posted June 09, 2021 08:47 PM
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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Yes totally agree.
As for the one's I've known, I've cut them off nearly immediately due to their toxic behavior.
As soon as someone starts stalking me, watching everything I do, and tentatively interrogating me and thinks I'm betraying them at every corner simply by interacting with others - I do not want to be associated with them.
I don't even want to be in the same room as them. If they want to add me leaving them for their ******** as another notch on their list of fabricated betrayals, so be it... go on... go create your own paranoid reality...
I barely experience jealousy, so to top it all off if they come at me with a green eyed monster such as intense jealousy near me or are jealous of me, and can't control themselves, then I want them out of my life. I'm not going to pander to them...
only one scorpio moon i know was guilty of the jealousy stuff and she made me feel really awkward because she'd openly tell me she was jealous of me
no matter what she had in her life she'd be telling me about things she was excited about and dates she was going on who she was meeting how her job was going etc and i'd tell her about this really complicated situation i had going with a guy friend of mine and because he was in love with me that'd turn everything into a jealousy thing and then she'd tell me not to talk about it
she'd go on endlessly about things in her life and i'd let her for days but if something happened and i mentioned it in passing she'd tell me i was obsessing
told her i felt like i had no energy was really listless and depressed (in one sentence) and she went off on me and told me i was being manic (because she gets that way) etc little things like that which made me uncomfortable but i let them slide
our friendship ended when she got weird with me over me disagreeing with something she said and while having a conversation about it where i felt like i had to explain myself telling me to stop talking about it so i said goodnight and tried to just end things peacefully before i got angry
that wasn't ok either i was supposed to let her have the last word and respond by changing the subject to something acceptable
told her i wasn't angry yet (because i wasn't) but that i was going to get angry if she kept pushing me to speak while not listening to me, forcing me to speak, talking at me etc
did get angry over that, and then she spent a while hysterically yelling at me telling me i was angry over what she decided i was angry about because it was something that made me sound crazy and was minor (even though i told her several times over why i was mad at her and was very clear)
then she started hurting herself and blaming me
and then i was done because just... nope, **** that
the other scorpio jealousy **** i had to deal with was actually my ex which was extremely uncomfortable but she was scorpio mercury (conjunct her scorpio midheaven) and scorpio venus conjunct scorpio pluto
i don't really understand jealousy because i get really happy for people when they have good **** in their lives, no matter what's going on for me i want other people to be happy so it's bizarre and foreign to me
and it makes me really uncomfortable when someone's jealous of me because i've been through a lot of horrible **** (and they know this if they're close to me) and i feel like i deserve the good things that happen without bad vibes like that **** attached from people who tell me how much they love me and care 🤷♀️
my other scorpio moon friend is just a possessive interrogator and with enough space that friendship has lasted more than half my life and i do care about her just can't interact all the time or she gets too trying to eat my soul and i get closed off and we fight
the guys i know with scorpio **** though haven't made me feel that way, but they also have libra in their charts which might soften it, same with my mother
the 2 scorpio mars people ive slept with though 😬(but also no libra)