posted May 19, 2017 02:25 AM            

once you decide to commit to someone, all of a sudden many eligible hotties start appearing in your life?!..as if they were in a hiding before, and decided to pop up out of nowhere right after you have become taken?!

I have sun trine uranus and an aquarius DC

plus these!:
mercury square uranus
uranus conjunct NN
mars opposite uranus
moon quintile uranus
venus applying to uranus in declination!

this situation makes it very hard for me, especially if the person I am involved with is far away and a long-distance relationship is to be maintained for some time

I wonder why it keeps happening? do you think it's the aqua DC or the sun-uranus? or both?

the other person often has important uranus aspects too, so it disheartens me to think that they have the same situation over there!

any ideas would be helpful!

posted May 19, 2017 02:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Hmm...it might be the Uranus DC! My God, if it's anything like Uranus transiting the 7th...😫

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tell me about it!

and have you had Tr uranus on your mercury yet?! be prepared for your body to be loaded on caffeine and longs nights of insomnia! bright ideas for job and a lot of freedom of mind too of course!

posted May 19, 2017 03:12 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
tell me about it!

and have you had Tr uranus on your mercury yet?! be prepared for your body to be loaded on caffeine and longs nights of insomnia! bright ideas for job and a lot of freedom of mind too of course!

venus parallel uranus, wow I never knew declinations could be this effective!

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Ooh! Nope...not till 2019! But I might need that extra energy if life picks up

posted May 19, 2017 03:18 AM            

and thanks for replying to my threads and sharing your experience dear, wonderful and smart BL!

very much appreciated

love talking to you just like my group of taurus gfs I told you about

posted May 19, 2017 03:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
I love talking with you too! When we go on these late night thread jumping conversations lolol . YES, there is something to be said about being born around the same time. I didn't keep contact with my high school girls but there's just this natural affinity, especially as you get older. I'll be part of your Taurus gfs by association

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posted May 19, 2017 04:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Nice; do Taurus and Aquarius have affinity for each other? I don't think I've had any Aqua female friends...only a couple of Pisces gfs, but those are not the best, lol. One was super flaky and the other one, we love each other but for some reason I feel like we can't deeply connect! I think I would like Aquas as they fall in my 5th house and I had an [b]uber crush on an Aqua guy.[/B]

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I think places on earth make a lot of difference (the effect of the karma of the place you were born in and thus the placidus houses); for instance I read that in france there are a lot of taurus/aquarius couples, but the ratio is lower in other places

but for me personally the aqua girls are in my 7th, I need to be around them at least a couple of times a week, without them I feel kinda empty hehe, I go to them for wild activities!

but for some reason I can't stand aqua guys, I think it's because they're male and express their sun (which squares both my sun and pluto) stronger, so I feel so uncomfortable around them hehe

with taurus girls I shop, hang out at cafes, and listen to a lot of music and do a lot of girly things lol. they're pretty too so they inspire my taurus MC

I had a pisces friends and I was with her from the age 5 to 12. we were inseparable. but once at school I became friends with this scorpio girl and she was so jealous of my friendship with the pisces and tried to break us up. she told the pisces that she's so boyish and there's nothing feminine about her voice or the way she walks (I think this pisces friend is either an aqua or sag AC because she looks a lot like my sister). anyway, I remember the poor pisces broke into tears and I ran after her, but she refused to talk to me. she rejected all my efforts to get her to hang out again, even when I told her I'll stop being friends with the scorpio girl, even though I loved that scorpio a lot despite her occasional jealous and nasty behavior. the pisces never spoke to me again until we were both 22!

another female encounter is a sad story between me and a pisces girl with her sun conjunct my 8th cusp. it ended awefully with her.

2 sad breakups with pisces guys too.

overall the 8th house, very uncomfortable albeit intense!

posted May 19, 2017 04:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Beautiful_Light:
Awww...the Earth probably just had a ton of geniuses born under the latest Mercury-Uranus conjunction

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posted May 19, 2017 04:16 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
and in the wild aries!

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Oh yes!

posted May 19, 2017 04:23 AM            

Yeah well the only thing I know about Pisces men is that they can be players...and judging from our Pisces female stories, I'd say Pisces and Taurus (including one of the couples I mentioned) are not a good match, though Earth and Water are supposed to work well together.

posted May 19, 2017 05:38 AM            

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Oh yes!

I keep forgetting I have the trine, but in Earth signs. I tend to focus on just a few of my aspects and forget about the rest, though they are good, LOL

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posted May 19, 2017 06:49 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Once you decide to commit to someone, all of a sudden many eligible hotties start appearing in your life?!..as if they were in a hiding before, and decided to pop up out of nowhere right after you have become taken?!

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This the case with everything i tell ya. Its only when you stop "looking" for love. That love finds you. Only when you give up on success that success happens etc.

Its a Uranus thing. Even in parallel declinations to the Mc /Ic produces some challenges in regulating some normalcy career/domestic life.

Gregg Plitt( sports and fitness model) has Uranus/Sun conjunction in Scorpio. And when i was watching "Friends to Lovers" before he passed on, his girlfriend close companion turned lover-complained of how he is seldom available to her.

He looked visibly annoyed by her concern and got defensive. I think he was avoiding a usual outcome of having his relationships not work out because of the unpredictable nature of his career schedule.

#sidenote: is it not just plain eery that the nature of the accident which caused his death has parallels to his Sun/Uranus in Scorpio chart signature? He died on a railway track trying to outrun a train (i understand). Very unusual

posted May 19, 2017 06:59 AM            

Sigh. It never fails. A PRIME example of this is my husband. He had been single, and looking, for a long time before we met. He was working, and still is, at music festivals were there are plenty of hungry and desperate women but none really made a threat. But now that he's married and I work with him? It's mayhem every single time we work! Women will literally embarrass themselves out of desperation to take his attention away from me. It's fun but also annoying and pathetic.

Btw, I have Leo Asc and Sun trine Uranus.

posted May 19, 2017 07:02 AM            

such an unusual death

is his AC known? I wonder if his 8th ruler also makes an aspect to sun/uranus

Aries do you think aqua saturn on DC would mean some sort of a loyalty test in relationships?

I confess I can be too aloof and in the past have lost a few valuable relationships because of not being able to endure the distance...a restless mercury/aries square who told them, either you come here fast (because my job wouldn't allow a move, but so wouldn't theirs, so selfish on my part I know now), or I'm off with someone else!

I wonder what would happen if for once I decide to sacrifice good potential opportunities for the sake of the other person?!

posted May 19, 2017 07:06 AM            

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Sigh. It never fails. A PRIME example of this is my husband. He had been single, and looking, for a long time before we met. He was working, and still is, at music festivals were there are plenty of hungry and desperate women but none really made a threat. But now that his married and I work with him? It's mayhem every single time we work! Women will literally embarrass themselves out of desperation to take his attention away from me. It's fun but also annoying and pathetic.

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oh my!

I applaud you for being so tolerant!

posted May 19, 2017 07:13 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
oh my!

I applaud you for being so tolerant!

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posted May 19, 2017 07:33 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Yeah....we've argued a lot about this but I do trust him and I also trust that he knows what will happen SHOULD he make a mistake. With latter I have very little tolerance. He has actually had to physically shove women off him at some venues :-/ I've seen in his eyes that he feels like a sexual object and I know far well how that feels.

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I think this is a wise thing to do charlie, to make it clear for him that he may lose you should he make a mistake

great advice! I'll keep that in mind!

it's quite a funny situation, I remember this relationship where I was with this actor/musician/model guy. he was super popular and hot/slutty girls available to him to him everywhere...although we had a composite sun in the 8th and had kept the whole relationships secret to everyone, including even our closest friends...it was so fun watching all the girls throw themselves at him and the way he would shrug them off and how upset some of them (who were girls I closely knew) would get! then we would laugh a lot at this later...although he was very committed to me (my saturn right on his DC) and forbid me to even talk to any other guys, even got into fights with this friend of his I flirted with a bit, and when he asked him what business of his it is, he had to lie and say that he was a protective third cousin of mine or something lol!

the strangest thing is that when I found out he had fooled around with another girl (to get back at me for flirting with his friend) I wasn't upset even a bit, and was willing to continue the dating, secretly or publicly, but he then exploded at my aloofness and moved to another city!

damn this aqua DC can be so weird sometimes!

posted May 19, 2017 08:05 AM            

As a Leo Asc I can only say this: I'm too proud to be a pushover but I've also lost many valuable people being too proud. Why would you want to be one anyway?? Men don't really like pushovers even though some might pretend they do. I think they'll lose all respect for you if you're too willing and too compliant. I wouldn't want to be with a man that will accept my BS and God knows I can come up with a lot of BS

It took me MANY years to be strong within myself and my husband has taught me many valuable, hard lessons and for that, no matter what happens, I'll always be thankful for!

He gives me a lot of SN activity and boy is it hard to face demons..

posted May 19, 2017 08:15 AM            

not at all, I'm very grateful to read about your experiences

I think you're right..it's meaningless to go back to being the way you used to be while life has shown you other productive ways to be, which are truer to yourself and your destiny