posted May 17, 2017 09:30 PM            

Bonuses:
5) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush? Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?
6) Although highly unlikely, I'd like to ask out of curiousity: Have you ever felt your Rising or Sun Sign's affect the way you approach relationships, behave when in love and express love and affection to your lover?

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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted May 17, 2017 11:50 PM            

6 years, with my senior in a high school. I was 16/17. I finally can get over him when I graduated from college. The first and the last of this heart beats.

2) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Venus in Pisces at 3rd house. Closest aspect to Mars, Neptune, Pluto, Saturn, and Uranus.

3) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Aries moon at 4th house. Closest aspect to, I forgot, but it conjunct Jupiter, sextile mercury, trine Saturn & Uranus & Asc.

Bonus:
4) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush? Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?

In a relationship I feel my venus stronger than the most planets, it's like the downer to my most of masculine signs. I never immediately pursue people especially to the opposite sex, my approach to the situation tend to "let it flow" manner. I don't wait for my crush, if he wants me to stay I'll stay, if he doesn't I will search the same feeling with other people.

The time when I feel rejected as if my partner cheats. I can easily move on IF those partner never shows his face in front of me again and IF he moves on with the other woman, I hate wasting my time with useless effort, energy, and memories that going back and fort. I look to the future. But sometimes the biggest problem is when I forgive too easily although I don't forget what it thought.

posted May 18, 2017 04:15 AM            

4 years. he was my high school mate.

2) Current Relationship Status - Single, Single by choice or Taken?

single

3) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

venus in leo on the 11/12th house cusp.
sextile mars
opposite uranus
both within 0 degree
then opposite neptune, trine pluto - both a bit loose.

4) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

moon in cancer and uuuh boy - it's square saturn within 0 degree, then conjunct mercury, square chiron, opposite neptune...

in 11th house.

5) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush? Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?

i avoided eye contact, never approached him. although when he talked to me, i was ballsy, smiling and blushing a lot. but that was it. i spend my torture time wasted...just waiting for him to come first. well, it never happened. he got a girlfriend and i still believed he likes me, but got him a bunch of excuses... tiny little brain i had at that time

6) Although highly unlikely, I'd like to ask out of curiousity: Have you ever felt your Rising or Sun Sign's affect the way you approach relationships, behave when in love and express love and affection to your lover?

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1) 13 years it took to get over him. I was 18 when we met. I am now 39.
2) Single by choice - And accept I'm always meant to be single.
3) Venus in Gemini in the 8th house. Not sure of the closest aspect as a newbie to this, but I think Jupiter.
4) Moon in Scorpio in the 12th house. Maybe Uranus which is also in the 12th house.

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Awww, don't you worry about being single at your age. I know you have accepted that you are "meant" to be single, but I just want you to know that one can find real, true love at ANY age; yes, even well into your 40s! God has a wonderful plan for ALL of us; believers who glorify Him and even unbelievers who reject His existence. He has in great-detail ordained someone specifically meant for YOU. Now, for whatever reason (one God finds just), He may feel you are not ready to meet/be with the destined soulmate he has in store for you. However, although this may be the LAST thing you want to hear, if you diligently seek the Lord, stay strong and patiently wait on HIS timing, He can and He WILL put you on a love collision course, with real, true, authentic love ... IF you let Him. You may not have found "The One" yet, but know that you will find him in the RIGHT time, he will be the RIGHT person, and you will be together for the BEST reason. God is the founder, author and writer of the most divine breathtaking love stories; remember that. May the Lord pour blessings in your direction, have a good day/afternoon/evening/night

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Sagittarius Moon
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posted May 19, 2017 02:05 AM            

2 years. I was 21 y/o, now I'm 26 y/o.

2) Current Relationship Status - Single, Single by choice or Taken?

Married

3) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Sagittarius Venus in the 5th house - Sun/Leo decan of Sagittarius
Venus conjunct Sun
Venus trine Jupiter

4) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Moon in Leo in the 1st house - Sun/Leo decan of Leo
Moon sextile Mars

Bonuses:
5) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush? Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?

Both my Moon and Venus are in Fire signs, Fire houses, and they form aspects with Fire planets. I'm a passionate, fiery, and straight forward person, I directly approach situations. When I was single and I was attracted to a man, I was direct but at the same time playful, charming and witty with him. I like to seduce with my liveliness and vivaciousness. I'm happy-go-lucky and I love life which I believe was attractive to a lot of men. I'm also very sexual and pretty direct about it. I like compliments and attention - when all eyes are on me. I like to entertain. I believe these traits are a perfect blend of my Moon and Venus placements.

6) Although highly unlikely, I'd like to ask out of curiousity: Have you ever felt your Rising or Sun Sign's affect the way you approach relationships, behave when in love and express love and affection to your lover?

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3) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Sagittarius Venus in the 5th house - Sun/Leo decan of Sagittarius
Venus conjunct Sun
Venus trine Jupiter

4) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Moon in Leo in the 1st house - Sun/Leo decan of Leo
Moon sextile Mars

Bonuses:
5) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush? Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?

Both my Moon and Venus are in Fire signs, Fire houses, and they form aspects with Fire planets. I'm a passionate, fiery, and straight forward person, I directly approach situations. When I was single and I was attracted to a man, I was direct but at the same time playful, charming and witty with him. I like to seduce with my liveliness and vivaciousness. I'm happy-go-lucky and I love life which I believe was attractive to a lot of men. I'm also very sexual and pretty direct about it. I like compliments and attention - when all eyes are on me. I like to entertain. I believe these traits are a perfect blend of my Moon and Venus placements. [/B]

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I'm a Leo with a Sagittarius Moon, so I can relate to like 75% of what you said - which you wouldn't expect 'cause I'm Cancer dominant haha

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Sagittarius Moon
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posted May 19, 2017 04:33 PM            

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Never had a "crush"
I am married
Cancer Venus 11H square Uranus , conjunct Saturn, Opposite Moon
Cap Moon 5H
Not sure whether my Asc affects my relationships or no

Conclusion: I do NOT like games. I like to pursue. I got bored very easily.

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Do you think Venus squaring Uranus is why you get bored so easily? Would you say your Cancer Venus (serious, long-term commitment seeking) forming a conjunction with Saturn emphasizes your dislike of wishy-washiness in love relationships? Also, if you don't mind me asking, which house is your Cancer Venus in and what's your Mars? I'm curious because Cancer Venus natives don't usually pursue their love-interest

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Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted June 14, 2017 07:01 AM            

Roughly 4 years, I was 15.

2) Current Relationship Status - Single, Single by choice or Taken?

Single, probably best that way.

3) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Venus in Pisces in the 8th house.
Venus trine Mars and Venus opposite Moon.

4) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?
Bonuses:

Moon in Virgo in the 2nd house.
Moon opposite Venus.

6) Although highly unlikely, I'd like to ask out of curiousity: Have you ever felt your Rising or Sun Sign's affect the way you approach relationships, behave when in love and express love and affection to your lover?

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Lol, but I don't think you'd be taken if you didn't have a crush on your current bf prior to beginning a relationship with him. Is it true that having Venus in Taurus makes one very slow and stable in romantic relationships?

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posted June 16, 2017 11:17 PM            

21 years until now. I was 26, I have 47

2) Current Relationship Status - Single, Single by choice or Taken?

Let's say "taken" we don't live together, he was married when we started and in that time I wanted to live with him. Right now, we still together but we still confort living apart.

3) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

My venus is in aries at the end of house 4th, conjunct Chiron and Karma, trine Nep and Asc, sextile Moon, opposite Uranus.

4) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Moon in 7th Cusp; opposite Nep and Asc, trine Uranus, sextile Venus

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5) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush? Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?

We know each other since high school, so we became friends first. He wanted in that time date with one of my best friends (venus in Sag), he married; and three years later he married, we started dating. He divorced 3 years ago, when I decided to leave our ralationship pursuing a ghost (blame my Nep trine venus and opp Moon). We still apart for a year, and return until now.

6) Although highly unlikely, I'd like to ask out of curiousity: Have you ever felt your Rising or Sun Sign's affect the way you approach relationships, behave when in love and express love and affection to your lover?

Yes! I have a Sag Asc (love freedom and a lot of personal space) and I have pisces Sun (yearning for endless love and some time completely alone to recharge energy).

His Venus conjuct loosely my Asc and loosely trine my venus; his moon conkunct my NN, my IC, my Mercury and loosely my Sun. His Asc at the end of Taurus loosely opposite my Asc in the beginning of Sag. Sun opposite Mars DW; so we keep the fire burning even it couldn't be easy many, many times.

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
1) How long did your longest crush last? How old were you? How old are you now?
2) Current Relationship Status - Single, Single by choice or Taken?
3) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?
4) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Bonuses:
5) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush? Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?
6) Although highly unlikely, I'd like to ask out of curiousity: Have you ever felt your Rising or Sun Sign's affect the way you approach relationships, behave when in love and express love and affection to your lover?

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1) longest crush ... Maybe 2 years at school. Most other crushes have at least danced with more than a crush at some point or i mentally friend zone myself from it. I was about 12. I'm 39 now
2) single
3) Venus, 7th, Taurus square Saturn
4) moon 2nd, sag opp Jupiter, conjunct Neptune, trine Saturn
5) I regard myself more obsessive than my first answer - I'll pine for a love for many years sometimes but answering this I've realised it has to have been reciprocated at some point. I've had a lot of crushes at work but those who I don't lose interest in, I come to regard as good friends.

I think this is maybe very Taurus for e.g I've known other taureans who think along the lines of 'I don't want anyone who doesn't want me', that attraction is important. Maybe the 7th house and moon in sag help me let go (of a crush because not so much in love) and view as friends. Venus square Saturn possible is to do with the work setting and most of the time I've actively sought a crush to pass the time at work. Maybe as well, Venus sq Saturn, I think there's a respect for commitments between people, I can cordon off a crush on someone married for e.g

posted June 17, 2017 06:32 PM            

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lol longest crush? girl i'm a cancer venus its not a crush its a mini love every time

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I have a Cancer Venus too! I think I understand what you mean, but I'm not too sure. Would you kindly elaborate?

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posted June 17, 2017 07:56 PM            

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I have a Cancer Venus too! I think I understand what you mean, but I'm not too sure. Would you kindly elaborate?

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lol you should know how we are. we arent like other people and think "oh he's so hot i like him" with us its like (emotionally) i'm in love with this guy, i wanna be with him forever (meanwhile i've barely talked to him) i want to have a house and take care of him in every way (so cancer lol). the bipolarness of it all. one minute we love him and wanna baby him and the next we're like **** off you talked to another girl (my leo sun kicking in a lil there). basically thats all i can think of right now. i build my own little world with him in my head. a cacoon nobody else can ever enter. i've legit had people tell me i'm psycho and crazy when i share a tidbit of what i'm telling you. But i think theyre all sad souls who will never experience the love a water venus feels at their core. its a rush. a tidal wave of emotion. a feeling you can't control

posted June 18, 2017 11:58 AM            

It has become a marriage. I was 19 at the time. I'm 27 now.

2) Current Relationship Status - Single, Single by choice or Taken?

Married.

3) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

12th house cap venus. Square 3rd house aries moon at 2'.

4) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

3rd house aries moon. Square neptune at 1'.

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5) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush?

I don't have a particular way to maintain my interest, I just let the feelings grow on their own - I think this is the working of the 12th house influence. Talk to them, feel them, thinking in term of "us".

It's like jumping into a sea of emotions.

Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?

I always talked to them immediately and let them know what I thought of them.

I moved on quickly when I was rejected. No use moping over spilt milk. If it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be.

6) Although highly unlikely, I'd like to ask out of curiousity: Have you ever felt your Rising or Sun Sign's affect the way you approach relationships, behave when in love and express love and affection to your lover?

My sun/rising sign are also in the sign of capricorn. I take immense pride in my relationship and what we have built together.

I think the capricorn influence also manifests as an indifferent attitude towards the idea of "marriage". To me it's somewhat a mean to an end. We got married so it would be easier to be with each other (we were living in different countries).

I write him poems, love notes, crappy love songs. Paint portraits of him... Basically I show affection in every way I can think of (as long as it's within my capability, of course).

Neptune/12th house influence: I like creating a haven, a dream world for us both.

Saturn/cap kicks in when life gets rough. To sustain the little dream world, I need to make sure that all of the realistic needs are met and all difficulties/adversaries are neutralised. I'm a steady, reliable mountain in times of need.

posted June 18, 2017 12:52 PM            

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lol you should know how we are. we arent like other people and think "oh he's so hot i like him" with us its like (emotionally) i'm in love with this guy, i wanna be with him forever (meanwhile i've barely talked to him) i want to have a house and take care of him in every way (so cancer lol). the bipolarness of it all. one minute we love him and wanna baby him and the next we're like **** off you talked to another girl (my leo sun kicking in a lil there). basically thats all i can think of right now. i build my own little world with him in my head. a cacoon nobody else can ever enter. i've legit had people tell me i'm psycho and crazy when i share a tidbit of what i'm telling you. But i think theyre all sad souls who will never experience the love a water venus feels at their core. its a rush. a tidal wave of emotion. a feeling you can't control

i'm a gem moon but still my cancer venus engulfs all my love feelings. gem moon just makes me more bipolar probably lol

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I knew I understood you the first time! I think I got confused because I re-read what you said and thought "Oh, maybe she means going from guy-to-guy-to-guy" lol. But yeah, I was nodding at every sentence you wrote. I do feel like people who don't have a significant Cancer (or maybe Pisces too) influence in their chart would have a very hard time understanding why we are the way we are. My loyalty knows no bounds; I'm very faithful and when I'm even just starting to develop feelings for a person, I'm so focused on that one person that no other man exists in my eyes; Trey Songz or Chris Brown could walk by and I wouldn't even see them. I mostly resonated with what you said about being "forever-minded" in the sense that there is nothing I want more in this world than to date my first bf for 2-4 years while taking care of him and please him in every (moral) way possible, go house-hunting, get married, get pregnant A.S.A.P, move into our big "family" house (if you know what I mean) and live out the dream with my happy family of 6 (I even fully-named my 4 future babies already). Yup, I want a looong stable one, that's why I'm so picky. I would have no trouble telling a guy "I'm Christian, I hate games, I'm extremely family-oriented, and I'm fascinated by the idea and the process of making babies; SO, I'm looking for a husband not a boy toy" on the first date. If he had a problem with it, I'd dismiss him from my life in a heartbeat.

Also, Astrology interpretations say wanting a fairytale romance and fantasizing about the future with your crush/bf is a Pisces Venus thing, but it seems like it's a Cancer Venus thing as well. Or am I like this because I have Neptune in the 7th House?

Eye-contact is another big thing for me. If a guy can't look into the windows of my soul, then I believe he won't be able to handle me. I love love hehe! I would gladly teach my future bf how to love. When I get in a relationship, I know I would feel highly confident in the things I'd do, especially romantically, passionately and sensually. I would guarantee full satisfied offer cause I'm a natural cater. I genuinely enjoy taking care of people I know to please, how to make breath-taking efforts, how to be heavenly affectionate (human touch is oxytocin to me!) and how to melt my man's heart.

posted June 20, 2017 09:17 AM            

Huh, 5 years. I fell in love when I was 17 and I struggled to get rid of him up until couple of months ago.

2) Current Relationship Status - Single, Single by choice or Taken?

Can I offer option D) as dating around?

3) What is your Venus Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Venus in Scorpio in 9th. The closes aspect is Venus semi-squares Sun. Runner up is Venus semi-square Chiron.

4) What is your Moon Sign and its respective house placement? Closest aspects made to other personal planets; if any?

Moon in Scorpio in 9th house. Closest aspect is Moon Quintile Neptune. Runner up is Moon Quintile Ascendant. My Moon and my Venus are loosely conjunct. They both conjunct Jupiter too. Moon conjuncts it at 2°28, and Venus conjuncts it at 9°36 applying so that's the reason I still feel it. They also parallel each other.

5) How do you feel your Venus and/or Moons influenced the way you went about liking and maintaining interest in your crush? Did you immediately pursue him/her? Did you approach the situation im a push-and-pull two-steps-forward two-steps backwards manner? Did you wait for your crush? Did you move on as soon as you got rejected?

Well, since both of them are in Scorpio, my crush was fixed. I see Venus more as attraction or liking than love. I'm huge advocate for loving with your Moon. It was deep, intense and dark at times. We had crazy synastry and messed up composite but I was hooked. But we hit it off the moment we've met. Ended up dating on and off for two years. But it was push and pull, hot and cold type of situation. Well, it depends. Fourth time we've broken up, I spent two months sleeping and being a mess. The fifth and last time we broke up,I started hooking up with other people rather quickly. Nothing major or serious.

6) Although highly unlikely, I'd like to ask out of curiousity: Have you ever felt your Rising or Sun Sign's affect the way you approach relationships, behave when in love and express love and affection to your lover?

Actually, I personally did. Capricorn rising here and I'm not too keen on PDA's and sometimes I would just completely shut down. Also, not a huge fan of cheesy gestures and stuff like that. Or even dramatic pours of emotions. And since Cap is cardinal sign, I never took any crap from him. Called him out so many times for his childish behaviour.