posted September 19, 2017 09:43 PM            

Because:

I have met a woman who has moon/mercury/venus in Scorpio, that conjunct Pluto (Sun conjunct pluto in different sign), who admits that she cheats on her partner but also claims that her partner is good to her in the term of money (he provides her). She is also in a very quick relationship after the break up. When I talk to her, she is very good at manipulation by telling you what you want to hear, also can brainwash you if you let her words come at you.

That experience is kind of break any stereotype (if there is any lol I still have not found it yet).

My another personal experience:

- Sagittarius SUN female is more often found among my friends that can have multiple relationship/keep potential men around. Unfortunately I am too lazy to check their natal chart. They seems not taking life that seriously ( or maybe in secret? To find a perfect, rich men? lol just kidding).

- Gemini sun, who seems always has a bad rep among my friends, they are gossipy but also friends gossiping them too. lol. Unfortunately I only have one that I close to, so I have no problem asking personal life and she also admits that in the past she tend to have at least 2 different guys at the same time although she has a main relationship. She regrets it though as she said KARMA came to her. lol. She now has been married to a Pisces man. Her chart: moon in virgo, venus in cancer, mercury in gemini, if I'm not mistaken that her mars is in virgo. She also said that she has no problem stealing a man who has taken if there's a spark between them.

posted September 19, 2017 10:06 PM            

It would be far better to simply get to know the women you are attracted to and trust your own judgment.

posted September 19, 2017 10:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
The birth chart can indicate a personality that is footloose, less interested in conventional commitment, but not that she will later engage in infidelity. To look at it that way is to try using astrological knowledge as a defense against what you don't want.

It would be far better to simply get to know the women you are attracted to and trust your own judgment.

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posted September 19, 2017 11:05 PM            

To illustrate this, think of, for example, all the people born in 1980, on Tuesday, between 5 and 6 AM, on July 10th (random date). You'll find there are a lot of people born here who have never cheated and would never cheat, and likewise, many who have/would.

posted September 20, 2017 12:07 AM            

That been said I know someone with a Scorpio stellium who has cheated on his wife, he has sun, mercury, venus and pluto in scorpio. He is innately the faithful type and doesn't have sex unless he has deep feelings for someone but he has cheated even though is in his nature to be faithful. Life and relationships are complicated.

posted September 20, 2017 12:24 AM            

This woman was in a relationship with a guy when I last talk to her 3 years ago, but now we have reconnected again through Facebook, I want us to be together, but last we spoke she was telling everyone wee worked with that we were in a "secret relationship that's how it started anyways. After some months went by she started telling people we were together, no secrets, I partially blame myself because when she brought it up we both confessed we were hot for each other, but still she should have known better.

posted September 20, 2017 12:57 AM            

I am also quite a complex woman and it's taken me a long time to fill my shoes. I have been with men that was 100% ready to commit, and they did, but they never trusted me to stay, which was fair enough because I didn't.

Cheating is not black and white. People have their own personal reasons with long roots.

But for astrological purposes, I assume my Venus sq Uranus and conjunct Saturn might have had something to do with it. Maybe even Cap Moon 5H as in "maturing (Saturn) late? Always wanting to be the kid playing around?

posted September 20, 2017 02:56 AM            

I have a stellium in Sag and Uranus conj Venus and opp Moon... this definitely made me restless and not wanting "real" relationship... but there was stuff being triggered in my chart for this to happen (b/c now that I'm older, 38, there is no way in hell I would do that again...

When I cheated... I had Prog Moon in the 12th house, Prog Sun squ Pluto and going into the 8th, and Tr Uranus squ Sun, Tr Pluto opp ASC and conj Mars, Tr Neptune squ Moon...

When I was in the 2 affairs... prog Moon in the 11th and 12th...
Prog Mars squ Pluto and going into the 8th house, Tr Uranus squ Pr Venus, Tr Neptune squ Venus...

posted September 25, 2017 02:43 PM            

I once slept with a married woman in our office-space. She has a Scorpio sun and Capricorn Venus.

posted September 25, 2017 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
My take on it is that anyone *can* cheat given the right circumstances. Charts can help you understand which circumstances might trigger it and how likely it is.

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I'd put it this way: not everyone will be unfaithful but we could find all kinds of placements and aspects among the unfaithful.

The natal chart of the cheater and the synastries with their partner and partner in crime could shed some light on why they did it.

posted September 29, 2017 04:43 PM            

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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
As already mentioned, you wont find it in any chart.

I once slept with a married woman in our office-space. She has a Scorpio sun and Capricorn Venus.

Unhappy people cheat. If you want a partner you can trust, make sure to find one who knows what he/she wants from life and treat them with respect. On top of that- some nice moon, Saturn and Jupiter synastry goes a long way. (If you ask me)

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posted September 30, 2017 11:53 AM            

Cheating can be much like a drug to the latter. Its not so much about who does it i.e male/female. It can get addictive

So if the "rush" of not getting caught or doing something right under your partner's nose is what gets you off, you are likely the 2nd type.

My Dad once said that he chases the "thrill". Its the excitement of doing something that you are not supposed to that appeals to him. And the closer it is to the partner , the more thrilling i.e sister, close friend, close neighbor etc.

I personally think that I am the 1st type of cheater. I cheat with my heart and only when I take aim to leave the current relationship. As I simultaneously withdraw from the person I am cheating on. I can't keep the pretenses going.

Not to excuse myself and say that i am "better". But there are many who continue to assure the person that they are cheating on of their undying "love". I can't

Charles cheated on Diana. And she knew of Camilla.
Arnold cheated on Maria Shriver and had a baby with their help. She didn't know and found out years later I think? Ouch!

I used to think Gemini/Libra/Aries and Sag personal placements indicated an incredible flirt. And the most likely to cheat.

I have Sun/Mars in Sag /Libra with Aries rising. My friends say i flirt when I think I am being friendly and my exes have often assumed that I am a "player". So i guess that was a stereotype i got projected back on me

posted September 30, 2017 04:10 PM            

If you don't want to click the link then here's the article

Mercury and Pluto are 150°-210° apart (orb 30°) (Chi square 68.3).

In other words, both planets are opposite each other (in a very wide sense).

the Sun and the MC are 270°-290° apart (Chi square 52.9)

the ruler of the Ascendant trine (120°) Uranus (orb 6°) (Chi square 32.3)

the ruler of the 4th house square Neptune (orb 6°) (Chi square 28.0)

the ruler of the 8th house opposite Mars (orb 6°) (Chi square 25.0)

the Ascendant inconjunct (150°) the 6th house cusp (Topocentric or Placidus houses) (Orb 1°) (Chi square 24.5)

Mars in Sagittarius (Chi square 19.2)

Moon in Aries (Chi square 19.2)

This is the same indication found in the horoscopes of male cheaters.

The Moon in fiery and impulsive Aries, sign of excitation and primal urges, seems to "favor" adultery for both sexes.

Heliocentric position of Venus 135° heliocentric position of Mars (Orb 3°) (Chi Square = 16.0)!

Mars is in Capricorn (Chi Square = 12.5)

posted September 30, 2017 04:17 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I have cheated in many relationships due to various reasons but I've grown and matured and know to 100% that I would never cheat on my husband! Why, you might ask?! Well, because I have always been one of those that took marriage VERY (!!) seriously and had decided early on in life that I would never get married more than once, if I ever got married. To ME, marriage is a scared commitment and hard work (sh1t it's hard work sometimes) which makes me grow, think and try my utmost hardest not to hurt the other person.

I am also quite a complex woman and it's taken me a long time to fill my shoes. I have been with men that was 100% ready to commit, and they did, but they never trusted me to stay, which was fair enough because I didn't.

Cheating is not black and white. People have their own personal reasons with long roots.

But for astrological purposes, I assume my Venus sq Uranus and conjunct Saturn might have had something to do with it. Maybe even Cap Moon 5H as in "maturing (Saturn) late? Always wanting to be the kid playing around?

As it seems, I need a FIXED Moon to handle me. The longest relationships where I didn't cheat until many years later was a Leo Moon and Scorpio Moon. My husband is a Taurus Moon and he literally tolerates no BS from me and I know he would walk away and never speak to me again if I did something stupid and that scares me.

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posted September 30, 2017 10:16 PM            

Men on the hard are wired differently.

posted October 01, 2017 06:50 AM            

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Originally posted by lola:

For women usually cheating is a LACK of something and a breakdown in communication.

Men on the hard are wired differently.

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Not necessarily. Men and women can be more alike in that respect. Sometimes it can just be for a good lay or simply lack of control over the sex drive (bit less but can be the same for women), and sometimes it's because there is a lack of something, a need not being met by the woman they're with, and sometimes it's not just about sex.