posted June 27, 2017 10:03 PM            

My best friend is the same. She has Cap venus, I have Virgo venus. When we were in high school, we used to show each other girls we don't like and then comment on her appearance. I guess this still kind of remains with me because my bf's brother is trying to date someone and I said she looked like donkey from Shrek. I didn't really mean to be mean when I said it. I just noticed the way her mouth was positioned on her face and the size of her lips. Of course, I don't know her and I don't know if I will like her personality or not. But I feel like what I said just gave them the wrong impression.

Sometimes people think I'm trying to be mean when I comment on physical things, even with smells and tastes, but I'm really not. I just notice things and my g*ddamn mouth is too outspoken to shut up.

posted June 27, 2017 11:03 PM            

With my other venus in Aqua friend, he tells me that intelligence is more important to him when choosing a mate. The same as venus in Gemini.

The Venus in Taurus and, hell yeah, he likes all about the beauty in women, physical appearance seems more way important for him than how comfortable he is with the two energy collide. He will try to get close with people who have good physical appearance, I never see him around ugly women long enough or even try to get close.

My brother who has Venus in Virgo is the same. I have noticed all those girls (he gets close to) are physically attractive. He doesn't really care at first about their personality and the feel when they are together.

Fire venus tend to like people who are active and lively, they will cling onto you if you are the same.

posted June 28, 2017 06:36 AM            

My boyfriend has Venus in Taurus opposite my Scorpio Sun-Pluto conjunction by 1 degree.

I have Venus in Scorpio.

He just doesn't understand how I can date someone who isn't all that physically attractive. When I tried explaining this concept to him when discussing my previous relationships, it's like he didn't understand at all. Like it was a foreign currency nicely. It's fascinating, actually, he really doesn't understands how physical appearance cannot matter in the world of attraction and dating.

posted June 28, 2017 07:32 AM            

Pretty sure that everyone needs to be physically attracted to their mate. Thankfully we all have different tastes.

posted June 28, 2017 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Koniucha:

Pretty sure that everyone needs to be physically attracted to their mate. Thankfully we all have different tastes.

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Exactly.

Everyone finds different things attractive, and what one person finds pleasing another will not. I think most people can generally agree when someone is all-around attractive (ie. certain celebrities or models) but to the DEGREE depends on what any one person looks for in a mate. There are butt people, breast people, leg people, eye people, lip people, hair people etc. etc.

If we look at the elements, I think earth sign people judge someone's attractiveness based on SENSUAL factors attune to the physical. I've noticed Virgo Venus' are very particular about cleanliness and simplicity - a girl (or guy) with a very no-frills approach to their routine. Taurus Venus' tend to enjoy people who are a little more "soft" - softly scented, soft clothing, "feminine" appearance. Cap Venus' seem to like someone practical, structured, mature - someone who is stable in "exterior" physical matters and can appreciate the finer things in life (but in more refined, less flashy way).

posted June 29, 2017 04:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
He just doesn't understand how I can date someone who isn't all that physically attractive. When I tried explaining this concept to him when discussing my previous relationships, it's like he didn't understand at all. Like it was a foreign currency nicely. It's fascinating, actually, he really doesn't understands how physical appearance cannot matter in the world of attraction.

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I am the same way actually. I cannot grasp my head around the idea of dating someone I really didn't find physically attractive. My boyfriend kinda gets annoyed when I tell him his exes are not very attractive. The one girl, I told him she was fat and her nose wasn't very flattering. He got annoyed and said it didn't matter because of her personality and that he could talk to her (Gemini venus). The other one, I said she didn't even have boobs, how the hell did he want to do her? He said she looked cute to him at the time. I always ask how he ended up dating his exes and I never understand. I guess we're pretty shallow in that sense.

posted June 29, 2017 04:15 AM            

I feel that the downside to having an earth venus is the shallowness that we have due to our sensitivity to the physical. Another one would be that we always work so hard to look good too because we think other people would look at us the way we look at them.

posted June 29, 2017 05:30 AM            

The Venus in Taurus guy i am seeing often says "yummy" when we are kissing or makes food related remarks etc. And i think that's funny.

Venus in Cap/Virg often have outrageous demands of how a woman is to look(I have Draco Venus in Virgo). But most often marry "plain Janes" (ironically enough).

posted June 30, 2017 01:07 AM            

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I feel that the downside to having an earth venus is the shallowness that we have due to our sensitivity to the physical. Another one would be that we always work so hard to look good too because we think other people would look at us the way we look at them.

Meh, speak for yourself.

It's not all about physical "attractiveness". My earthy energy manifests in an appreciation for the human physical form.

I am well aware of physical beauty, but then again I am attracted to beauty of all forms, not just physical. A human is made up of body, mind and spirit. I definitely will never downplay my appreciation for it.

It is part of the reason why I enjoy working in the healthcare field. Taking care of the body and connecting it with the mind and spirit.

posted July 03, 2017 11:29 AM            

Virgo is the sun of cleaning, noticing flaws so that you can correct them. No wonder why Venus is debilitated there.

You have a negative focus and can hardly find anything beautiful and that's because of your idea(s) of perfection. Yes it's true that some people are more attractive than others. It's the truth. But you have a negative focus.

And no it's not about having an earth Venus. A person with Venus in Taurus has a domicile Venus or Venus at home. They don't necessarily act like that unless they have moon or sun or a strong placement in Virgo.

As a Virgo myself especially when I was little since I was immature I had a very precise and accurate way to judge the appearance of things and know what resemblance it has and it would make others laugh. It's okay to think like that or when you're alone as long as it's all light and fun and you're not making fun of someone who might have some kind of problem. It's okay as long as you have a compassionate side to balance this so you know the right limits.

Thankfully I have a Pisces ascendant to balance my Virgo sun. By the way my Venus is in libra.

Usually if we have a problem with someone else's appearance and if you seriously do have a problem, that's strange and it's probably because they reflect or exaggerate some insecurities you might have yourself.

There are many variety of humans and we should just accept and appreciate that. And it's better to stop looking st things black and white and just see everything as something unique. Trying to adopt this perspective of things will not only be good for you, since you will start finding things naturally more beautiful (not necessarily in terms of "perfection" physical beauty"), but for others as well. But since you're a Venus Virgo it could be hard for you. You need to work on your Venus. Maybe pray to goddess Aphrodite. Everyone should do that I do it too in fact I pray many other gods that are linked to different planets do they can bless you and show you their gifts.

If you adopt this perspective it's like adopting the perspective of a strong Pisces person who has an innocent mind, and is unconditionally accepting to the point they even are an empath. Having this perspective can make your life look simpler and you will stop focusing on things or focusing the way you don't enjoy.

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posted July 03, 2017 01:23 PM            

My current bf is a Taurus Venus. He's said so many times how he loves how soft my skin is. He likes women who are natural looking as well, not in too much makeup.