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Topic: The downside of having too much fire in your chart
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 1395 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 10, 2017 05:18 AM
-I'm too expressive for some people. I mean, I don't lack confidence when it comes to talking to people. Some people will think I'm trying to show off when I'm not. I'm just friendly and open.-People think you're arrogant. With too much fire in my chart, I can be childish and free, like a child. Some people will read this as arrogance, or a need be rebellious, or obnoxious. -Some people are envious of us. Of our confidence and our creativity. Because fire signs are extremely creative. I know not everyone envies us, or dislikes us, but it happens. -We're not conservative enough for some people. Some people are extremely shy, tradition, formal, and reserved. Fire signs are not! This kind of goes with point #1, but not necessarily. It's not just the way we express ourselves, it's our energy and our intensity that can turn off more conservative folk. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 4479 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 10, 2017 07:25 AM
Sun-Nep-Ura-Jup in Sag stellium. Aries Asc-Fire can overwhelm others. But i have water too so I can also be subtle. I think the challenge for me is being stimulated. Earth strong people feel very grounded. But I also find them to be stifling Saturn aspects help though. Aspects are important IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 10, 2017 09:53 AM
Lol yes 100%!!! Though I don't know about the envy part cuz who wants to be like an asteroid eternally shooting through space? This is why I love my triple earth boyfriend ^_^ (but he has them in fire houses too)- Sun/Merc in 5th - Moon in 9th - AC - Mars in 1st IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 72002 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 10, 2017 10:20 AM
Whenever you ar strong in one element, you are lessin another. Hence, there are some places that are not easy or natural. I am high in air, then water and fire and no earth. My air is wonderful but I lack in practical, organizational things(earth)------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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FatedCinderella Knowflake Posts: 459 From: Registered: Mar 2016
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posted September 10, 2017 01:53 PM
quote: Some people are envious of us.
Actually I think that is the reason why people think they are arrogant/full of themselves lol
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MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 759 From: ♤ Ethereal Umbra ♤ Registered: Nov 2016
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posted September 10, 2017 02:02 PM
Like Ami, my Natal consists of mostly Air, overwhelmingly so. 36%. Which I usually don't see this much, I almost feel Alien. 😄I'm in a current progress with more fire than other elements tho. Ari (Sun, Mercury, Venus, Chiron) happensto be my current fire (with exception of Neptune in Sag) I feel immature (early Ari) and curious over so much. The child and head description of Ari. This is a much different experience from my natal AC in Sag as my Natal is, it is in Aqua currently, So there's my Air. Maybe the fire flipped from it's usual placements (AC, Mars) has me observing and behaving opposite my natural self. --My thoughts on too much fire. It might be an extreme with passion on both sides. Love and hostility. Possibly a quick mind. Especially with a Firey Mercury, Moon. Unless there's abundant Sag it can be a very energetic quality to have a lot of fire.
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 1395 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 10, 2017 03:12 PM
One more thing. We have too much energy. We can't sit in one place. Make sense, since we're Yang energy. We can be overwhelming to others. And we can be go from one place to another, we can be exhausting! IP: Logged |
MoonMystic Knowflake Posts: 759 From: ♤ Ethereal Umbra ♤ Registered: Nov 2016
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posted September 10, 2017 03:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: One more thing. We have too much energy. We can't sit in one place. Make sense, since we're Yang energy. We can be overwhelming to others. And we can be go from one place to another, we can be exhausting!
This is a big reason to be envied.
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Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 1395 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 10, 2017 04:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by MoonMystic: This is a big reason to be envied.
Yes, and I, as a fire person, envies how calm some people can be. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 9083 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 10, 2017 08:24 PM
When I was younger I actually had a tendency to quiver at times from having so much energy, attentive and a fast thinker. More than one person told me that if they didn't know me then they'd think I was on meth given my energy level. This energy was mental as it was physical, and I HAD to exercise my mind or body or I felt terrible as I couldn't release the energy.Now that I'm in my 30s it's not like that anymore, though I'm still energetic enough. And yeah, not being in need of constant reassurance does bother some people. Some did envy me, others feared they couldn't control me with the reassurance they'd give me if only I jumped through their hoops (which could be personal, political, commercial, religious, etc, or even that common game many other females play of putting one's self down fishing for compliments), or felt it was unseemly as only the meek should be treated well while the rest need to be taken down a peg. But it was balanced by those who appreciated it about me, and how it benefited me when taking care of business and personal matters. Of course it WAS good not to need constant reassurance. And some find it a mixed blessing. My BFF likes that I stand up for her, has brought me with her when she felt the need for someone to have her back and defend her verbally (even physically) if necessary, but at the same time was wary about me being around any boyfriend of hers if I didn't like him (and told me a couple of her boyfriends were actually scared of me ). IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 10717 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 10, 2017 08:44 PM
As a fire sign, I've never put myself down in order to receive compliments. i've said what I felt or believed (or what I'd been told). I would rarely stand up for myself - I'd put more energy into standing up for others, when needed. But I mostly don't care, anymore. Unless I've hurt someone's feelings. The Internet can be difficult like that - I've had my feelings hurt, too, sometimes when it wasn't intended. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 10717 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 10, 2017 08:50 PM
I don't think I have too much fire, though. I'm not sure I have enough. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Moderator Posts: 2729 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 10, 2017 09:56 PM
I understand what you're saying, Sulyarcher, but I also believe that you should be true to who you really are and accept yourself 100% regardless whether some of us can handle your great fire There is balance within self and life to be had by everyone no matter what is in your birth chart. It is not our destiny or purpose to all be born with some sort of perfect balance of elements in our birth charts. As a fiery person, it is your role and decision to bring it -- to the world to us, to be freer/warmer/enthusiastic/confident ... and inspire others to more expression of the energy of Life! ------------------ The Declinations Guy > Expert birth chart rectification > Rising Sign Descriptions ♈ ♉ ♊ ♋ ♌ ♍ ♎ ♏ ♐ ♑ ♒ ♓ IP: Logged |