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Topic: This Scorpio? I don't think so!
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Choc
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posted June 06, 2017 06:32 AM
  
Sooooo this guy I've been communicating with [and hopefully I get into his pants some time in the future] claims he is not jealous at all.
Honestly, I call BULLS***.
I do not know his asc but I managed to get him to tell me he was born some time in the morning [it ain't easy asking someone his birthtime for astrology purposes, not everyone's a fan].
He works in the army and for a long time, he used to work as a bartender, at the same time actually.
He is also a coach for a local soccer team and has been elected as president of his local community as well.
He seems disciplined about his routine.
He likes his heavy partying and boozing as well.
He used to be in a long-distance relationship that he broke off 6 months ago. At the beginning he would party hard and try to get laid but he obvs. had an epiphany and he's been trying to get his sh** together and clean his act. Admittedly, he wishes to stay away for about a year from "romance, promises for a lifetime and all things romantic" for about a year because in his words "people nowadays don't know what they want". Obvs. a jab to his ex.
He claims he's "totally cool about things" and no jealous at all. He also wishes to stay away from "crazy, jealous, possessive, whiny women". there, I said he is most likely the one who asks for it, as is usually the case, sth which he didn't deny.
He's very charming and sociable but looks like the kinda guy people don't know much about his personal life.
Claims to be discreet, I say extremely secretive. He also describes himself as a sealed chest that rarely opens up. Typical.
Easy to reveal sexual stuff, not so much in the family issues.
I've managed to make him open up a bit but there is a loooooong way to go with this mofo.
He thinks he can full this Cancerian, HAHA NOT.
He's of medium height, with a propensity for weight gain but he used to be a racer when he was younger, trying to regain his mojo now. you know, that "phoenix rising from his ashes" BS.PICS http://imgbox.com/qzg4XVHD http://imgbox.com/vbTOnIQ1 http://imgbox.com/hf1c61GF http://imgbox.com/aCNg90TF CHART http://imgbox.com/flwcO5Em IP: Logged |
soren
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posted June 06, 2017 06:41 AM
when people get back from the army they lose their conventionality AKA he is in a house that is burning down, gets arm majorly burned, walks out, says nah that didn't bother me. what, just a burn? they often suffer from PTSD IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted June 06, 2017 06:46 AM
Well,with Venus/Mars square Neptune, I can believe that he may not be the jealous type.Saturn sits on his Sun/Mercury and widely conjuncts his Moon. Saturn tends to suppress or delay reactions. So the intense energy of Scorpio may be inhibited...a lot. But it don't mean the individual don't feel it. Its the expression that is challenging IP: Logged |
soren
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posted June 06, 2017 06:49 AM
oh asc is unknownIP: Logged |
Choc
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posted June 06, 2017 09:42 AM
Ascendant is unknown indeed, which is why I got the pics there. I only know he was born in the morning.Challenging expression, how? quote:
Originally posted by soren:
when people get back from the army they lose their conventionality AKA he is in a house that is burning down, gets arm majorly burned, walks out, says nah that didn't bother me. what, just a burn? they often suffer from PTSD
he still is in the army and he has never been in the frontline. Our army is somewhat different from what you got in the US.IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted June 06, 2017 06:53 PM
Nah, he looks intense.IP: Logged |
Choc
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posted June 09, 2017 09:03 PM
I'd also really appreciate some guesses on the dsc. He is a morning baby so he is probably somewhere between libra to barely capricornIP: Logged |
Choc
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posted June 18, 2017 06:21 PM
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Gemini30
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posted June 18, 2017 11:22 PM
One thing I've noticed from Scorpio Suns, Moons, ASC's, or Plutonic people is that they usually project their own flaws out in the open claiming that it's always "their" fault when it really is their own fault. I know this because I do the same thing, or I at least did the same thing. I'm 100% certain he is the jealous type which is why he can't be in a long term relationship. All Scorpio moons are jealous, yet they never want to be noticed that they are. The guy is in love with women but he doesn't know what to do. I'd also go with Libra as his ASC. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted June 18, 2017 11:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
One thing I've noticed from Scorpio Suns, Moons, ASC's, or Plutonic people is that they usually project their own flaws out in the open claiming that it's always "their" fault when it really is their own fault. I know this because I do the same thing, or I at least did the same thing.
The Gemini sun I know did this things too. He will do the projection and as an Aries moon it feels like he accuses me for something I am not or for something I don't do while the fact is it's him (after I learned it). Even when you ask him a question, he will react (like he didn't like being questioned) and will turn the question at you, after he gets your answer he will say that he thinks the same and it feels like he covers up his true nature. He only has Scorpio as a pluto and pluto touching personal planets in a minor aspect. But I do know his ex has Scorpio moon/mercury/venus conjunct pluto, and sun widely conjunct pluto, mars minor aspect to pluto. I feel like I date his ex. And his identity is lost somewhere, busy copping others identity. After some years dating, he also copies my attitude while I know he has poor attitude in the past. But, yes, Scorpionic or Pluto heavy influence people are good covering their inner nature. Don't just believe what they have said, they are known liking control to the situation and to the people.  IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted June 19, 2017 12:06 AM
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
The Gemini sun I know did this things too. He will do the projection and as an Aries moon it feels like he accuses me for something I am not or for something I don't do while the fact is it's him (after I learned it). Even when you ask him a question, he will react (like he didn't like being questioned) and will turn the question at you, after he gets your answer he will say that he thinks the same and it feels like he covers up his true nature.He only has Scorpio as a pluto and pluto touching personal planets in a minor aspect. But I do know his ex has Scorpio moon/mercury/venus conjunct pluto, and sun widely conjunct pluto, mars minor aspect to pluto. I feel like I date his ex. And his identity is lost somewhere, busy copping others identity. After some years dating, he also copies my attitude while I know he has poor attitude in the past. But, yes, Scorpionic or Pluto heavy influence people are good covering their inner nature. Don't just believe what they have said, they are known liking control to the situation and to the people.
Do you know his birth time? Maybe he has 8th house placements. And exactly on Plutonic people. I never listen to what they have to say, really. I only pay attention to their actions.
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Ann7
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posted June 19, 2017 12:56 AM
He is definitely the jealous type. Sun/moon in scorp? Plus mercury, saturn and pluto cusping? Please.I am a scorpio and if we say we aren't jealous it's a full on lie. I will say that the --only-- time I get jealous is within my relationship. I am never jealous of anothers good fortune. He is probably very popular and also very psychic. For as jealous as he can potentially get, he will not like his mate to be possessive of him (yes, we are full of double standards). Venus/ mars in virgo will make him extremely picky especially when choosing a mate. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted June 19, 2017 02:38 AM
Venus in virgo are very big on personal growth and passionate about it. That combo of scorpio with virgo can result in someone with jealous tendencies early in life but who outgrows it as they get older and experience life more fully. Like he understands the issues with jealousy and lets it go and does not feed it.I use to be very jealous when I was young but now I am far from it, my understanding of human nature is too strong so I dont get wraped up in that. I understand we all have the ability to feel deeply attracted to multiple people and accept it truly, getting jealous is truly a waste of your energy. An evolved Scorpio who has dealt with his shadow side and integrated it does not waste his or her time with that but if he is this way he grew into that, he experienced a true transformation at some point like I did.. Sun in virgo, Scorpio rising with venus conjunct mars in leo.
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posted June 19, 2017 02:57 AM
Let's be clear everyone projects and feels jealous regardless of sign but if you work through your stuff you can free yourself from the power it has over you and become a person who does not let jealousy control them or be a strong focus in their life. Also, regardless of sign the more aware you are of yourself and the more you have integrated your shadow side the less you project. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted June 19, 2017 05:11 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
Do you know his birth time? Maybe he has 8th house placements. And exactly on Plutonic people. I never listen to what they have to say, really. I only pay attention to their actions.
I don't know his exact birth time as he doesn't like me to dig his life deeper. I have tried in several occasions with different tricks and I get the same reaction, he gets annoyed. When I had a chance to meet his Mom, his Mom lightly told me he was born in the morning around 3 to 7 am. But he told me to not believe his Mom because she barely remembered anything and didn't care with events or didn't take anything seriously that his Mom also didn't know her birthday and their family didn't celebrate birthday or really that care to each other. And I still don't have a chance to prove if what he told me was true. Do you think what kind of placement/house he has if he describes his family like that? Or his Mom like that? He definitely has a Sag moon (early degree) because it seems like his Mother free him but I'm not sure where the house is. I have some thoughts that:
- If he really has rising in a very early degree Taurus, it will make his moon in the 8th house following saturn and uranus. But I don't think he has moon in the 8th house because I don't feel deepness with him and he doesn't like being alone/single for along time or even for a minute, so it leads to..
- his moon is in 7th house and saturn/uranus are in the 8th house. And neptune may not (stay in 9th house) or may move to the 8th house too. I think he has either rising in Taurus (he will have 8th house) or in Cancer (8th house empty). He has thick neck but it may come from his venus in taurus influence. He has a plump body, barely thin (he has bigger bones), he told me as a kid he was a fat kid who liked to eat. All of his family are also big and I feel like a tiny athletic little girl who try to fit in, in a sarcastic way. He tried to make me living in an unhealthy way so I could look bigger. He tend to act indifferent and it's really annoying BUT the strange thing is he can't make a different which one is fake or real when some beggers ask him for money and he tend to give sympathy with the fake beggers because of their convincing dramatic actions. This is why his ex run all of his money unpredictably for a payback. And cheat for a revenge. Should be careful with Scorpionic or plutonic people, don't hurt their darkness because they will drag you to their darkness unpredictably. IP: Logged |
Choc
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posted June 19, 2017 08:46 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
I'm 100% certain he is the jealous type which is why he can't be in a long term relationship.
Ι can't be certain of this, I do know of one big relationship though.
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colorful butterfly
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posted June 20, 2017 12:47 AM
haha, I moon conjunct pluto in my 1st house. I use to never think that I was the jealous type till one day I had to admit what I was holding others back from getting close to me. Astrology is cool and all, we all experience jelousy at one point in our lives. If it is Scorpio related he just doesn't want to admit his flaws, scorpios sting so therefor he knows what to hide so that you won't use it against him. Blah blah blah. If you like dark , intense , controlling then go for it. I know as a Cancer sun, we love the passion and depth scorpios have. we are just really sensitive to the sting scorpios can give. Funny because my moon can be that way from time to time, lashing out when someone hurts you. IP: Logged |
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posted June 21, 2017 02:13 AM
"One thing I've noticed from Scorpio Suns, Moons, ASC's, or Plutonic people is that they usually project their own flaws out in the open claiming that it's always "their" fault when it really is their own fault."So true and it's also a sign of narcissism. My husband is Scorpio sun, moon and Mercury and I can hugely relate to what you said. IP: Logged |
Choc
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posted June 27, 2017 01:17 PM
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Choc
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Choc
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posted July 07, 2017 04:04 PM
An update on the guy.
So he's getting transferred to another place far away from here. I had a crush on me and I got effed for the n-th time.
So since I'm losing him, I thought I could put my gem Venus opp uranus b*tch to use. I almost directly suggested a one-night stand. Since I'm not getting the package of a man (I mean his personality, attention, affection, sex etc) I could at least the "package" of a man that I really like.
Ps.I know he fancies me. there's sexual tension too
Ps2. He has ignored this request so far.
A Scorpio is missing on a chance for a good lay.WTF.IP: Logged |
Choc
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posted July 08, 2017 11:09 AM
This is effing perplexing. Who wouldn't wanna get laid?
Ooh I'm "the serious one"IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted July 08, 2017 05:09 PM
Could be other placements in his chart such as a Cancer moon which may make his want to have a marriage partner with deep, intense transformational sex. IP: Logged |
Choc
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posted July 08, 2017 11:39 PM
Νope. Scorpio moon too. The chart is in the 1st post. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted July 09, 2017 12:22 AM
Defiantly a lot of Scorpio energy going on there, the virgo and sag placements probably offset this some. I am thinking looking at his chart, he more than likely is a very intense person in regards to a relationship but I have noticed people with Virgo mars and venus are very reserved with whom they get involved with. IP: Logged |
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