posted May 13, 2017 01:19 PM            

....trust their actions OR words?

posted May 13, 2017 01:28 PM            

i have a gem friend who said if there was a bear, when we were in the wild, he'd kick my legs out to let the bear get me. he says cause he knows i'm a faster runner, meaning the bear would get him.

i'm like

that wouldnt happen like that. no bear would come after us or we'd work as a team to be calm and make it not come

posted May 13, 2017 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
^^lol Soren

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posted May 13, 2017 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by soren:
???

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posted May 13, 2017 05:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
Gemini sometimes uses dialogue to think out what they think about something. We may not always say what we think because we haven't decided what we think yet. We also are born with innate tolerance to paradox. It's possible for us to hold incompatable thoughts... at least until we think it through. The good news is that as mutable air, we are most able of all the signs to jettison ideas that are outdated, incorrect, or no longer useful.

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posted May 13, 2017 06:31 PM            

If they say something in words there actions should then support it.

Example. If I say I hate such and such, go home, sleep and forget about it the next morning...then don't take it seriously.

But If I say I hate what Best Buy is selling and its actually the Worst Buy and do something to take Best Buy down!!! then that is meant to be taken seriously.

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posted May 14, 2017 05:36 PM            

he acts affectionate, but then stings with words.

posted May 14, 2017 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by coffeetime:
because this gemini kisses me and teases, but later says he can't look at me (although he's looking a lot).

he acts affectionate, but then stings with words.

what's wrong here

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He knows there's an attraction (prob physical attraction) but still tests the water to see your reaction and help them to make a decision. Geminis are afraid of rejection and can be indecisive.

Based on my experience, you need to see BOTH and the consistency of BOTH. Then you can safe to go because Geminis will always try to please their partner and will hold their hurtful words if they want you to stay.

posted May 15, 2017 05:09 PM            

but his mercury is in taurus.

i asked if he still has a girlfriend (bcs i met her once) and he said that he has morals and he is surely single, because he wouldn't be doing things with me.

although before several months, when we didn't know each other well, he made some moves in party and later texted me all night, but i found out that he was in a relationship. after some days, he turned single again (all on social media ) and then again was with his girl, which is where i saw her.

i wouldn't say i like him much. he annoys me. but i'm just curious because this time, he kissed me. and i like to clear things out when things like this happen. i asked him, why he did this and he did the best with avoiding the answer and playing with words... then later, he seemed a little bit off balance and said that i blacked him out (i think 'made him feel inadequate' is the right explanation).
although i don't believe he cares much about that.

posted May 17, 2017 01:49 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Both. They complement each other.

If they say something in words there actions should then support it.

Example. If I say I hate such and such, go home, sleep and forget about it the next morning...then don't take it seriously.

But If I say I hate what Best Buy is selling and its actually the Worst Buy and do something to take Best Buy down!!! then that is meant to be taken seriously.

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posted May 17, 2017 01:53 AM            

I say a lot of paradoxical things. And I can do paradoxical things, like DualGem's example. But generally if my words are matching up with my actions, they're solid.

posted May 17, 2017 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by coffeetime:
for all who joined to say something - would you fool around with a person who you consider strange looking or not that attractive for your eyes?

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I'm male, just to clarify.

For a Gem male it could just be simply being carefree and putting not much thought into it or some kind of curiosity thats interesting, unique about you, or just doesn't make any sense.

For example Leo females always get my attention.

Very bad example, but I will carry on anyway.
One of the July born Leos that I work with, she's old enough to be my mom and she has a son thats my age.

She bent down and I couldn't understand why a 60+ yrs old was wearing mickey mouse underwear. I thought that was weird, but interesting...

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posted May 17, 2017 11:03 PM            

LOL. Your story reminds me with my Gemini ex.

His co-worker (I know the story because I was in the same office just in a different room) was also a Leo woman who was in her 50s. I didn't know that they quickly built a strong bond.

One time when I was in an elevator, bunch of older women came in and one of them asked me, "aren't you in the same floor with those new young guy? I forgot, who's the name?".. I smiled curiously, "xxxxx? (I inserted his name)".. "Yeah, yeah, that one!" Suddenly all of those women started looking at me and one of them whispered to me, "I heard he and (his co-worker Leo woman's name who was in 50s was mentioned) are spending a lot of time together.".. I was shocked but like not really shocked, "what do you mean?".. The old woman continued, "We saw them went out from the office several times and the other day I saw them in a lobby and asked her where they wanted to go and she said with a giggle that they wanted to have lunch together. She already has a husband, well, although his husband is in a bed for a long time now because of sick." Some of those women in an elevator started giggling and she continued, "Doesn't it weird they have those relationship in the office? He's like his son." Then the other woman interrupted, "A young man is stronger and fresh, doesn't it?" Those bunch of women started giggling again. "I'm sorry mam, I really didn't know about their story." Those one woman got shocked, "Are you really didn't know the story?? It's all over the office, young lady. Aren't you at the same floor with them?".. "Yes, I am, but I didn't really know how close they are, I'm in the different room and quite focus with my own work." While at the same time I was talking to myself that how stupid I was I didn't even notice he had lunch together several times with her while we were in a relationship (well, we kept it secret for awhile because I was afraid the relationship would ruin me professionally).. The elevator's door was opened, and I saw him with the Leo woman in a lobby. "There they are, together again", said one of those women. One of them talked to the other, "You, ask them where they want to go." And one of those women told me, "Don't tell her we asked you about their relationship." They left rushing to him and her in the lobby and I went to have lunch with a friend while thinking and talking to myself, "So the young man she talked to my boss excitedly in the room was him? Oh, Jesus!"

At the afternoon he came looking for me and said that he missed me. I didn't say anything about the elevator gossip.

One day when I visited his room office, I saw him CRYing like a baby. I was looking at his other co-workers, "what happened?" Then the Leo woman came in and she hugged him and he CRIED more and a little bit louder like it was the last day we live in this world. I and his co-workers was just looking at each other while they were hugging, some of them even like having the expression that almost couldn't believe they hugged in front of us and he CRIED louder only when she came. When the Leo woman left the room, I started asking the same question with his co-workers, because he was looked like he didn't want anyone touch him, I said, "what happened?". One of his co-worker said, "he has sent his resign letter to the Director." I was like, "what? Why he did that?" All of them shrug their shoulders, "ask him, we don't know either. But why you didn't know anything, aren't you his girlfriend?" I was like uummm I was busy with my work dude and he didn't say anything to me, while grinning awkwardly. When I approached him, he gave signal that he didn't want anyone came close to him. So I said to his co-workers if he had already felt okay, please contacted me, and I went back to my office room.

When I went back to his office room, he was gone, his co-workers said that he didn't want anyone to tell me that he left office earlier. It hurted my feelings because I felt like I was nothing, I had tried to reaching him out through a phone call, he rejected it. He didn't answer my messages either. I talked to the Leo woman and she said, "talk to him."

After several months and we had rollercoaster relationship (because he eventually had a long time gf), when I saw him chatting with one of the ex co-worker who said that the Leo woman missed him that he need to visit her sometimes, he replied that he missed her too and asked her contact number since he changed his phone and lost the numbers. I was like there quickly asked him, "what is exactly happened between you and her?" He said while laughing, "we're just joking around." I put my serious face, "No, really, tell me what is exactly happened between you and her? You cried louder when she hugged you when you sent the resign letter." And he said, "she's just like my mother." "Are you sure?" "Yeah." Then I started open up, "I've heard in the office that you have weird relationship with her, it's not like a mother-son relationship, but it's like a young man with older woman who her husband is in bed, sick, for a long time. The gossip has already all over the office and I didn't know anything, how that could be happened? You never told me that you were having lunch only with her, outside of the building? and you came back at the afternoon? What is your relationship with her?" He looked shocked a lil bit, "we did nothing. Yes, we had lunch together several times and she paid it, but that was it." I still didn't believe him, "if you were only having a lunch, then why you came back to the office with her at the afternoon?".. "Okay, she asked me to accompany her shopping, so I help her with her shopping bags. That's it. Well, sometimes we went to some places just to waste the time, she said she didn't want to go back to the office early, I couldn't say no." Well, this is what happened if you are in relationship with a Gemini, can you handle all of their excuses that can boil up your blood? lol.

Like @DualGemV2 said, they just be simply being carefree and putting not much thought into it. If they find you interesting and they get curious, don't take it seriously, you need to see their both words and actions complement each other.