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Topic: promiscuous men and women
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Gemini30
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posted May 15, 2017 11:21 PM
  
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Originally posted by meyray:
Promiscuity is ultimately a conscious choice a person makes based on different reasons. Some of them in my opinion and observations are:Promiscuity from "abundance" of love:
- Venus/Jupiter - in love with love a LOT
- Libra Venus - want to be loved by everyone
- Pisces Venus - want to love everyone
- Neptune touching the personal planets Promiscuity from "abundance" of lust:
- Mars dominant - speaks for itself
- Fire Venus & Mars placements
- Taurus placements Promiscuity from non-committal personality:
- personal planets in air signs especially Moon, Venus and Mars
- Uranus touching personal planets Promiscuity from insecurity and damaged attachments style (the most dangerous form):
- Venus/Saturn and Mars/Saturn - people think these placements are frigid but they can swing in the other extreme as well
- Cancer Moon - seems unthinkable but Cancer Moon is very vulnerable to "bad" influences and can become neurotic especially if Mars or Uranus are involved
- Scorpio Venus - very complex relationship with love and sex, might become celibate forever or very promiscuous
- Virgo placements - another strange one but Virgos have difficulty in love and can also fall victim to negative promiscuity
- Capricorn placements - same as Virgo plus they're self-serving and may "use" people As you can see pretty much everything astrologically can be promiscuous, whether a person actually engages in this behavior depends on their beliefs and state of mind. The ones I see less likely to be promiscuous than others are placements and combinations of signs that take themselves too seriously like Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and maybe Aquarius. Saturn dominants too. Mercury dominants because they may be too cerebral to care about sex and Jupiter dominants because they *could* have strong personal beliefs and morals against this type of behavior.
I love how you wrote this up. I say a combo of "abundance of love" and "insecurity" is how most promiscuous women are. Promiscuous men are usually a combo of "abundance of lust" and "non committal." IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 15, 2017 11:36 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Once a hoe, always a hoe.
This is coming off as passive aggressive but who knows maybe I am reading to much into it but NO my friend is not a hoe and neither am I, neither of us ever have been and going by your logic likewise I say "once an ass*ole always an ass*ole." IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 15, 2017 11:40 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
This is coming off as passive aggressive but who knows maybe I am reading to much into it but NO my friend is not a hoe and neither am I, neither of us ever have been and going by your logic likewise I say "once an ass*ole always an ass*ole."
if neither of you ever have been a hoe, then his rule doesnt apply to you. and no i'm not agreeing with the rule, i dont know if its true. you said you were redefining your perception of people since they go through a fling stage in early college everyone does, he said "nah you do it once you're always like it" in response IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 15, 2017 11:54 PM
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Originally posted by soren:
if neither of you ever have been a hoe, then his rule doesnt apply to you. and no i'm not agreeing with the rule, i dont know if its true. you said you were redefining your perception of people since they go through a fling stage in early college everyone does, he said "nah you do it once you're always like it" in response
I get it Soren and that is what I understood too but felt it might have also served a dual purpose and his comment also be a jab at my friend and I... I HATE the word hoe and Dislike the word promiscuous. I really hate guys who think like that "once a hoe always a hoe." It brings out my feisty side: I have Uranus conjunct Jupiter and Proserpina in the 1H, I own my body and do whatever I want with it and have issues with that word. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted May 16, 2017 12:11 AM
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windyday
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posted May 16, 2017 03:06 AM
I know two guys and a woman who fit this description.
FIRST GUY : Mars conjunct Venus in Cancer, Sun conjunct Mercury in Leo, all of these four planets in his 8th house. He also has Dsc in Gemini, Uranus opposite Dsc ruler, Moon in Aries, Singleton Saturn in Taurus in his 5th house, Venus square Moon, a T-square between Venus, Neptune and Saturn(the apex).
SECOND GUY : He has Sun conjunct Venus in Taurus opposite Pluto , Mars in Cancer opposite Uranus, Moon in Pisces, Fire void.
THE WOMAN : She has Venus in Cancer square Uranus, Mars in Aqua square Jupiter, Moon in Pisces, Singleton Pluto in Virgo.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 16, 2017 11:15 AM
Welcome to Lindaland Windyday!   IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted May 16, 2017 01:08 PM
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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
What do you guys make of Magi Astrology's Super Sexual Aspects? http://www.magiastrology.com/super_sexual_aspects.htm Personally I know 2 guys with Juno parallel/conjunct Pluto. They're very hot, but not promiscuous. I think it creates a desire to marry early.
Venus trine Uranus? I'm surprised they didn't list the square. IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light
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posted May 16, 2017 03:03 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Venus trine Uranus? I'm surprised they didn't list the square.
With the outer planets it's the easy aspects, rather than the hard ones, that lead to overindulgence. Benefics work the other way around: If 2 benefics are in hard aspect (like Venus and Jupiter), that can indicate overindulgence. IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light
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posted May 16, 2017 03:03 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Huh I have juno parallel pluto and mercury, I did want to get married early, it was a strong desire then..
Nice; thanks for confirming my theory! IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 16, 2017 04:59 PM
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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Nice; thanks for confirming my theory!
Yes I was obsessed with getting married early. Now I advocate strongly for getting married late or not married at all, there are definitely benefits to having a partner, like I love the companionship BUT people are too eager to get married, its romanticized way too much. I feel as a society we need to romanticize more been single but maybe I am wrong. Its cute to see families too and I value those instances were I see a married couple with kids and it feels right in my gut! IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted May 16, 2017 08:20 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I get it Soren and that is what I understood too but felt it might have also served a dual purpose and his comment also be a jab at my friend and I...I HATE the word hoe and Dislike the word promiscuous. I really hate guys who think like that "once a hoe always a hoe." It brings out my feisty side: I have Uranus conjunct Jupiter and Proserpina in the 1H, I own my body and do whatever I want with it and have issues with that word.
If you're getting so defensive, then it must be true XD IP: Logged |
GrandFireT
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posted May 16, 2017 08:36 PM
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hypatia238
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posted May 16, 2017 10:40 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
If you're getting so defensive, then it must be true XD
You got me all figured out, I am a hoe. Your ability to read people and get to the core of who they are is truly mind blowing. You clearly missed your calling and should have become a therapist. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted May 16, 2017 10:41 PM
Has anyone mentioned afflicted Venus/Mars?IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light
Moderator Posts: 524
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posted May 16, 2017 10:43 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes I was obsessed with getting married early. Now I advocate strongly for getting married late or not married at all, there are definitely benefits to having a partner, like I love the companionship BUT people are too eager to get married, its romanticized way too much. I feel as a society we need to romanticize more been single but maybe I am wrong. Its cute to see families too and I value those instances were I see a married couple with kids and it feels right in my gut!
Same here! I think closer to or after the first Saturn Return is best. Because people change a lot, and studying harmonics has shown me we can become very different after marriage. IP: Logged |
llewsacm
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posted May 16, 2017 11:21 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You got me all figured out, I am a hoe. Your ability to read people and get to the core of who they are is truly mind blowing. You clearly missed your calling and should have become a therapist.
Lol! Love the way you handled this!
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llewsacm
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posted May 16, 2017 11:33 PM
I think it's more natural, to me anyway, to strive towards finding someone you feel totally committed to. Cuz if you are with someone and stray without their permission, you should feel like a total jerk. I think there are some good points about certain aspects...but people do evolve to what they feel is good for them. It could be that the insatiable sexual appetite is never waned with one woman or man, or that the native realizes that their lust is in jest and they never get to a point of fulfillment, or they do...I doubt it tho. Most of the folks I've known that have several non-committal sexual relationships are just looking for the next big thing...and it never happens. Because they are looking for something that cannot be obtained from another person. Some have it harder than others with their natal aspects but I think it's a challenge they should consider. IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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From: Los Angeles
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posted May 16, 2017 11:56 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You got me all figured out, I am a hoe. Your ability to read people and get to the core of who they are is truly mind blowing. You clearly missed your calling and should have become a therapist.
Yup. Us Gemini's can be very clairvoyant! IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 17, 2017 12:12 AM
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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Lol! Love the way you handled this!
Thank you! Lol IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 17, 2017 12:20 AM
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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Same here! I think closer to or after the first Saturn Return is best. Because people change a lot, and studying harmonics has shown me we can become very different after marriage.
Interesting, tell me more if that is ok. I do feel people change a lot and agree with your observations, I feel I truly found myself in my late 20s. What about harmonics have you found that supports people become different after marriage...I am so intrigued right now, totally want to pick your brain. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 17, 2017 12:29 AM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Yup. Us Gemini's can be very clairvoyant!
I think you are confusing clairvoyance with projecting. "Psychological projection is a theory in psychology in which humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others." IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted May 17, 2017 02:52 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I think you are confusing clairvoyance with projecting. "Psychological projection is a theory in psychology in which humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others."
Did you really take me seriously with the clairvoyant comment? Stop taking yourself so seriously. You are not that special. IP: Logged |
windyday
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posted May 17, 2017 02:58 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Welcome to Lindaland Windyday!
Thank you ^~^IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted May 17, 2017 04:17 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Libra? I dont feel this sign is prone to promiscuity, now Aries I can totally see that lol. I had a guy with moon conjunct mars in aries exact tell me he use to be very promiscuous when younger which brings me back to the need to define this word bc a lot of people go through a phase in the college years of promiscuity but when you look at their entire life span that is not the behavior you would associate them with..
Whoa, I didn't see this the other night. I don't think this has Aries written all over it. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, as long as nobody gets hurt, but I've never done it myself. I had a cousin right on the border of Sadge and Capricorn, who was this way. She cheated on boyfriends, too.
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