posted August 18, 2017 06:09 PM
As an Aqua, no, I am not the one who would love to talk about friendship. I find boring to get to know what are they doing with their own life, because, like in this era, people love to share their daily life/events in the social media and I don't feel a need to hear/talk the same thing when meeting them in a person. I don't mind if they talk about it and will listen then response if need to but usually I won't ask if it's not important. I can't do a small talk or pretend like I care with people's tiny details life.I also don't like to give solutions all the time unless the person asks me in one-on-one conversation and if it feels that they really need it (usually I will ask whether they need solution or not), otherwise I'm just listening and don't really like to share what's on my mind.
I love stimulating conversation, the one that makes my head thinking like putting the puzzles together. Most of the time the complexity of human natures, because there's no end with those thinking, there's no limitation on those thinking. I want to understand those complexity to understand myself and others, so understanding human nature through various resources is one I would love to have in a conversation. My best conversation I have is with Virgo mercury (men or women).
The others like:
- politics (although sometimes I hate it but can't help to analyzing more and unfortunately I am working dealing with this s**t lol -- I don't mean harm),
- technology (a sucker for this, this is why most of my friends are males, because it's just a lovely lovely lovely discussion and always get amazed by the knowledge I've got),
- news about revealing the truth in our society/industry/etc (I don't like discussing about violence/terrorist/religion news or others similar that may bring strong fix opinion in a group conversation because I don't want to offend anyone and make an argument -- I have various different friends in culture/religion/etc, I realize people may have different pictures in their head and it's one of sensitive topic in a group conversation.. but I may discuss it with my family/partner)
- spiritual/religious things, yes yes yes, but not too extreme or fixated. People are sinners, so I don't like people try to tell me what to do just because I like discussing it. lol.
I love an open mind conversation to gain knowledge and wisdom. I like to question about "why?" and "how?" than who, what, where, or when, with cool head, please not taking everything personally.
I am also the quietest among my female friends, because I don't know how to deal with female conversation especially about gossiping, shopping talk, the hair, the nail, that look, the drama of other people's relationship, etc. I always feel awkward, I just don't understand why it matters and why we need to talk about it. I'm still learning though on how to cope with it and it's fascinating to see how my Gemini/Cancer influence person in his social life, talking so smooth and easy with women, and finally I have learned something that I miss. lol.
But no Aquarians are the same, one of my close friend who has moon in Scorpio LOVE LOVE LOVE questioning your social life, friendship, your love life, in the perfect timing and make you can not avoid it, I feel like being investigated and invading my privacy lol.
He and I, in a conversation, has nothing alike, but I tend to just go with the flow in the conversation without forcing my own prefer discussion. He is also more stubborn and fixated in his opinion than me.
So, yeah, there are some Aquarians may love asking about your social life, friendship, etc. But not me.