posted July 06, 2017 03:33 PM            

Do you struggle to deal with "reality"?

posted July 06, 2017 03:59 PM            

Do you have strong saturn aspects?
Because I have a neptune/sun and I absoultely hate it.Some aspects are like simple to deal with,is like those that people say "your chart doesn't have power over you" or "that is just an excuse" I gree but this one FOR ME I feel is like a disease.Like a.. disease.Neverland check! Craziness double check.

I would exchange it any day,any time!
I noticed that Racole talked about saturn and though I'm capricorn I barely have saturn aspects,maybe is that or maybe is not,we are unique lol

posted July 06, 2017 04:34 PM            

I don't have problems with reality by itself is not that.However it makes me ever since I was a child to imagine things and stay there for a while.It's like having crisis! Where you go to this "fantasy world" as you call so I agree with someone here that mentioned "disease".Like a mental disorder,however sun isn't responsible for the mind right? Beyond weird.

posted July 06, 2017 04:43 PM            

I've curtailed it somewhat because I think it impedes making dreams actuality but Saturn is also trine my Neptune which helps.

posted July 06, 2017 05:44 PM            

I've never taken any drugs nor do i drink alcohol.

posted July 06, 2017 08:01 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I daydream a lot and have a crazy imagination I don't mind it!

pisces sun, moon, mercury conjunct

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Exactly, its one of the most therapeutic things to do, daydream and fantasize. I'm a romantic at heart and honestly I am far happier with my daydream fantasies of romance verses the reality because reality can be a disappointment. Especially when you tend to be in your head far more than others.

I'm a Lunar Pisces in the 3rd H sextile Neptune and Neptune in the first.

posted July 06, 2017 11:44 PM            

“Imagination lays the tracks for the Reality Train to follow.”

~ Caroline Casey (author, astrologer)

Neptune trine Mercury, "The Inspirational Thinker"
Neptune trine Mars, "The Practical Idealist"
Neptune square Jupiter, "The Seeker of The Dream"

Neptune sextile NN/GalacticCenter

posted July 07, 2017 01:14 AM            

I was born from a mother who has Venus in pisces and a father who has mars in pisces. Both are having cancer as a mars and a venus, so they can be very protective at times. I grew up religiously and our home life kind of like living in a fantasy because it is all good ('till now). I never knew there was a dark side of the world as my Mom controlled the TV, no internet, no handphone, until we were all in a college, far away from home and living alone. So, yes, my venus in pisces lives this dream, a kindness, forgiveness, compassion, loyalty, honesty, innocent heart, helping others, smile to strangers etc, it's a kind world. I saw the world through rose glasses. I was very naive in the big city because I never knew the dark places exist even within our self (heart)..

I was forced to deal with reality when I was in my first real relationship. The darkest moment in my life. I loss 22 pounds in 2-3 months without any exercises, it crushed and burned the good things that I thought we all lived in. This is why I avoid plutonic relationship at all cost and the greatest lessons I have in life so I can avoid the same mistake. - I also have chiron in 7th house

I have realized the world inside my head was never exist, it only exists at my home that projected to the outside, but still it was hard to get out from those fantasy world you grew up into because the jupiter conjunct moon keeps the faith alive, keeps all the hopes alive, keeps the moral can not be crushed by dark people.

How I deal with it is separating the good and the bad. I never ever try to blend it anymore. That's the boundaries I have.

posted July 07, 2017 07:49 AM            

Saturn on Moon,Mercury and Venus by trine,sextile and conjunction respectively.

Sun-Neptune conjunction has me try to live up to all sorts of personal ideals. In many ways this position can think itself "divinity personified".

posted July 07, 2017 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
As a Neptune-Sun conjunct person natally, I think that Moon-Neptune individual immerse themselves far deeper in Neverland than most people.

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posted July 07, 2017 10:57 AM            

But yeah, when I really, really believed in things, like fate and astrology and the universe, it was really bad. I lived my life through the occult, listening to strange entities talk to me, using crystals, etc. I think it can be good for people, and I'm still fascinated by all these ideas, but I personally had to step out of that because it was getting in the way of existence, I was no longer taking initiative. That's the dangerous side I think, definitely a Neptunian lesson

posted July 07, 2017 12:22 PM            

Do you aspect-shame yourself???

I think society has missed somehow, and gone into a direction of NOT valuing and funding its artists. We missed 'educating' people on HOW to utilize and ground their more ethereal-spiritual talents. These are latent and valuable gifts in people. We need mentors that realize it, and can help people tap their inner-resource.

Perhaps in a differently structured society or culture, your Gifts would be a breath of fresh air upon the earth.

It may be true too, that through the incredible stresses right now, that having the capacity to be 'escapists' (without other outlets found, without finding your soul's purpose FOR having your Neptunes), that 'in this harsh world' where you haven't found the way to plug-in your giftings yet, that if drugs (or weird cults) are available, then, you might unconsciously (or, subconsciously-- meaning you know it's not the best for you and you override that inner knowing and self-sabotage), choose the lesser-expression over the Higher expression of what is within your soul.

Everything.... in context of different times and cultures are valued differently.

We CAN reshape and reframe society and find some way that this 'all' fits in.

Value your Neptunes!

If you would like?
I can draw up a list for you of the various descriptions of expressions of Neptune to specific planets (from the Alan Oken book I have).

posted July 07, 2017 12:32 PM            

On the plus side, I can always make myself laugh. I was in a boring meeting the other day at work, and the conference room doors were left open. I started imagining a parade of animals walking outside past the doors, dancing, and making funny faces to music.

posted July 07, 2017 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
hearttreasure
What was your synastry like? The plutonian one..

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posted July 07, 2017 07:12 PM            

Do you struggle to deal with "reality"?

I know this is a hard thing to talk about and I know is not easy to expose some pieces,but if you decide to tell me I won't quote,of course

I don't have strong Neptune. I'm Plutonian and Saturnian. That aside I have
Venus in Pisces in the 7th
Scorpio moon in the Pisces decan, moon sextile Neptune, Moon trine Venus

So I definitely vibes with the Neptunians. Regardless I got a friend that is more Neptunian but also not that Neptunian (she's got Venus conjunct Neptune and some minor aspect with her Sun).

Anyway when comparing my Venus in Pisces with her Venus conjunct Neptune. I feel like I am more Neptunian than her in a lot of ways. Mind you she has this Venus-Neptune conjunction in Capricorn which is like the direct opposite of Pisces/Neptune.