posted May 12, 2017 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I'm an Aries Venus and Pisces Mars woman with a Capricorn moon and Cancer rising and Taurus sun interested in a Pisces Mars/Venus, Cancer Moon and also Taurus sun man. My Aries Venus is my most elevated planet in my 10th house and thus it's definitely the most noticeable trait about me. I am not shy about telling my crushes I like them, and I also pursue them because I absolute HATE waiting for men to make the first move. While most men like a woman who can approach them first, I realize a super sensitive Water Mars/ Venus and Moon man with my same ultra laid back and chill Taurus sun might be taken aback. How do I ask him out? Will he feel like I'm being pushy?

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So being that your moon is in Capricorn and his is in Cancer , this is a good combo as Cancer is naturally drawn to Capricorn energy. Both of you having Taurus suns would also create a natural affiliation on a soul level towards each other. With all the water he has going on in his chart , he will be very sensitive so I would think the way to approach him would be threw his emotions especially being that his Moon is in Cancer.
Moon in Cancer guys or people with a lot of water in their charts are most likely to say I feel vs I think. They are also like the knight in shining armor type of guys who want to save others or seen by other girls as being saved by. Pisces venus I think is going to make him a little dreamy and probably romantic so I think if you drop subtle hints here and there he would pick up on them. I am surprised he hasn't already.

posted May 12, 2017 12:45 AM            

Cap/Can are a natural attraction in many cases because of oppositional energy thay may present problems/issues later on.

Your man is heavy on water emphasis-making him quite evasive and secretive at times. Unless the Sun/Jupiter energy in on an angle(1,10). That could help things.

If you can be patient with the ultra mood swings,being very unreliable at times or being highly sensitive,then you have it made.

I know an Aquarian with Venus/Mars in Pisces conjunct. And he is very much all about love and can get lovesick when things go wrong in that department. So fairytales are inherently desired by Pisces Venus/Mars.

posted May 14, 2017 09:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
So much Pisces between you makes the attraction heady with fantasies,make believe and illusions.

Cap/Can are a natural attraction in many cases because of oppositional energy thay may present problems/issues later on.

Your man is heavy on water emphasis-making him quite evasive and secretive at times. Unless the Sun/Jupiter energy in on an angle(1,10). That could help things.

If you can be patient with the ultra mood swings,being very unreliable at times or being highly sensitive,then you have it made.

I know an Aquarian with Venus/Mars in Pisces conjunct. And he is very much all about love and can get lovesick when things go wrong in that department. So fairytales are inherently desired by Pisces Venus/Mars.

You will have to try lots of tenderness. Water energy responds to a whole lots of care,attention and non judgment.

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posted May 14, 2017 09:36 PM            

If you want to ask them out, casually ask them out and take them to dreamy/romantic place.

posted May 15, 2017 10:23 AM            

I think his Pisces Venus might make him a bit shy approaching you. But honestly, I say just go for it. I used to drive myself crazy by trying to follow the rules of dating. I'd go back and forth on whether or not to reach out to someone, if I was texting them too much, how long I should wait to text back, etc. There are so many stupid dating games now and texting etiquette and mind games, it's just a giant headache.

As an Aries Venus, I say just do what you want to do. Obviously don't text him 100 times in a day or blow up his phone if he isn't answering right away. But if you want to reach out to him or make plans with him, do so. If he's the right guy, it will work out. And if he's someone who runs the other way when you text him because you don't play dating games like others do, then he's not the right guy for you.

The way I see it, thanks to my Aries side, is you are who you are in dating. I wasted a lot of time on trying to follow those dating rules when all I wanted to do was reach out to someone and make plans. When I stopped caring about those rules and I did it as I wanted to do it, I met someone who didn't mind if I was more proactive than others. I think guys may see it as refreshing too.