posted May 23, 2017 08:22 AM            

I just graduated college. May 13th. Complete disaster.
My parents left before the commencement even started. Luckily and thankfully my boyfriend was there for support.

Since Pluto is transiting my 9th, squaring my natal Moon in the 6th, could this mean a relocation in jobs AND home?

What changes can I expect with the 9th/ 6th house?

Me and my mother's relationship is in flames and I don't see it ever improving. She's brainwashed by my verbally abusive father who also has a need to control his environment and everyone in it. (Sun/ Mercury square Saturn. Sun square Pluto.)

He's been in and out of prison my entire life so it's mainly just been me and my mother up until last year after he came home from his second bid (10 years). His first bid he came home when I was 6 and left again right before I turned 13.

Got into a physical altercation with my older sister before she fled back to New York and got murdered back in 2002. He's going through similar situations with me TODAY.

Both of my parents are making me out to be the target.

I am 23 years old, almost 24. I am not a child. I see things and people for who they are and not just what they show me. My parents don't like this because they aren't really good people at heart. My dad is a Capricorn Venus/ Mars so he makes it a point to keep his reputation in tact while his home and private life is a joke. He can never hold a stable job and he depends on my mother for everything but tries to run the household as if he deserves that right.

I know it's time for me to move out.

I think this Pluto transit represents all of these dynamics coming into play.

I've already lost 30 pounds.

Any insight?

What do you all think?

Please help me.

posted May 23, 2017 10:00 PM            

Things are coming to a head now...from the Pluto transit squaring your moon but also the node getting ready to square all other those planets lined up so neatly on the right side of your chart.

This is the time to break away and start your own life. It's not just going to happen tho. You have to look for the opportunities to help you along the way. Look hard.

Congrats on the graduation. You should be proud of your accomplishments. It's okay to feel let down by your parents but they don't seem to have their stuff together so expecting them to be supportive is just setting you up for disappointment. Remove yourself from the situation and focus on your life, not theirs. Tap into the people who are around that want to support you and make you see how great you are.

posted May 24, 2017 07:12 AM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Jesus...

Things are coming to a head now...from the Pluto transit squaring your moon but also the node getting ready to square all other those planets lined up so neatly on the right side of your chart.

This is the time to break away and start your own life. It's not just going to happen tho. You have to look for the opportunities to help you along the way. Look hard.

Congrats on the graduation. You should be proud of your accomplishments. It's okay to feel let down by your parents but they don't seem to have their stuff together so expecting them to be supportive is just setting you up for disappointment. Remove yourself from the situation and focus on your life, not theirs. Tap into the people who are around that want to support you and make you see how great you are.

You are not the reason your sister died, so stop feeling that way if you do. Taking that off your shoulders will be liberating.
Hang in there sister!

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What does transiting node squares imply?

& it's not easy at all. My 7th house ruler, Pluto, is conjunct my Sun and Mars. I feel trapped with no way out right now.

Me and my boyfriend have been discussing moving in together, but we don't want to rush things just because the situations calls for it. We're long distance somewhat (2 hr distance but we see each other enough that satisfies us both at this point) and we'll be a year in August.

I want to branch out but I don't know where to begin. None of my family members went to college let alone graduated except a few and they're distant relatives. So it's great that I obtained a degree but now what? I feel accomplished but defeated all over again all at the same time. My mother threatens to kick me out just about every day. It's hard to stay focused when you're uneasy about your resting grounds so to speak. Home doesn't even feel like home anymore.

Can you explain more on the transiting nodes and what this means?

posted May 24, 2017 07:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Just have firm enough boundaries with your parents, and you'll be fine.

If you're in the right mind-space, you should reasonably be able to ignore them, and/or their actions.

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Even with Pluto transiting my 9th? Pluto is conjunct if my Uranus/ Neptune in my 9th applying.. second pass I believe. Doesn't this affect my mind somewhat?

I'm glad you mentioned that element because it brings this to my attention. Maybe this period in my life is all about becoming mentally independent and the emotions will follow. I'm very Uranian already and it's in my 9th natally.. mmm.

I will say, I am very attached to home and my mother. VERY. This is why this period is so hard for me.

posted May 28, 2017 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Just have firm enough boundaries with your parents, and you'll be fine.

If you're in the right mind-space, you should reasonably be able to ignore them, and/or their actions.

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