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Empty Spaces
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posted July 12, 2017 10:45 AM
  
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areesquivel
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posted July 12, 2017 11:27 AM
My best friend has a Capricorn stellium in 9th house, Moon in Virgo and he's nothing like that, you'll have to see the aspects, maybe Mars aspects? Moon? Saturn, some conflict there. What I do notice about this Capricorn stellium with my friend is that he starts everything and never finishes... super cardinal energy that never seems to land his ideas. My best friend has Mercury, Venus, Mars, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted July 12, 2017 11:33 AM
I'm not saying is exactly that.Is what I initially thought,especially because I like some sort of control too but it can be something else,there's a lot of possibilities,that's why I asked.
I will take a look at that,thanks.Wow really?I'm like that too.I thought was due to my gemini planets but I have a T-cardinal square. (5 planets involved) IP: Logged |
areesquivel
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posted July 12, 2017 11:56 AM
Check Mars maybe, from what you're saying maybe that's the energy that's making conflicts, control issues I would say has to do with Mars? or maybe Saturn? I'm a control freak myself. lol. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted July 12, 2017 12:12 PM
I am wondering why Gemini can be so controlling?Cap wants to control you usually to maintain status. Scorp wants to control you usually to maintain their dark thought/paranoia. Virgo wants to control you usually to maintain their OCD. Cancer wants to control you usually to maintain their own fear of you leaving them forever. IP: Logged |
areesquivel
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posted July 12, 2017 12:18 PM
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Scorp wants to control you usually to maintain their dark thought/paranoia. Cancer wants to control you usually to maintain their own fear of you leaving them forever.
Cancer Sun, Scorpio ASC and that sounds like me lol. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted July 12, 2017 12:19 PM
Mars/pluto conjunction in scorpioThe moon has squares but are too wide
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Is the "mars/pluto" the one to blame?It is super strong due to the conjunction and the sign itself or a mars in scorpio men are like that too? I always wanted to meet a scorpio mars due to their fame but if they are controlling like that I'll pass,thank you lol *running to the hills* IP: Logged |
areesquivel
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posted July 12, 2017 01:08 PM
I consider myself a control freak most of the times and I have Pluto conjunct ASC in Scorpio, Mars square Pluto so yes? My mars is in Leo so I guess that makes it worst lol.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted July 12, 2017 02:28 PM
Personally, I find Moon in Virgo to be nitpicking ime. But that is because they care.Capricorn can turn into a parent when in love. This is especially when Moon/Venus is in Cap. You can find them telling you how to dress. I date Moon in Virgos a lot more than others. And i mess up on purpose so that they just learn to leave me be lol. I think Cap/Virgo fusses about you because they care. Cap can think they know what is best for their partner and can be just as bossy as Aries/Leo(if not more so)
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Empty Spaces
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posted July 12, 2017 03:29 PM
Aries23Thanks a lot!  I don't see that as love but maybe is just me lol I swear I can't handle! I feel suffocated by just looking at the situation and my sister is beyond furious hahaha IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted July 12, 2017 03:32 PM
areesquivelHahahhahah but you do that?  IP: Logged |
DualGemV2
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posted July 12, 2017 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
I am wondering why Gemini can be so controlling?
1) Insecurity If theres some Cancer placements present, taking control makes the person feel more secure since they know the situation is being taken care of. 2) Bored and wanting to feel important I know a Gem female that has nothing going on in her life if she didn't take control of things...people would bypass her. Of course she doesn't have a good reputation for getting things done right. 3) Depends on the Mercury. Admit it heartreasure... Gemini like Aquarius sometimes thinks they just know better... My Planets
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areesquivel
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posted July 12, 2017 04:24 PM
Not like that though, that's EXTREME control! the guy I'm dating says he had a girlfriend who used to tell him not to talk to his OWN BROTHER, that's extreme behavior, I wonder what are her aspects lol. I can be controlling in some ways and I tend to control with my emotions too, I can be manipulative. Mars / Pluto conjunction sounds like a clash of titans! IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted July 12, 2017 05:04 PM
Wow hahaha wish I could see her chart too.IP: Logged |
MoonMystic
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posted July 12, 2017 07:21 PM
I can be. Mostly I'm
rigid. A fixed sign issue.IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted July 13, 2017 05:32 AM
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
1) Insecurity If theres some Cancer placements present, taking control makes the person feel more secure since they know the situation is being taken care of. 2) Bored and wanting to feel important I know a Gem female that has nothing going on in her life if she didn't take control of things...people would bypass her. Of course she doesn't have a good reputation for getting things done right. 3) Depends on the Mercury. Admit it heartreasure... Gemini like Aquarius sometimes thinks they just know better... My Planets
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I have notice the insecurity a lot but they do not like to talk about it makes me more confused. Yes, sometimes Aquarius thinks she/he knows better but no Aquarius is the same. Aquarius with some water (especially cancer or pisces) is quite tolerant and wants to compromise. I and my Mom (Aqua) can talk like a best friend beautifully, but with my other Aqua friend, yes, he is more stubborn and won't let me finish my words because he thinks he knows better. lol. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted July 13, 2017 05:35 AM
My father has a tendency to control his environment and everyone in it. He believes his word is law.He has Sun square Saturn and Mercury square Saturn along with Pluto square Sun and mercury. IP: Logged |
ScandinavianCrab
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posted July 18, 2017 03:52 AM
My ex girlfriend is exactly like this.She has nothing in capricorn, but capricorn is cusp of her 5th, 6th and 7th houses. Her ascendant is in Cancer with Venus conjunct and her Leo stellium, Sun, moon, mars and Mercury, falls mostly in her 4th house. Well, you could maybe Imagine how this relationship went with me having a stellium in 9th house with moon and Venus in Gemini  . She Still tries to control me in different ways, and i sometimes i let her just to Keep the peace. IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted July 19, 2017 07:54 PM
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
I am wondering why Gemini can be so controlling?Scorp wants to control you usually to maintain their dark thought/paranoia. Cancer wants to control you usually to maintain their own fear of you leaving them forever.
Sounds just like my friend. I am assuming if they have a Scorpio moon and a Cancer mars they really want to control you so you don't see whats on the inside and leave them forever? IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 24, 2017 08:51 PM
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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
My ex girlfriend is exactly like this.She has nothing in capricorn, but capricorn is cusp of her 5th, 6th and 7th houses. Her ascendant is in Cancer with Venus conjunct and her Leo stellium, Sun, moon, mars and Mercury, falls mostly in her 4th house. Well, you could maybe Imagine how this relationship went with me having a stellium in 9th house with moon and Venus in Gemini . She Still tries to control me in different ways, and i sometimes i let her just to Keep the peace.
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Koniucha
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posted July 25, 2017 09:10 AM
OMG my mother. It is crazy.She will absolutely never bend at all. She comes to stay at my house to get my daughter from school and it is horrible. No idea why I even keep asking her to come. Instead of just relaxing at my house, doing noting, which is what I ask of her, other than pick my daughter up from school, she works like a horse. Non-stop and demands that from us too. Then throws it in my face later about how she comes to my house and works so hard and nobody cares. Then just walks around telling me how my daughter has not read the bible yet. Then starts throwing that in my face. As children, my siblings and I worked all of the time. She would have us pick up buckets of rocks from the backyard. Or get grapes and we would have to pick them. It was nuts. She is still trying to do this, but now to my daughter and well, my daughter is more rebellious than me. Anyways, she is Aqua sun, Virgo moon I think. I do not have her birth time. But I believe Jupiter opposite Pluto causes this, from what I have read. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted July 25, 2017 09:36 AM
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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
Sounds just like my friend. I am assuming if they have a Scorpio moon and a Cancer mars they really want to control you so you don't see whats on the inside and leave them forever?
If they have moon in Scorpio and a mars in Cancer, they want to control you because their moon doesn't trust anyone while their mars can't hold their clinginess so you need to stay with them all the time, but at the same time they can push you with their mean behavior and later will win you over in a manipulative way. Nice to them, they will be one of the kindest. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted July 25, 2017 01:38 PM
My father is an Aries (virtually no Capricorn in his chart, but I don't know his time of birth) and he is the most controlling person. He wants to make sure everything around the house works the way he wants it to, including us (what we eat, even how we cook... :/), which only creates tension and stress (at least on my part, because I am also quite steadfast and we've had more than one disagreement). He also has kind of a mean streak and he criticises me a lot, openly.
It's funny because when he sees this attitude in other people he can recognise it is wrong, but not in himself.
The worst part is when he acts condescendingly towards us immediately after, as if we were little children who don't know a thing about life, no matter that he is dealing with full grown-up adults. When will he *understand* (hmm never I guess?) that this is the *opposite* of a respectful attitude towards one's personal freedom and/or intellect.No earth planets in his chart. Pluto, Neptune and Saturn are retrograde. IP: Logged |
Koniucha
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posted July 25, 2017 03:13 PM
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Originally posted by Sikanda:
My father is an Aries (virtually no Capricorn in his chart, but I don't know his time of birth) and he is the most controlling person. He wants to make sure everything around the house works the way he wants it to, including us (what we eat, even how we cook... :/), which only creates tension and stress (at least on my part, because I am also quite steadfast and we've had more than one disagreement). He also has kind of a mean streak and he criticises me a lot, openly.
It's funny because when he sees this attitude in other people he can recognise it is wrong, but not in himself.
The worst part is when he acts condescendingly towards us immediately after, as if we were little children who don't know a thing about life, no matter that he is dealing with full grown-up adults. When will he *understand* (hmm never I guess?) that this is the *opposite* of a respectful attitude towards one's personal freedom and/or intellect.No earth planets in his chart. Pluto, Neptune and Saturn are retrograde.
Sounds like my mom. She will even criticize how I was dishes. And she knows everything and I know nothing
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Sikanda
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posted July 26, 2017 08:02 AM
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Originally posted by Koniucha:
Sounds like my mom. She will even criticize how I was dishes. And she knows everything and I know nothing
Yeah, exactly (where is the face slap emoticone?). Oh, and what's your mum's sign? Maybe it also has to do with the cusp sign or planets in the 4th house (which I can't tell for my dad, though). IP: Logged |
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