seems to swallow his Gemini moon traits, but every once and a while, they shine through very brightly. He is a typical mercurial trickster, clever, witty, intelligent and very funny. He hides his mood swings very well, and he has only let one person (me) ever truly in to see his real emotions. He contracts himself, one moment he is all about rationality, and then the next he is being irrational. My mother is a Gemini moon in the 7th house. She is the very opposite of the love of my life, in the fact that she relies heavily on others and her relationships to give her emotional support and to feel secure/nurtured. She has always been someone that deeply wanted to be emotionally "take care of" and listened to. She become unconsciously dependent on my dad, and went neurotic when she no longer had his support. She is very sensitive, and goes way too far to adapt to and help others. She likes to think that she is rational, but she really isn't. She does try to hide her emotions and feelings from others though, but she is also a Pisces sun and dominant and she can never hide them for long because she does have a deep inner need for emotional support from others. That being said, she has these typical Gemini moon traits: she is still incredibly witty, enjoys clever jokes and puns, is a little bit of a trickster, needs constant intellectual and communication stimulation, is very anxious, very sociable, moody as all get out (at home she is irritable and moody, but in public or in front of friends/peers she stuffs everything), and she hates routine. One common theme I have found is that Gemini moons will think that all their behavior is rational no matter how irrational it really is. They intellectualize everything, and once they do, they KNOW that they are rational, and everything else is wrong. Learning to compromise and communicate on an emotional level with these people can be very difficult, but it is possible. In fact, if you can communicate and learn to compromise with a Gemini moon on an emotional level it can feel like one of the most rewarding experiences (depending on your synastry and composite with that person of course). IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted May 11, 2017 06:51 PM
I found that I was the only one coming up with rational ways to sort something out in my family, several years back. I knew how things would go if we didn't go that route, and sure enough...One plus, is that we will usually see where we are being hypocrites, or need to sort something out. And we will say so. Or I will. If fear is huge, I might not take care of it right away, but it's acknowledged, not denied. Anyone is capable of acting like they're the rational one - everyone is capable of being in denial. I don't know anyone who isn't. *fixed typos from my tablet posting. Ugh. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 11, 2017 06:58 PM
Yes we are all capable of being in denial at some point or another but for some denial is there to go to place and some people have a much harder time accessing their emotions while others find it easy to go there. I don't think he is in denial though.He is very logical and cerebral and he does not remind me of you Teasal so were his moon falls, its aspects and the rest of the chart play a big role too.. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted May 11, 2017 07:11 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes we are all capable of being in denial at some point or another but for some denial is there to go to place and some people have a much harder time accessing their emotions while others find it easy to go there. I don't think he is denial though.He is very logical and cerebral and he does not remind me of you Teasal so were his moon falls, its aspects and the rest of the chart play a big role too..
Oh, no, I can be very logical and cerebral. When I saw someone for something that's the complete opposite of that (a past-life regression, seven years ago), she pointed out how analytical I am. You only get to see the emotional side of me, because my family didn't listen to me re: what I mentioned above, and because I lost my mum. In the past, I would bypass a lot more of it as learning experiences, or something having shifted me into a better place, or a more understanding mindset. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 11, 2017 07:56 PM
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Originally posted by teasel:
Oh, no, I can be very logical and cerebral. When I saw someone for something that's the complete opposite of that (a past-life regression, seven years ago), she pointed out how analytical I am. You only get to see the emotional side of me, because my family didn't listen to me re: what I mentioned above, and because I lost my mum. In the past, I would bypass a lot more of it as learning experiences, or something having shifted me into a better place, or a more understanding mindset.
Interesting Teasal! Thanks for sharing, I appreciate it, you have given me something to reflect on! I hope things get better for you soon.
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teasel
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posted May 11, 2017 08:05 PM
Can you post his chart? Or would that go to personal readings? I think my Moon and Venus is what helps me to get up, and at least get in the shower, when I'm really depressed. Logic says that I will feel a bit better, if I wash my hair, get the rest of myself clean, and make my tea. Mum used to call me Scarlett, as in, "I'll deal with that tomorrow." If something did upset me enough to throw me off, I would take a day, stay in bed, eat a doughnut, since my appetite would be gone, but that would be edible. Otherwise, I'd distract myself. I still try to distract myself as much as possible, so that I can deal with it. When it comes to things like a huge loss (that won't ever come back), that comes in waves, once the shock has worn off. In some ways, I still expect my mother to be back. Then it hits me that, no, she will not be back again, and I'm lost for a while. Does he write at all? Can he write out where the angst is coming from? I worry and worry, and then push things aside, unless I'm ready to deal with it. Writing it down would be the first step - it's acknowledged. He may not want to deal with it right away, but once you know something, it's hard to keep ignoring it, and he will logically realize that it will have to be dealt with. He can keep putting it off, but if he's anything like me, it will keep bugging him. I still have a few big things that I haven't dealt, some because I can't afford to, but also because it's scary. My Cappy sister would have taken care of it as soon as possible, and it's something I respect about her. Technically, my moon is in the 7th, although programs keep interpreting it in the 8th. It's conjunct my 8th house Venus. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted May 11, 2017 08:07 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Interesting Teasal! Thanks for sharing, I appreciate it, you have given me something to reflect on!I hope things get better for you soon.
Oh, sorry, I didn't see this. I wrote more above. IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted May 11, 2017 11:22 PM
hypathia,my Moon is in Gemini and is in the 3th house, which is the Gemini house. It only makes a trine to my Venus and Uranus. I am super emotional, I mean I can get very excited at the drop of a hat, I laugh and giggle a lot because I can find something interesting in the littles of things, and I can cry at the drop of a hat too....but while I am emotional about my stuff, I noticed that other people's emotions irritate me or I cannot feel them much. I do not feel sad when someone talks to me about death in their family or sickness or anything that had affected them. I just shrug my shoulders. I do not like to hear anybody's depressing stories. I somehow feel no pity for people, but I feel enormous empathy for animals and children. Also, my emotions and feelings towards certain things change several times thru the day. What I didn't like in the morning, I may start liking in the afternoon. Or I may have decided to go grocery shopping, get in the car and I may end up instead in the mall fitting dresses.
Stuff like that.... IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 12, 2017 12:35 AM
Fascinating Orange, thanks for sharing.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 12, 2017 12:40 AM
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Originally posted by teasel:
Can you post his chart? Or would that go to personal readings? I think my Moon and Venus is what helps me to get up, and at least get in the shower, when I'm really depressed. Logic says that I will feel a bit better, if I wash my hair, get the rest of myself clean, and make my tea. Mum used to call me Scarlett, as in, "I'll deal with that tomorrow." If something did upset me enough to throw me off, I would take a day, stay in bed, eat a doughnut, since my appetite would be gone, but that would be edible. Otherwise, I'd distract myself. I still try to distract myself as much as possible, so that I can deal with it. When it comes to things like a huge loss (that won't ever come back), that comes in waves, once the shock has worn off. In some ways, I still expect my mother to be back. Then it hits me that, no, she will not be back again, and I'm lost for a while. Does he write at all? Can he write out where the angst is coming from? I worry and worry, and then push things aside, unless I'm ready to deal with it. Writing it down would be the first step - it's acknowledged. He may not want to deal with it right away, but once you know something, it's hard to keep ignoring it, and he will logically realize that it will have to be dealt with. He can keep putting it off, but if he's anything like me, it will keep bugging him. I still have a few big things that I haven't dealt, some because I can't afford to, but also because it's scary. My Cappy sister would have taken care of it as soon as possible, and it's something I respect about her. Technically, my moon is in the 7th, although programs keep interpreting it in the 8th. It's conjunct my 8th house Venus.
Thanks Teasel for all the feedback! Interesting...very much appreciated. It sounds like your moon is towards the end of the 7H so it will feel more like a moon in the 8H bc it is probably conjuncting your 8th house cusp. Moon conjunct 8H cusp fits since your mother's death has deeply affected you. IP: Logged |
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posted May 12, 2017 04:34 AM
My moon in geminu, 11th house. Aspecting almost everything both square, sextile and trine. My moon is a real triggar. My feelings are sometimes a real hell and also my best helpful tool. I feel everything. I Love humor. I feel dangerous situation before everyone else. I feel false people. I know situations before someone else. My feeling also trigg me into situations and exercise not many people manage..My moon in gemini are also in parallel exact to pluto,
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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted May 12, 2017 05:03 AM
just one experience with moon in geminihis sun in scorpio (part of mercury, mars, sun, pluto stellium), he loved watching real clips where people fall into things or from the stairs, and violent prank videos in one of them a waitress fell into a glass and it was shattered and I think she got hurt too, it wasn't funny to me at all, but he would laugh so hard and then make me watch it, it was such a turnoff yeah loved word games and puns too the scorpio/gemini mix makes for an interesting albeit a bit psycho character imo! when it came to romance he was such an extreme too, hot and cold..add an exact conjunction of venus/saturn (in capricorn) to an opposition to jupiter, and you get a person who would devour you in complements and all the nice gestures and a second later would become cold and judgemental IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted May 12, 2017 07:11 AM
Hypathia,Can you unquote my post from your post, please.
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hypatia238
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posted May 12, 2017 01:27 PM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
just one experience with moon in geminihis sun in scorpio (part of mercury, mars, sun, pluto stellium), he loved watching real clips where people fall into things or from the stairs, and violent prank videos in one of them a waitress fell into a glass and it was shattered and I think she got hurt too, it wasn't funny to me at all, but he would laugh so hard and then make me watch it, it was such a turnoff yeah loved word games and puns too the scorpio/gemini mix makes for an interesting albeit a bit psycho character imo! when it came to romance he was such an extreme too, hot and cold..add an exact conjunction of venus/saturn (in capricorn) to an opposition to jupiter, and you get a person who would devour you in complements and all the nice gestures and a second later would become cold and judgemental.
I had a one night stand with that combo, he was good in bed but he was very cold and could be a real ass*ole ... IP: Logged |
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posted May 15, 2017 06:27 PM
Sounds like a tough combo. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted May 15, 2017 09:49 PM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
the scorpio/gemini mix makes for an interesting albeit a bit psycho character imo!
Gee, thanks. Do you think every single Gemini/Scorpio would laugh at someone getting hurt? IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 15, 2017 10:34 PM
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Gee, thanks. Do you think every single Gemini/Scorpio would laugh at someone getting hurt?
Teasel you have sun in Scorpio!!!? 
We are talking specifically about the luminaries, sun in Scorpio with moon in Gemini, not scorpio rising.... Further your moon is in the 7th house conjunct the 8th house, both very relationship focused and sensitive placements.. 8th is water and intense and the 7th is all about others and relationships.. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted May 15, 2017 10:52 PM
No, but it seems like a harsh assumption to make about all of them. Thanks for the sarcasm, though. I tried to be helpful to you before, had one problem with someone labelling all Scorpio/Gemini's "psychos" and you're sarcastic with me. Lovely. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 15, 2017 11:06 PM
Seriously you think I was been sarcastic?! I was not, I was trying to be helpful and clarify we were talking about the luminaries and nobody said all scorpio/geminis are psychos. You are making assumptions about our opinion, taking it personally and interpreting things through the worse possible lenses.IP: Logged |
Electro DGX
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posted May 15, 2017 11:07 PM
I've never really believed I fit the typical description for a Gemini Moon. I've always delved deep into my emotions and tried to figure them out, but I've never intellectualized them. I am very emotional but that side of me is often hidden from the outside world; people know that I'm emotional but they never see me get emotional. You would think that being a Gemini Moon, I can talk about my emotions, but the only way I can feel comfortable talking about my emotions is to someone who would understand what I'm going through and through text. I cannot physically talk about my emotions, I literally cannot without feeling like I am forcing something to come out of me. The only things I can relate to when it comes to Gemini Moon is a need to vent to one's self about what I went through in the day and my constant non-stop thinking, other than that none of it fits me at all. Even when giving other people interpretations of Moon in Gemini, they don't agree that it fits me or they get stuck between it and Scorpio Moon (my moon is heavily plutonified). ------------------
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Aries23Degrees
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posted May 16, 2017 01:29 AM
I think it depends on the additional aspects.I dated a Virgo years back with Gemini Moon opposite my Sun. And i found him very talkative when it comes to the minutia. He also has a boyish/young looking face that is more high school attractive than rugged. Even though he has grown a beard now. He liked to have people around -even though he wasn't the life of the party he appreciated people that were very talkative. He also drank quite a bit-which concerned me.And even though he was an civil engineer, there was something very dreamy/liking fantasy about him (Moon/ Sun/ Mer square/opposite/square Neptune respectively) Although i wouldn't say he is cold. He tended towards withdrawing when he feels he is being taken for granted or sad. But he does comfort you when he senses something is off. He is an overall nice guy though(Venus in Libra), very warm because when we broke off and decided to be friends instead,he also befriended another ex of mine Gemini Sun/Virgo Moon/Gem Mercury.So there were no hard feelings in the long run. I think it could also be because he has Neptune involved with the Moon?So that can have the effect of making him more emotional?
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