posted April 11, 2023 12:28 PM            

I must mention that even though this all happened on the backdrop of Ura-Ven, it was the transit of Jup on natal Merc/Moon/Mars T square that all this got triggered.

posted April 11, 2023 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Uranus in Taurus opp my Venus in Sco. My love life has blossomed. Seeing a Virgo Sun/Moon with Asc in Leo. It's going well.

I must mentioned that even though this all happened on the backdrop of Ura-Ven, it was the transit of Jul on natal Merc/Moon/Mars T square that all this got triggered.

I didn't think I was interested in getting a bf. But here I am now with a bf.🕺🏿🕺🏿

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That is awesome!!!!

thank you for sharing

Love this

posted April 12, 2023 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I love hearing this for you Aries23Degrees

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posted April 12, 2023 01:24 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
That is awesome!!!!

thank you for sharing

Love this

Yay

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posted April 12, 2023 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Maybe you guys will get married suddenly! Do keep us posted with all that it will be doing with your sun, saturn and pluto! It should definitely shake things up for you!

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posted April 30, 2023 07:43 PM            

trined my Cap stellium..

Ascendant, Sun, Mercury, Vesta

still trining Venus

sextiling Saturn in the 7th house

Unfortunately romance wise nothing really. I mean I had a long distance situatonship but for the last 2 years it was extremely on and off... And several moths ago we kinda made the final cut.

it was not a painful ending... .

and I have no-one in sights..Uranus trine Venus will be active till next year so we still got time but I am not really looking at all...

what these aspects brought to my life,

I have started hosting a radio program... I ve met a lot of creative, intelligent, talented people... a lot younger than me...

I ve designed my own website and ai art is a section of it.

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Many years ago when I saw these aspects coming after going hell and coming back, I ve dreamt I would be free as a bird, in love and having fun... partying and creating...

I truly don't care that much about not having romance in my life... But I am not free... that saddenes me... Uranus making so many easy aspects to my personal planets - no freedom ?

posted May 06, 2023 03:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

🤣 Yes hypatia. Thank you. It's a wonderful connection. So easy. His Venus is in my 5th house. He is Asc in Leo trine my Uranus in Sag. And my Asc in Aries is trine his Uranus in Sag. My stellium in Sag is in his 5th house. His Mars is in my 1st house and Mercury in 7th house.

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

posted May 06, 2023 08:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
It's exactly oppose my lilith Pluto and almost my moon. I have been less closeted about my witchyness.

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posted May 06, 2023 08:33 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Uranus is still in my 7th, Pluto still in my 3rd. We are even more worried about money, and politicians are already asking me for money. So, I’ve started responding with a small list of what we need money for, and the email for my paypal account, asking if they can chip in with whatever they can afford. I got emails three days in a row from the same guy, so he was the first to get my own request.

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Good for you!

Inflation is definitely hurting the masses and is concerning...

posted May 06, 2023 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Isa:
What happened, Hypatia? Are you guys still together after the Uranus transits to Venus?

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Originally posted by sis:
transit Uranus Taurus for me / from my 5th house

trined my Cap stellium..

Ascendant, Sun, Mercury, Vesta

still trining Venus

sextiling Saturn in the 7th house

Unfortunately romance wise nothing really. I mean I had a long distance situatonship but for the last 2 years it was extremely on and off... And several moths ago we kinda made the final cut.

it was not a painful ending... .

and I have no-one in sights..Uranus trine Venus will be active till next year so we still got time but I am not really looking at all...

what these aspects brought to my life,

I have started hosting a radio program... I ve met a lot of creative, intelligent, talented people... a lot younger than me...

I ve designed my own website and ai art is a section of it.

.....

Many years ago when I saw these aspects coming after going hell and coming back, I ve dreamt I would be free as a bird, in love and having fun... partying and creating...

I truly don't care that much about not having romance in my life... But I am not free... that saddenes me... Uranus making so many easy aspects to my personal planets - no freedom ?

I am having a hard time to come to terms with this...

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Uranus can definitely make you detach more with dating and feel more comfortable in relationships that don't feel restricting and are less defined but were there is still a solid friendship there etc...

tr uranus in my 5th trine DC ruler

-left my husband
-delved into the world of dating apps and dated quite a few folks
-entered a uranian relationship were we are committed but dont label the relationship either
-started private practice/my own business/working for myself...
-started to paint and have gotten super into acrylic pouring, is definitely an established new hobby of mine and I am finally tapping into my creative side!!!! love this.

But now tr uranus is still trine my DC ruler and this year I am basically over dating and have zero interest in meeting anyone new but I am involved in that relationship with no labels and feel content enough

uranus will start squaring my venus conjunct mars this summer and I feel it will just be a continuation of tr uranus trine my DC ruler...will probably delve more into my artistic side and take an unexpected trip to satisfy the need for some adventure and excitement but will give you guys an update on that later this summer. I think my guy and I will probably continue on as this energy stabilizes if you are both embracing something unconventional it seems and saturn is hitting our composite and davison in a way that is solidifying and making it unlikely we break up.

with uranus hitting love planets you get breakups or on and off relationships or an unconventional arrangement or relationships that start or end abruptly, I feel I have experienced all of the above with current transit and you will also attract uranian types..it can also make you detach about your love life and not want to be in a relationship and focus on other things I feel.

I feel uranus aspecting DC ruler is similar to uranus aspecting venus but will confirm this later this summer...

Blessings to all

posted May 07, 2023 08:28 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I was reading your venus square tr uranus thread from like a decade ago this morning...good info in there...I imagine that was someone else you were dating back then and not your hubby.

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posted May 07, 2023 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I have zero regrets getting a divorce. But sometimes I'll realize in social situations that everyone is just about coupled up. It can get me a little down sometimes. But not a reason to get into a relationship.

Uranus oppose Moon, Pluto, Lilith
Uranus square NN, IC, MC, SN
Uranus square Mars
Uranus trine Neptune

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posted May 07, 2023 07:09 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
wait did you divorce your current guy with venus in virgo? when?

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His psychological abuse, his lack of empathy, it was hard for him to say nice things about me. He was dismissive to things that were important to me. He impacted my mental health. He was just a downer. He is only emotional impacted if it affects him. If something bad only happens to me, then he doesn't give a **** and I'm overreacting. Just lack of emotional connection in general.
He lied to me a couple times too. It just got to be too exhausting to the point of "I'd rather risk just starting over again, not knowing the outcome"

What made me leave him was his horrible attitude and support when I had a full on colitis attack. He does not get upset about big things, really little dumb things. My last straw for leaving him was him berating me for just about everything I bought at the grocery store when I was making dying animal noises on the toilet.

posted May 07, 2023 11:10 PM            

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His psychological abuse, his lack of empathy, it was hard for him to say nice things about me. He was dismissive to things that were important to me. He impacted my mental health. He was just a downer. He is only emotional impacted if it affects him. If something bad only happens to me, then he doesn't give a **** and I'm overreacting. Just lack of emotional connection in general.
He lied to me a couple times too. It just got to be too exhausting to the point of "I'd rather risk just starting over again, not knowing the outcome"

What made me leave him was his horrible attitude and support when I had a full on colitis attack. He does not get upset about big things, really little dumb things. My last straw for leaving him was him berating me for just about everything I bought at the grocery store when I was making dying animal noises on the toilet.

I left a note and left him in November. I drove back 11 hours to my home state. Took time to recover my health. Filed for divorce in January. Got divorced at the end of March. I am overall enjoying being on the other side of divorce. Even on my bad days, at least I don't have that Virgo Venus man making me feel worse than I already do.

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Well congrats on leaving him. I remember when I would tell people/strangers I got divorced/separated/whatever; they often looked sad or would say "I am sorry" and that bothered me bc yes it would have been nice if we did not have the issues that we had but we did and they never got resolved so it was very empowering to walk away finally and a cause for celebration and not sadness in my perspective. The two main reasons I left were big deals. There were so many fights that we had that should have never happened and quite a few of them he would get out of control, I feel he has intermittent explosive disorder and unresolved trauma and when he would get like that it was very toxic and I don't' want to ever deal with that again nor being in a relationship that is basically platonic and sexless. I want him to succeed and will always care about him as a dear close friend but no regrets, I definitely made the right choice and I am just glad I finally left and for once put what is best for me first. Him becoming addicted to a video game and neglecting his business/checking out from life were the last straws for me.

^^You read this and is hard to understand that I care and don't hate him. I feel we had a deep bond and friendship and that we truly did love each other deeply and unconditionally but when it comes down to it it was a toxic relationship and our issues never got resolved; it was time to end it and set myself free.

Now I am in a friends and lovers arrangement for a year now this month, it was on and off last year and we seem to have broken that on and off cycle but who knows what the future holds with Uranus all over my love planets; its just teaching me detachment and to learn to put myself first more. I am nourishing more a relationship with myself and this relationship we shall see if it passes the test of time. My only issue is that the sex is fantastic but inconsistent bc he suffers from deep depression and anxiety and it sometimes leads to him just shutting down and is like he disconnects from his body and feels no motivation for anything and just wants to lay in bed. His depression is definitely rough for him specially but also dating someone deeply depressed is not easy.

Dating is weird, relationships are hard and being single is nice but can get lonely which is why is nice to have a close friend with benefits if you are single and I fall under that category.