posted August 24, 2017 04:38 PM            

From what I can gather its either one or the other very jealous or non-jealous at all.

I think it depends on trust and confidence.
If they don't have it thats when the mind games come in.

True story. I meet some really nice Aquarian when I was taking the train home.

We talk...turns out shes going thought a divorce with an older gem male thats older then me but born around the same week.

Hes controlling and jealous, I can see why that Aquarian is so free, no wonder he's insecure.

posted August 24, 2017 06:21 PM            

Insecure Gemini usually does.

His aspect:
Sun and moon minor aspect to Pluto.
Mercury and mars trine Pluto.

But I have sun and mercury hard aspect to Pluto, mars minor to Pluto, and venus trine Pluto. He is definitely the jealous and possessive one, and I believe it is because the insecurity and the cancer/taurus personal planets he has.

Venus, you need to see what venus the Gemini sun men has.

@DualGemV2

posted August 24, 2017 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Yes, I will add "controlling" too.

Insecure Gemini usually does.

His aspect:
Sun and moon minor aspect to Pluto.
Mercury and mars trine Pluto.

But I have sun and mercury hard aspect to Pluto, mars minor to Pluto, and venus trine Pluto. He is definitely the jealous and possessive one, and I believe it is because the insecurity and the cancer/taurus personal planets he has.

Venus, you need to see what venus the Gemini sun men has.

@DualGemV2

I have acknowledged that free Aquarius can bring out insecurity of Gemini a lot. Most of the time the fail relationship between those two because of Aquarius can see the insecurity of Gemini but refuse to give up the freedom to put some attention that Gemini wants in the relationship, then Gemini will complaint that Aquarius is too detached while refuse to tell what their feeling is to Aquarius.

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@hearttreasure

It works thought when both understand each other needs and help each other move on to the next step.

That's how I'm really great friends with my Aquarius friend. I wouldn't be were I'm today without her. Recently I literally re did her house (Paint, tilled her floor and etc) since her "man" is a lazy Cancer male.

Back to the topic, I agree look at the Venus and Mars to see how controlling, possessive and jealous the Gem male is.

posted August 25, 2017 01:43 AM            

Don't know what rising he is, but he is one weird Gemini, too much secretive, very closed and looks to me very insecure. Also seems like he's jealous but doesn't show it openly, like he will eat himself from inside but will try his best to show how he actually doesn't care, but once he explode I'm sure it would be bad thing.

posted August 25, 2017 02:11 AM            

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Originally posted by PainInTheWorld:
Also, one thing I noticed. Gemini can have stelium in Gemini, but if he is Scorpio rising, all those Gemini planets can be in 8th house and then you have more Scorpio energy than Gemini.

And Gemini with some Caner in his chart can be really weirdly introverted.

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I really don't like that combo especially if he is a Scorpio Rising.

I have mars in cancer too and can be introverted at times. But my mercury is in Gemini and is my strongest placement so I can always rationalize things.

@PainInTheWorld
I just find your gemini guy a bit to emotional unstable.

There was an old Gemini buddy of mine born exactly one day before me. Only difference was his rising and moon was in Pisces..plus my mercury formed several key conjunctions his didn't.

He was the more emotional Gemini I was the more logical one.

He was dating a Cancer since he was so sensitive, me and my Libra friend would use to talk about how needy he was.

posted August 25, 2017 07:34 PM            

I have found softer touch from personal planets to Pluto (trine & sextile) is a sexy aspect. The jealousy is healthy, not necessarily too much. They are intense but not necessarily overwhelming.

Gemini, like Virgo, is an overthinker. This can lead to deep insecurity but because of this is an Air sign, they can hide emotions very well. So if those Geminis have water placement in personal planets, they may have a hard time to hide what they feel inside, it's all written on their face/vibe (the sensitive / intuitive person can see it through) although they may avoid to tell their true emotional feelings or deny it.

posted April 23, 2022 01:11 AM            

A Gemini Mars I know I am pretty sure the attraction is mutual. Kind of gets a tude when I talk about my husband. Also his Pluto Libra trines my Gemini ASC.

My first serious relationship out of HS was a Gemini guy...he did not want me putting effort into my appearance. He did not want me getting more attention when we went out. Would accuse me of being jealous of him, when he would purposefully flirt with women in front of me and then try to tell me they were flirting with him. I even called him out and said "no you were flirting with them"
I cannot stand when guys do that. Because of this I do not feel like I need to tell the person I am with every time I get attention from another guy, unless it's really concerning. There is just something conceded any cringey about it. Not a fan of that style of controlling and jealousy. I was going through a Pluto trine Venus transit when I met this guy.

My husband has Gemini Moon and N. node. I like his style of doing it. He also has Leo Sun. AND he seriously has to be the funniest guy in my life. While he does have high functioning Asperger's most of the time he can tell if I am into someone. He can sense things. He could sense chemistry with me and this one guy. He made sure to slap my arse as we walked away. And that night he gave me this monologue about how he is not going anywhere. It was hot!
He also has a thing where he has to be the funniest man in my life. If he can tell I am attracted to someone and I think they are funny. That side comes out of him. I'm attracted to a man on a podcast and also think he is brilliantly funny. My husband picked up on it. But he thought it was another guy on the podcast. He started saying things like "He can't make you laugh the way I do!" Would make comments, and I thought oh he thinks I'm into that guy, he can't tell its the other guy on the podcast. BUT then one day it clicked with him that it was the other guy. He saw the way I was looking at him on the TV and he looked at him on the TV right in the eyes like he was ready to have a dual!
Another comedian who is very in touch with his feminine side, my husband has to make that comment like "he's can't make you laugh the way I do." We got front row seat to his show, and my husband just sat there the whole time folding his arms.
He also got super threatened by a guy who messaged me after a party we went to. Like I get along with the guy but I am not feeling him like that. But I made a comment on how I was so impressed I was the he put the whole toilet seat down at the party. Like even the cover. I was not expecting that and sat on a completely shut toilet and I thought it was funny. Well for some reason my husband has not been putting the seat down at all lately multiple times. And he made a comment back to me "like ohhh I'm sorry I can't be like this guy!" I could not believe it. It's just kind of funny and adorable.
Another thing he does sometimes is that he will have to convince me that the person sucks and that there aren't all that.
Like I don't have to tell him I'm attracted to Rob Lowe. He can sense it. He felt compelled to tell me that Rob Lowe is like a taxidermized young person.
Also I am messed up in the sense that I got turned on by Ramsay Bolton on GOT. When he died my husband had to chime in that he was the worst character on the show and that he is glad he's dead.

posted April 23, 2022 10:39 AM            

My bestie let me stay in his home when I had my first pest spray. I told my husband that he should be thanking him. And my husband was furious!

My husband also gets weirdly territorial. Our old apartment only had one bathroom. He was offended that my best friend pooped in our bathroom. My husband really is a Leo cat. lmao. Like this is something that would upset a male kitty cat.

When I say my best friend is my best friend, my husband will say "no I'm your best friend"
It's kind of cute.

Oh I danced with my best friend at my wedding, and my husband had to cut in. My friend complained about it later. I was drunk.

Most of the stuff I don't mind my husband doing. Because his Virgo stellilum can hide his passionate side too much I feel at times.