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hearttreasure
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posted August 09, 2017 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's in the natal chart of the person that draws moon/venus people in? What might be the indicators?

Or is there any characteristic/obvious sign that makes them interested?

- My first short-lived-relationship boyfriend has moon/venus trine (obsessed over me like 10 years after the break up).
- My second boyfriend has moon/venus conjunction (who called me his only soulmate).
- The third has moon/venus opposition (who seems can not stay away and still wanna be in the relationship with me).

Some I have noticed:
- The moon/venus sextile, who tried to win me over during and after I broke up with my 2nd bf, stalked me for years until I finally blocked him.
- The moon/venus square, who chased me before I met my 2nd bf and still shows up every now and then, poking or just making a casual flirtatious of Gem moon specialty.
- Another moon/venus sextile, who I feel he keeps waiting for me because he's still there although I have already rejected him like years ago before I met my 3rd.
- The moon/venus opposition, who I think he cheats emotionally because he always hides the wedding ring and likes being spoiled with me. He told me he had one regret, that he should wait longer because after months he got married, he met me.

I don't have moon/venus natally, what kind of woman the moon/venus search for?

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posted August 09, 2017 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, first things first you didn't list your placements nor the placements of the individuals you listed. So it would be awesome if you did that...or at least provided yours.

Secondly, in general on it's own Moon Venus is not enough to cause what you've experienced. Don't get me wrong, it's VERY NICE...and I've had it many times (even a double whammy Conjunction), and again it is VERY VERY nice. But the type of soulmate feeling etc that creates longing for 10+ years is def not Moon Venus alone (esp as a Trine). Nor is it an aspect that on it's own would make someone want to keep waiting for you or think they should have waited a bit before getting married. Honestly, that sounds like something in your chart that speaks to Plutonian relationships (and/or synastry) in conjunction with perhaps Neptune (their use of the word "soulmates" is quite telling) and perhaps Moon strong in synastry or your chart. I do have to ask though do you have a pronounced Pisces and/or Neptune heavy chart? I ask that because then it would be a case of projecting onto you. And that would be why so many people think you are their "soulmate."

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posted August 13, 2017 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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Empty Spaces
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posted August 13, 2017 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you a libra sun/cancer sun?

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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted August 14, 2017 06:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hearttreasure,

Do you have Cancer in your chart? Active 4th house?

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posted August 14, 2017 10:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
Ok, first things first you didn't list your placements nor the placements of the individuals you listed. So it would be awesome if you did that...or at least provided yours.

Secondly, in general on it's own Moon Venus is not enough to cause what you've experienced. Don't get me wrong, it's VERY NICE...and I've had it many times (even a double whammy Conjunction), and again it is VERY VERY nice. But the type of soulmate feeling etc that creates longing for 10+ years is def not Moon Venus alone (esp as a Trine). Nor is it an aspect that on it's own would make someone want to keep waiting for you or think they should have waited a bit before getting married. Honestly, that sounds like something in your chart that speaks to Plutonian relationships (and/or synastry) in conjunction with perhaps Neptune (their use of the word "soulmates" is quite telling) and perhaps Moon strong in synastry or your chart. I do have to ask though do you have a pronounced Pisces and/or Neptune heavy chart? I ask that because then it would be a case of projecting onto you. And that would be why so many people think you are their "soulmate."


The reason I don't want to post the charts is because I want to focus on the moon/venus natal aspect favors (likes/dislikes to the opposite sex). - not the synastry, as I want to keep this on Astrology 2.0

I do have venus in Pisces, sextile neptune, trine pluto. close orb.

Pluto to my sun and mercury, minor to mars.

Moon/venus in natal chart may be lovely for some people, I guess? But, I have some major irritation with them because their behavior tend to be the opposite of mine.

Yes, Moon/Venus person is popular, because all of them are quite well liked. They attract opposite sex very easy and smooth because they like to make everyone's happy. I've seen moon/venus act like Librans in the department of pleasing people.

They dislike any kind of criticism as they see it as an attack or they think you dislike them and it can ruin their harmony/balance life as they want people's approval, no, they NEED it.

I don't feel comfortable surrounding myself with "fake" people because I want someone who doesn't afraid or someone who have full confident of themselve that they have no problem showing who they really are. I think it's called bravery. But, with moon/venus people, ugh, they like having two face, especially the hard aspect (conjunction, square, opposition). I know, they may not realize it or may do it purposefully, but it can be really annoying for someone like me. (edit: they're also incredibly insecure people when not in harmony/balance that can lead to find satisfaction outside the relationship, which I see it as a selfish action/thought)

My personality is kind of an opposite with this Moon/Venus people and I wonder why I keep attracting this people?

Is there any connection of the aspect meaning with what they are looking for in a woman?

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posted August 14, 2017 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
Bump!

Thanks for the Bump! Randall.


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posted August 14, 2017 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
Are you a libra sun/cancer sun?

Nope.

Empty 7th house as well.

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posted August 14, 2017 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
hearttreasure,

Do you have Cancer in your chart? Active 4th house?


No Cancer in my natal chart.

But I do have moon and jupiter in 4th house. (but I'm not sure if it's really in 4th house because I can relate with the 5th house also, what's the significant difference between the moon/jupiter in 4th and the 5th?)

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Empty Spaces
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posted August 14, 2017 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know why then.

I attract saturn/venus people a lot that's why I asked.I'm a capricorn!

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posted August 14, 2017 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon in the 4th could be a real attractor for Moon Venus people. It's Moon in its own 4th house. Jupiter there too. Interesting what role Jupiter plays in your chart. Which house does it rule? Jupiter in Cancer is in exaltation so I can imagine that 4th house is a strong placement for Jupiter. These two together (Moon and Jupiter in 4th house) give you that Cancer that's missing in your chart otherwise.

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posted August 14, 2017 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Moon in the 4th could be a real attractor for Moon Venus people. It's Moon in its own 4th house. Jupiter there too. Interesting what role Jupiter plays in your chart. Which house does it rule? Jupiter in Cancer is in exaltation so I can imagine that 4th house is a strong placement for Jupiter. These two together (Moon and Jupiter in 4th house) give you that Cancer that's missing in your chart otherwise.

Jupiter in Aries.

Sag is in 1st house and Pisces is in 4th house.

Why is Moon/Venus linked with Cancer? With Libra I may see the connection, but Cancer?

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posted August 15, 2017 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Jupiter in Aries.

Sag is in 1st house and Pisces is in 4th house.

Why is Moon/Venus linked with Cancer? With Libra I may see the connection, but Cancer?


Wait, you're Sagittarius ASC on top of all that? That would mean that Jupiter - your chart ruler is in 4th house.

So you do have quite a bit of Cancer in your chart then considering it's absent by sign and aspects. All these is Cancer:

Jupiter in 4H
Moon in 4H
Chart ruler in 1H

I see Moon Venus aspects as Taurus, Libra and Cancer. Maybe because I take both planets into account. Moon and Venus are both soft yin planets. Moon - Cancer, Venus - Taurus and Libra.

What else do you think could be the reason in your chart that you attract Moon Venus guys? There could be something else. Post your natal. Maybe we can spot something else.

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posted August 17, 2017 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Wait, you're Sagittarius ASC on top of all that? That would mean that Jupiter - your chart ruler is in 4th house.

So you do have quite a bit of Cancer in your chart then considering it's absent by sign and aspects. All these is Cancer:

Jupiter in 4H
Moon in 4H
Chart ruler in 1H

I see Moon Venus aspects as Taurus, Libra and Cancer. Maybe because I take both planets into account. Moon and Venus are both soft yin planets. Moon - Cancer, Venus - Taurus and Libra.

What else do you think could be the reason in your chart that you attract Moon Venus guys? There could be something else. Post your natal. Maybe we can spot something else.


Yes. I have Sag asc, although I do feel like a Cap asc because my asc conjunct saturn, etc. I look very serious/cold if I don't smile/laugh (I know this from some people who told me, because I'm not always aware on how my face looks like when meeting new people), so people who are not close to me can easily judge me the wrong way and usually I'll play along with their imagination. lol. No, I'm just being a teaser, sometimes.

If moon/venus aspect is associated with Taurus/Libra/Cancer, well, my sun is in 2nd house and I can relate with Taurus sun calmness enjoying good quality materials. I'm pretty much a simple woman for others too (for example, I don't whining at all. This trait makes my backpacker fellas are enjoying my company so very much, we make quick friendship, that I get invited a lot with a very low budget or even free to join them with another new people, they told me I was a very simple, easy, flexible, and had so much fun with on the road. The person who never complaint when there's a change schedule or any obstacles on the trip but will make a joke. I have been in a constant trip every weekend and it makes me miss my place so much that I have decided to spend more time for myself at home. It's funny that all the personality tests show me I am an introvert ).

Could it be my:
- mercury sextile ASC ?
- moon trine ASC ?
- venus square ascendant ?

Those moon/venus people, especially the boyfriends, are all complement my beauty which I don't feel like I am? and get a little bit offended by the complement? lol So confusing with how others see me and how I see myself, although my gay friend who has Moon square Venus has already tried to convince me that I am pretty by sending my picture to his male friends.

I think there's something to do with my ASC or the ASC aspects that attract moon/venus people? I kind of attract all kind of moon/venus signs but most prominent and consistently approach me their natal moon/venus make an aspect.

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posted August 18, 2017 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hearttreasure,

This is so interesting I started readin the 1st paragraph of your reply where you are saying that you come across as serious and cold to others because your Saturn is conjunct ASC and I was like 'no wait, that's not because of Sat ASC conjunction although it can't be ruled out'. It's because your ASC ruler Jupiter is in 4th house. You are simply introverted, quiet sort of - in your shell (4th house is Cancer house). Then I've read your next paragraph about introvertsion Saturn on ASC people are serious people in a way that they are practical, responsible, you can count on them. I have a friend with this but her ASC is in Cancer. She doesn't come across as Capricorn ASC at all. Her face is so lively and animated. Saturn on ASC can make you thin but with Sagittarius ASC..it might not. It can be the opposite - prone to weight gain. Aspects are so important when it comes to appearance description. Most likely thin people have Saturn in hard aspect to chart ruler. I am curious if you're blonde or red-headed (Sag ASC, Sag in Aries - fire fire!)

Obviously I don't know what you look like. Possibilities. 1) you are just beautiful 2) moon Venus boyfriends love women, they know how to compliment them better than other men. Moon Venus in hard aspect are a different affair though..but I can imagine their compliments are for other reason - they have trouble getting along with women so via compliments they earn love, warmth and gratification.

I still think that it's the Cancer in your chart that attracts moon Venus guys. What aspects does their moon Venus make to your chart? Maybe this too can shed more light.

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posted August 21, 2017 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Hearttreasure,

This is so interesting
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I find this interesting too. Moon/Venus people are lovely, I admit it. Popular among their friends, yes. but in relationship, they can do too much for you but also expecting too much from you, and for me I want someone real who doesn't afraid getting approval so much. I just don't get it.

I think real relationship is like: I do this and that because I love you, NOT because I want you to like me (which I think it's a manipulation of love? Or trying to fishing something? *shrug*).

Or, I feel they pressure me to feed their wants just because they think they have already fed what I want: sweetness, compliments, treating me like I am the love of their life, dude, that's not what I want but I think that's what they think it's what I want (and, yeah, some girls may fall for it) and I'm pretty sure I will never fall for it. lol.

I like a relationship where, for example, if I cook for my partner, I cook because I don't want him to feel hungry (or me hungry lol) and I want to treat like treating a guest well where it feels like at home in my place, and I feel I want to cook. NOT because I do that because he likes me to cook for him and will try very hard to impress him so I can get his approval and I get a compliment for cooking for him. Oh no, it's not me, I only like fishing fish in my Dad's ponds.

This is why I'm wondering, due to clash personality I have with them. They may not do it frequently on me, but in socializing, they really try hard. I even try to tell them to be themselve but it looks like a criticism to their ears. And I definitely do not want to follow that life style and it kind of ****** them off. lol.

I do a serious person and some who are not close with will also tell the same thing, but most of the time: cold (it doesn't mean I don't smile/friendly). Well, the outer just a mask lol, because I like to keep my circle small and trust for me is very important. My close people know that I'm probably the most selfless people, but you know, I keep it to a very small circle people and I don't need world to know it. So it can be looked paradoxical.

ASC conjunct Saturn, in my childhood I was thin. teenager, I gained weight because I got bullied, I run to foods like.. it felt really good to eat (2nd house sun?). In my 2nd relationship, I drop so many pounds due to physical abuse and the psychology effect, and after some times trying to gain weight, I'm finally in my proportional body. I think my hair is naturally dark brown.

The aspect they make to my ASC/sun/moon (the top 3 I think may keep the attraction strong):

1st - his moon conjunct my moon (0-1 degrees), his moon/venus trine my asc

2nd - his moon/venus trine my sun (venus 2-3 degrees, moon possibly 0-3 degrees)

3rd - his moon sextile my sun (possibly 0-3 degrees), his venus trine my sun (out of sign, 3 degrees), may have possibility that his moon conjunct my asc

The crushes:
- moon/venus sextile: moon square my sun, his venus in cancer doesn't make an aspect, only to my venus trining.
- moon/venus square: moon sextile my moon, venus square my asc
- moon/venus sextile: moon trine my sun, venus sextile my sun
- moon/venus opposition: moon conjunct my moon (I think 0-1 degrees), moon trine my asc, venus widely trine my sun.

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vickymadness
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posted August 22, 2017 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey hearttreasure,

I'm a venus dominant, and I'm attracted to many people, but a pattern I picked up is: a chart that has positive harmonious aspects in general, like lots of trines, sextiles, venus conjunctions to personal planets...etc.
I also noticed that I like to hang around with libra/pisces mars people a lot.

Do you have any of these?

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posted August 24, 2017 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
Hey hearttreasure,

I'm a venus dominant, and I'm attracted to many people, but a pattern I picked up is: a chart that has positive harmonious aspects in general, like lots of trines, sextiles, venus conjunctions to personal planets...etc.
I also noticed that I like to hang around with libra/pisces mars people a lot.

Do you have any of these?


I have an exalted venus, kind of confusing for me at first, I like everyone, and finally realize I actually have a hard time to REALLY fall in love with someone.

I'm still trying to figure out what kind of patterns I'm attracted to but I do love Gemini moon people and keep attracting this moon that make a square to my venus. (the ex and two of those crushes are also a Gem moon, and for many years I'm still friend with them because we keep it lightly, I think this is why I like them).

I tend to enjoy my time most of the time with Aries sun people or Aries influence people (moon, venus, or mars). Mercury/Mars conjunction is another aspect who can keep up with me.

I have a Pisces mars who I was close with before he fell for me and I didn't. I like the friendship but nothing more. Libra mars men, hmm, I don't think I'll like one.

My female friends (close one) tend to have strong mars sign.

I'm surrounded by earth or fire mars friends the most. Although in my family: Libra mars/Pisces mars/Cancer mars/Taurus mars, I am the only one who has mars in fire (Sag) but we are as a family is very close. And my last two bfs have mars in Taurus and mars in Cancer.

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