posted September 26, 2017 09:12 PM            

I have Mars and Pluto Conjunct by a 7 degree orb in Scorpio, almost in the 8th house - but still 7th. I would guess I notice this in ALL my relationships that might have a one-on-one component - lovers, partners, friends, family, parents (> ), co-workers, you name it! My Venus, by the way in in Aquarius (0 degrees) in the 11thhouse and conjunct my moon in Capricorn. I have Aries Rising, conjunct Jupiter. I've got a Cap/Sag stellium that includes my Sun, Mercury, Saturn, Neptune, and Uranus.

Overall relationships have been extremely disappointing, hurtful, and painful in my life. I dream of and crave deep, incredily, profound intimacy with trustworthy, passionate, loving souls - whether we're family, friends, partners, or working together! But this intimacy seems beyond my grasp. I even sa recently, one person interpretation of Pluto being in the 7th house is "rejection of intimacy". Well, I don't believe in an astrology that offers absolutes, so I don't think Pluto's message is a static one - but nonetheless, that idea scares me a bit.

The importance of developing said healthy relaitonships is a priority in my life right now. Without getting too detailed, I am, for the first time, entering an intensive therapy program, larely to address this issue of healthy relationship. Yes, i've experienced trauma. i won't go into those stories. But believe me - this stuff is an important issue to me these days in my life. While human relationships can often seem scary and so highly risky, being alone and lonely all the time really sucks - if you, like me, actually do like people and want to bond and make things and do things with some of them.

I'm interested on YOUR take on how a person with Pluto/Mars conjunct in Scorpio in the 7th - OR some aspects that are similar to this - find healthy relationships.

Do you have anecdotes on learning to manating the profundity of such aspects? Do you knwo someone you're close with who has? do you have observations about it? Do you want to share additional questions or comments or complaints about this experience? ha. Please, go ahead!