posted June 01, 2017 12:42 PM            

I could agree with that notion. There could be a confusion as to why they're feeling the way they are.. or why things make them feel certain ways. There could also be a confusion or a elusiveness to what they are feeling. An inability to put into words what they are feeling.

There's also a chance they are empathic but in a way that may be inconsistent. There may be times where they feel what others are feeling, or pick up on another person's feeling and believe those feelings to be their own.. this could actually partly be where the confusion regarding their feelings comes from. Because they unknowingly take on the feelings of others at different times, leaving them feeling many different conflicting feelings regarding a specific thing.. so essentially, after having picked up so many other people's feelings, without realizing that's what is happening, their own feelings become distant or distorted and they're left in a place of confusion of what it is they are actually feeling. In saying this, it instead could actually translate to them mixing up their own feelings and someone else's, rather than being confused by multiple people's feelings, it could just be a confusion brought on by a conflict in their feelings and someone else's.. leaving them to not really understand where they stand on something.. or why.. and such. Instead of rather being confused by many many different feelings from many different sources.. which in that case could lead to a total alienation to their own feelings, rather than just a conflict between their own and one other person's.

posted June 01, 2017 12:50 PM            

let's just say that drugs, spirituality, and impossible or abusive relationships dominated my life from ages 14 - 20.
that's when i got sick of feeling like i had no agency in my own life. so i did many healing and personal power spells, and dedicated my life to the only thing i truly cared about, an escape that could actually make my life better! and that was music and art in general.

they say neptune dissolves what it touches, and for the longest time i actively considered myself to be basically emotionless, needless, which i now know is because of the way i grew up. this of course manifested in a bunch of personality issues. i felt like i didn't exist, because i acted as if i didn't, always escaping into drugs, or someone else, or to the negative side of spirituality. i still have problems understanding and therefore dealing with my own emotions. but having something to live for definitely helps.
I'd say the main problem with this aspect is simply denial; self-deception.

posted June 01, 2017 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
And oh yeah! Reading the Stars is so right about the empathy, that is a major part of it. If we take on others' feelings, we deal with their feelings instead of ours, and ignore ours completely. this goes for family as well as strangers on the subway. it was very difficult to adjust to being surrounded by a bunch of people all the time.. always very intense and i attracted so many dangerous weirdos to me my first year in a city. Now, people don't mess with me because i developed my own aura and stuck to it. Haha

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posted June 01, 2017 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
I have a semisquare between them and have them contra-parallel... it isn't quite the same but..

I could agree with that notion. There could be a confusion as to why they're feeling the way they are.. or why things make them feel certain ways. There could also be a confusion or a elusiveness to what they are feeling. An inability to put into words what they are feeling.

There's also a chance they are empathic but in a way that may be inconsistent. There may be times where they feel what others or feeling, or pick up on another person's feeling and believe those feelings to be their own.. this could actually partly be where the confusion regarding their feelings comes from. Because they unknowingly take on the feelings of others at different times, leaving them feeling many different conflicting feelings regarding a specific thing.. so essentially, after having picked up so many other people's feelings, without realizing that's what is happening, their own feelings become distant or distorted and they're left in a place of confusion of what it is they are actually feeling. In saying this, it instead could actually translate to them mixing up their own feelings and someone else's, rather than being confused by multiple people's feelings, it could just be a confusion brought on by a conflict in their feelings and someone else's.. leaving them to not really understand where they stand on something.. or why.. and such. Instead of rather being confused by many many different feelings from many different sources.. which in that case could lead to a total alienation to their own feelings, rather than just a conflict between their own and one other person's.

I got a little repetitive near the end there and some of that part may have been unneeded.. so let me know if it was confusing in any way

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This was great!!

posted June 01, 2017 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
lol yes!! everyone's probably sick of hearing me mention it, but I could write a book about it.

let's just say that drugs, spirituality, and impossible or abusive relationships dominated my life from ages 14 - 20.
that's when i got sick of feeling like i had no agency in my own life. so i did many healing and personal power spells, and dedicated my life to the only thing i truly cared about, an escape that could actually make my life better! and that was music and art in general.

they say neptune dissolves what it touches, and for the longest time i actively considered myself to be basically emotionless, needless, which i now know is because of the way i grew up. this of course manifested in a bunch of personality issues. i felt like i didn't exist, because i acted as if i didn't, always escaping into drugs, or someone else, or to the negative side of spirituality. i still have problems understanding and therefore dealing with my own emotions. but having something to live for definitely helps.
I'd say the main problem with this aspect is simply denial; self-deception.

And oh yeah! Reading the Stars is so right about the empathy, that is a major part of it. If we take on others' feelings, we deal with their feelings instead of ours, and ignore ours completely. this goes for family as well as strangers on the subway. it was very difficult to adjust to being surrounded by a bunch of people all the time.. always very intense and i attracted so many dangerous weirdos to me my first year in a city. Now, people don't mess with me because i developed my own aura and stuck to it. Haha

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Thanks for sharing your life on this particular placement sounds kind of like me! Sun conjunct Neptune !

posted June 02, 2017 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
I have a semisquare between them and have them contra-parallel... it isn't quite the same but..

I could agree with that notion. There could be a confusion as to why they're feeling the way they are.. or why things make them feel certain ways. There could also be a confusion or a elusiveness to what they are feeling. An inability to put into words what they are feeling.

There's also a chance they are empathic but in a way that may be inconsistent. There may be times where they feel what others are feeling, or pick up on another person's feeling and believe those feelings to be their own.. this could actually partly be where the confusion regarding their feelings comes from. Because they unknowingly take on the feelings of others at different times, leaving them feeling many different conflicting feelings regarding a specific thing.. so essentially, after having picked up so many other people's feelings, without realizing that's what is happening, their own feelings become distant or distorted and they're left in a place of confusion of what it is they are actually feeling. In saying this, it instead could actually translate to them mixing up their own feelings and someone else's, rather than being confused by multiple people's feelings, it could just be a confusion brought on by a conflict in their feelings and someone else's.. leaving them to not really understand where they stand on something.. or why.. and such. Instead of rather being confused by many many different feelings from many different sources.. which in that case could lead to a total alienation to their own feelings, rather than just a conflict between their own and one other person's.

I got a little repetitive near the end there and some of that part may have been unneeded.. so let me know if it was confusing in any way

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Basically what was written above. Growing up, they usually had boundary issues with their mom or a parental figure and therefore had a harder time figuring out what they were feeling themselves. As they get older, they learn to differentiate the energies more. Anyone with this aspect would need a lot of time to be alone where they can centre themselves and get in tune with their own energies. Crystals could help a lot and water cleansing.

posted June 02, 2017 11:04 AM            

He was emotional and was easily upset about things but would quickly get over them (Aries moon). However, he was almost a walking contradiction because he would joke and tease people a lot (Sagittarius) but he was also very sensitive. He was actually very good about talking about his feelings, especially towards me. If we would get into an argument he would talk calmly about his emotions. I didn't find that he had a hard time expressing them.

He wasn't dreamy, like I'd imagine a moon-Neptune person to be (I'm a Pisces moon myself). He was creative and individualistic (sun conjunct Uranus) but not Neptune creative- if that makes sense.

He did struggle with alcohol though, which is one of the main reasons I ended our relationship. He was not able to simply have one drink, and I got tired of babying him through his addiction. I think alcohol was a means of escape for him.

He was shy around new people and wasn't good at opening up to them. Despite having an outgoing personality, when people first met him, he was very reserved.

I'm not really sure how the moon is supposed to represent someone's parents. But he was very dependent on his parents, especially his mom. She babied him a lot. Granted they struggled having any children, had a few miscarriages, and finally had him. He was born three months premature. So maybe that had something to do with it as well. He definitely had the only child mentality and I feel he was clingy towards them but also took advantage of them as well. His mom was very kind but I feel that she was a bit of a doormat when it came to him. Not sure if that had anything to do with Moon-Neptune.

One thing that I liked about him is that he believed in astrology and ghosts and what not. He didn't think my astrology stuff was total garbage, he believed in it. I think that has to do with the moon-Neptune definitely.

posted June 02, 2017 01:33 PM            

Moon in pisces
Moon Quintile chiron exact
Moon biquintile pluto
Pluto biquintile chiron

posted June 02, 2017 02:18 PM            

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There's always a few ways a placement can manifest and that depends a lot on the person.. as well as their chart as a whole.

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posted June 04, 2017 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
My ex of four years had Aries moon square Neptune. I have been wondering about this placement so I'm glad someone started a thread about it.

He was emotional and was easily upset about things but would quickly get over them (Aries moon). However, he was almost a walking contradiction because he would joke and tease people a lot (Sagittarius) but he was also very sensitive. He was actually very good about talking about his feelings, especially towards me. If we would get into an argument he would talk calmly about his emotions. I didn't find that he had a hard time expressing them.

He wasn't dreamy, like I'd imagine a moon-Neptune person to be (I'm a Pisces moon myself). He was creative and individualistic (sun conjunct Uranus) but not Neptune creative- if that makes sense.

He did struggle with alcohol though, which is one of the main reasons I ended our relationship. He was not able to simply have one drink, and I got tired of babying him through his addiction. I think alcohol was a means of escape for him.

He was shy around new people and wasn't good at opening up to them. Despite having an outgoing personality, when people first met him, he was very reserved.

I'm not really sure how the moon is supposed to represent someone's parents. But he was very dependent on his parents, especially his mom. She babied him a lot. Granted they struggled having any children, had a few miscarriages, and finally had him. He was born three months premature. So maybe that had something to do with it as well. He definitely had the only child mentality and I feel he was clingy towards them but also took advantage of them as well. His mom was very kind but I feel that she was a bit of a doormat when it came to him. Not sure if that had anything to do with Moon-Neptune.

One thing that I liked about him is that he believed in astrology and ghosts and what not. He didn't think my astrology stuff was total garbage, he believed in it. I think that has to do with the moon-Neptune definitely.

I do have to say that moon-Neptune men are attracted to Pisces women. I'm a Pisces sun and moon myself. His new girlfriend was born 6 days after me. So she has a very similiar chart to me, except with a Taurus moon. But he said she is into art, counseling, and that she's kind of hippie-ish, which sounds very Pisces to me

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This was amazing! Wow! I have a family friend who is also male that has this and he was also born premature as well! And definetly depends on his parents however he is not open to spirituality and astrology and ghosts he doesn't like it he doesn't believe it but maybe it's because his moon is in VIRGO square Neptune in sag.... What's his mans rising sign if I may ask?

posted June 04, 2017 10:36 PM            

However, as you may know/remember, I also have Saturn conjunct Moon (I also have Saturn square Neptune, but it's a bit wide). So, I'm not the best test subject for this placement. In fact, for many reasons, this is going to be very strange to explain.

I would describe my daily experience as a mixture of what you wrote, and what ReadingTheStars95 wrote, along with a few additional details. Generally, I feel very calm. It's hard to sway me into a particular emotional direction (although, my Aries Moon makes me prone to getting annoyed at minor inconveniences, for a very short period of time..like a minute and then I'm over it haha). When I analyze how I feel, sometimes I like it and sometimes I hate it. Sometimes I love how I can be calm in almost any circumstance. Other times, I ask myself why I can't be "normal" and just feel things that I know I'm supposed to feel in a particular situation.

It's weird and hard to explain. It's not sociopathy, because I actually feel things. Yet, it's almost like walking around feeling like I have a heavy heart, or a voidness. Yet, the voidness is still a feeling in and of itself. In fact, I feel like "the voidness" is what I tap into when I write my songs. In that sense, it's kinda like a contradiction, because it feels like there is this voidness, but there's actually quite a bit of emotion there (hence why I describe it as "heaviness" AND "voidness"). This heaviness feeling..it's also physical. I can feel it in my chest.

Which brings me to my next point, creativity. If you look at a lot of famous musicians, they have Moon/Neptune aspects (not always the square, but sometimes). Within my chart, it's the only major Neptune aspect that I have. I feel like, symbolically speaking, this aspect correlates with my creative ability.

Now to make things very confusing: I'm an INFJ (borderline INTJ) and an Empath (verified by a Psychic Reading). If I'm in a group of people, their personalities greatly affect how I will conduct myself. People both energize me and drain me. I can walk into a room and suddenly become the most extraverted, happy, Leo-like person you know (correlating with my Astrology chart). Yet, I can also walk into a room where I get a feeling of deadness, or energetic incompatibility, and I naturally get a vibe of "sit down, shut up, keep to yourself" and I'll turn into the most introverted person you'll ever know. When it comes to my Empathic ability, it's a mixture of reading other people's feelings, relating to their feelings, and determining my compatibility with others. Regardless of how someone feels, I can generally relate to that feeling, and see things from their perspective. I'm also pretty good with determining my compatibility with others, just by feeling their energy (I try to be open and nice to everyone, but I know who won't reciprocate or will try to kick me out of their lives). With that being said, I'm not exactly comfortable yet saying that I can read others' emotions. When I'm around others, I definitely feel things. Things feel different, depending on who I'm around, and what they are going through. But, it might not be what they are feeling, all the time.

When it comes to drugs and alcohol, I don't have an appeal for either. Now, Neptune's escapism can also translate to other things. I find myself daydreaming/fantasizing a lot (my favourite movie genre is 80s Fantasy/Sci-Fi). I find myself attracted to Spirituality, almost to the point of obsession (one could argue that this is a type of "escape"). I'm kinda addicted to Dr Pepper, but I'm able to control how much I consume. Overall, though, my escapist tendencies aren't alarming, in comparison to what others experience. Maybe it's my Saturn conjunct Moon, that safeguards me from this.

Oh, and in case anyone is wondering, my "voidness"/"heaviness" is not depression. It's different. My symptoms don't really match what people with depression have. Also, medical tests show I have normal (slightly below average) REM sleep. People with depression have abnormally high REM sleep. I just thought I'd clear this up, before someone made the suggestion.

Only one person has been able to breakthrough my weird feeling...my Soulmate. And, ever since I met her, I feel like I'm more in-touch with my emotions, overall...and a lot more emotional. Still, when we're not communicating, the weird feeling comes back.

posted June 05, 2017 05:27 PM            

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Angel- he was a libra rising.

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Interesting...