posted September 13, 2017 01:29 PM            

I just wanted to pass on this message because it's something that i've really been really struggling with, but never really understood the problem of it all. Reply if you think this makes sense, and try it out (: I want to read your deal of shares

I'm an 18 year old woman just discovering that i'm probably a sex-oholic. and possibly an athlete under all of this non-sense of stress and laziness ?
(did karate for a year, I blew out a lot of steam there, until I got lazy and broody)

posted September 16, 2017 01:37 AM            

What you wrote there is quite relatable-even from a Scorpio Venus,Moon/Mars square and sitting on all angles- point of view.

I think the key word here is addiction to feeling extremely good. Those clear feelings of immense joy or adoration. The mild ones in between feel so meh...

I masturbate a lot. But be mindful that masturbation can be pure self gratification and wanting "in the minute" relief. So like doping-it can get addictive as it induces a "high" that flows out and leaves you spaced out.

There is no judgment intended from what I said, but I think what i want to say is that at the heart of my wanting to do it is often a yearning for connection.

Yes the momentum that gets me there may be to rid myself of anger/frustration/boredom/loneliness etc. But i do notice that the need to "release" is not detectable when I feel connected to another.

I think Gem/Aries/Scorpio/Aqua placements are high strung. And ofcourse accompanying synonymous planetary aspects.

Whilst Aqua and Gem look to always think and can get caught up in the mental. Scorpio/Aries look to feel or be engrossed in the emotional feeling part of the connection.

Both can be aroused when fighting with someone/ a partner etc. Because that is when the connecton is raw and palatable. The feelings are discernible and are in motion.

I would think that the latter two also tend to be thrill seekers and daredevils.They want to "feel". And masturbation releases a chemical similar to the thrilling feeling of jumping off a cliff etc. Its a high.

The momentum of dancing does that too,physical sparring or working out to a point of being in a loop , prayer that gets into a loop ,improvised singing,an interesting convo that goes on and on in a loop , falling inlove, feeling grateful and appreciative and getting into a loop about it etc.

I think people with Moon/Venus/Mars in Aries/ Scorpio or Mars/Pluto in aspect to Moon/Venus, are looking to feel "alive" and keep that momentum going. They want a natural "high" and detest the in between feelings which they equate with boredom.

posted September 19, 2017 11:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Most Scorpio Mars folks are just too spicy for me. But there are a few that are fine I guess.

What you wrote there is quite relatable-even from a Scorpio Venus,Moon/Mars square and sitting on all angles- point of view.

I think the key word here is addiction to feeling extremely good. Those clear feelings of immense joy or adoration. The mild ones in between feel so meh...

I masturbate a lot. But be mindful that masturbation can be pure self gratification and wanting "in the minute" relief. So like doping-it can get addictive as it induces a "high" that flows out and leaves you spaced out.

There is no judgment intended from what I said, but I think what i want to say is that at the heart of my wanting to do it is often a yearning for connection.

Yes the momentum that gets me there may be to rid myself of anger/frustration/boredom/loneliness etc. But i do notice that the need to "release" is not detectable when I feel connected to another.

I think Gem/Aries/Scorpio/Aqua placements are high strung. And ofcourse accompanying synonymous planetary aspects.

Whilst Aqua and Gem look to always think and can get caught up in the mental. Scorpio/Aries look to feel or be engrossed in the emotional feeling part of the connection.

Both can be aroused when fighting with someone/ a partner etc. Because that is when the connecton is raw and palatable. The feelings are discernible and are in motion.

I would think that the latter two also tend to be thrill seekers and daredevils.They want to "feel". And masturbation releases a chemical similar to the thrilling feeling of jumping off a cliff etc. Its a high.

The momentum of dancing does that too,physical sparring or working out to a point of being in a loop , prayer that gets into a loop ,improvised singing,an interesting convo that goes on and on in a loop , falling inlove, feeling grateful and appreciative and getting into a loop about it etc.

I think people with Moon/Venus/Mars in Aries/ Scorpio or Mars/Pluto in aspect to Moon/Venus, are looking to feel "alive" and keep that momentum going. They want a natural "high" and detest the in between feelings which they equate with boredom.

Sex may seem like the most potent way to release all that energy-but not necessarily.All in all however, I know what you are saying though.I feel ya

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This!!!!
I actually got to look into my chart more deeply, and especially the mars in scorpio. For one, I realized I was not a Scorpio rising (it was sitting on a 0 degree and talked it over with an astrologer for about 2 hours - I'ma libra rising) so forget about that part. Still a martian though. (don't know how that works)

But secondly, I realized that yes, it's true that I have a high sex drive, and totally feel that anyone with a Scorpio placement will totally relate with me in some way, without even knowing that they have a scorpio placement in the first place. Just like you!

But there's the negative side about having a scorpio in mars... In my experience (due to high sex drive) - as I mentioned on another site. " It is true that I have a very high sex drive, and i've even ended up using people for sex (and because I was bored). But I left it in good terms and decided to NEVER do it again, but after sex with about anybody, all of my feelings for them go away, so really, sometimes its just really hard to tell why you want someone ): So I really try not to."
Don't know if this is relatable or makes sense, but I've felt like this about many guys.

I also wrote
"And for the insecure part, it's the fact that we tend(anyway I do) to suppress our feelings, weather i'd be anger, or anything else down to our throat , and that's what's gonna make us insecure. I guess what I'm trying to say is that, you all have one life to live, and you've gotta express everything, or at least try because or else you're going to end up waking up every morning... just angry. That's how I felt, until an astrologer told me that I needed a lot of emotional support, because of my cancer sun&moon (And some other placements). That was my brother when he was still living out here. When he left, it was a complete, dark, and cold tornado. I've become very unstable and made the worst decisions, and I didn't realize why. Now that I'm trying to find this "ground" that I can stand on, like right now being at my brothers house, or writing down my feelings, makes me feel much much better, more secure, but I'm definitely going to find a psychologist. I used to have so much drive when I was younger, and ambitions."

You're totally right thought, I am always trying to make myself feel alive somehow. And if I can't, I've already isolated myself from my own thoughts by either binge watching a tv show or binge playing a video game, mostly online because you always have a sort of purpose when you do. I've already been addicted to drugs (literally getting high everyday - not with hard drugs thought, with marijuana) but then realized I needed to get myself moving - or just simply having someone to bring me back to life by an attraction. I think that needing to do this is due to... just simply being unfulfilled somehow, missing something in life, or just simply not being able to express this energy within us. But I mostly made this post to better understand the scorpionic mars or/and nature (AND TO HELP!). Because I have it, and it's THERE I TELL YA. I CAN FEEL IT EVERYTIME.

posted September 24, 2017 03:22 AM            

Your Mars is in a strong sign but it's conj your ASC (1st house) and it just gives it extra energy.

posted September 30, 2017 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Are you from July 11th or the 12th? Just trying to look up your chart. What exact degree is your libra rising?

Your Mars is in a strong sign but it's conj your ASC (1st house) and it just gives it extra energy.

You also have venus trine jupiter and probably jupiter opp ASC which creates the laziness in you.

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Well, there's where the laziness stems for!! I also feel lazy when people boss me around. And yeah, i'm a 12th of july baby, and 29'51 degree in libra ascendant. Quite tight, I tell ya. But yeah, I know. Never really knew what the conj added, but if it does add energy, I dearly hope I don't get a heart attack someday.

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer
Dear Hyperqueen,
Welcome to LL.
Forgive me, but I could not get past when you stated you'd been 'strangled by my father', were you being metaphorical or literal?[

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Uhm... Well that's kind of complicated lol... Just this: I'm not sure if I over dramatized this situation in my head, but I sure as hell got scared of him and I can't let go of the grudge against him. I can really get on my parents nerves without doing anything really... or I just don't realize what I'm doing, idk. I feel like a piece of **** when I see my friends getting along with at least their moms.

Don't worry, someday I'll hopefully get enough money to move out...

posted September 30, 2017 03:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Spica:
I'm a mars in Scorpio in the 8th house but it's not the same for me. For me sex has nothing to do with anger and frustration they are very different things at least for me. Maybe it's because I have Venus square Neptune and a Pisces ascendant for me it has to be deep and meaningful, soul connection and completely vulnerability of both people. For me sex is not about the action but the meaning behind it which is to become whole with the other person.

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You might be right, to be honest. I'm looking into this mars thing. I feel like we have to really try to understand our placements, especially mars and venus, For instance, whenever I talk to my girlfriends, I see their venus signs. And I my mars sign, since like I said, I feel it a lot, and I feel like we could learn a lot from them, and better ourselves.

Venus and mars aren't all about relationships, it's a part of your identity. How you take action for instance, or how you get angry, or what you value in life. So, would you say that you don't feel or never felt like you're having marsian problems (i.e. becoming angry or frustrated when you don't express your energy, of any type, or (maybe) when you can't find meaning in what you're doing, or with whom?) Just a hypothesis. I'm honestly still just a novice (-: