posted May 15, 2017 03:20 PM            

Hope you guys can help, I'm dealing with a very confusing pisces man. He has venus in Aquarius and moon in scorpio and is sending some massive missed signals.

We've had a bit of a back and forth for 7 months. He's been going through a really hard time for most of it, he lost his business and had a lot of family stuff going on. I've given him space, had his back, got annoyed when it took him over a week to respond to a message, cancelled at the last minute and generally didn't think he was that interested.

We were talking a few weeks ago and I mentioned that it's okay that he saw me as just a friend and he didn't need to worry about giving me the wrong impression he turned round and said he was interested, but that he's nothing special but that I am.

Fast forward one week later and he's introducing me to all his friends, who are lovely, he's keeps up the texting for a few days but then goes away with work and completely doesn't text me back. Normally not a problem but he has plenty of time to post online and message other people.

It's like 2 steps forward and 5 steps back. With some seriously mixed signals.

Is this a piscse with venus in Aquarius thing or is he just stringing me a long?

I've given him the benefit of the doubt with everything he has going on but it's getting a bit difficult to trust him when he goes MIA so much :/

posted May 15, 2017 04:58 PM            

It doesn't sound like a game to me. The more you please yourself, honour your own needs (including saying if you need contact), the quicker he will probably gravitate to you.

Having said all this, I'm not very good at interpreting other people's chart. I do know someone with those placements though and I feel it's either Scorpio emotions and/or just enjoying his Aqua.

posted May 15, 2017 05:19 PM            

I don't really know how they behave when attracted but I know Ami Anne probably does if she sees this I gather the attraction is felt though, from what I've read so maybe focus on that than outward actions.

posted May 16, 2017 09:40 AM            

Oddly, I've only experience this behavior pattern when they're not that into you. Being frustrated.

When they're into you they will be consistent by aloof.

posted May 16, 2017 10:23 AM            

Ime Scorpio Moon also blows hot/cold because of the intense feelings they have and not being able to articulate them.

Add to that the Venus in Aqua-which insists on doing things their way and moving at their pace i.e when the mood "strikes" them etc. Which can be erratic and irregular.

posted May 16, 2017 02:19 PM            

He's playing head games with you because he hasn't decided you're worth It for him to put the effort in.

Back off and if he comes around 100% then see where it goes. Otherwise, move on.

posted May 16, 2017 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
If a guy likes you he will make time for you and will do anything to be with you no matter what's going on in his life. If he isn't doing these things, he's not that into you. It's that simple.

He's playing head games with you because he hasn't decided you're worth It for him to put the effort in.

Back off and if he comes around 100% then see where it goes. Otherwise, move on.

Sorry if it's harsh. But it's better you know now rather than drag it out and keep getting hurt.

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posted May 16, 2017 03:07 PM            

It didn't really bother me before cause I wasn't sure if I wanted to be in a relationship but I know I do.