posted October 28, 2017 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Well, my Venus conj Saturn op. Cap Moon won’t!

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posted October 28, 2017 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Venus-Saturn
Cap Venus
Cap Moon
Saturn-Moon

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posted October 28, 2017 03:18 PM            

Not true in my case! I have Saturn in my 4th house so it's touching all my angles. Plus Oppo Moon, Mars and Chiron.

Trine my Mercury asc Ruler.
And, trine my sun ruler Venus. I'm all about second chances. And third, and four and five and...

posted October 28, 2017 05:42 PM            

Scorpio mars-> Look at Taylor Swift 👀

posted October 28, 2017 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Aquarius can ice you out if they don't trust you anymore.

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That's true. Im an Aquarius moon and once someone hurts my feelings or was mean to me, I will easily give them the cold shoulder. Unless they apologize sincerely then I think I will forgive them but if they never apologize I have no problem blocking them out of my life.

posted October 28, 2017 08:28 PM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
That's true. Im an Aquarius moon and once someone hurts my feelings or was mean to me, I will easily give them the cold shoulder. Unless they apologize sincerely then I think I will forgive them but if they never apologize I have no problem blocking them out of my life.

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Yes!!

posted October 28, 2017 09:46 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I notice that when a person does me wrong. I usually don't look at them the same anymore. And I usually don't give them second chances.

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Venus quintile Saturn
Moon trine Saturn
Mars parallel Saturn
Aqua placements

Me, but it depends. If they are the people who are not in my circle, I can easily cut them off and I don't even care about their life, won't stalk, won't have any interest to know about them or what so ever anymore. If they come back without a sincere apology, acknowledging their mistakes, and no changes, no, I don't even think will ever give them the second chance. I won't hate them, but simply, they become completely a stranger to me.

The problem comes if it is happened within my circle people, especially partners, so I hate me. I will always give them a second chance, not because I don't want to loose them but because I want to see if they are willing to make efforts to the relationship although I know I won't see them the same anymore and, like, forever. I will give them the third chance if they promise me a change of their attitude, taking serious care of their personality to the good side, and I will expect a change of themselves and encourage them to take some time to figure out what they want in the relationship with me. I will always consider a small change as I know everything needs a process. But I did this three chances once and stopped giving him any chances when he said he didn't want to change any single thing about him, so in my mind he took pride about what he did (abuse, cheating, and online flirting -- which means disrespecting me and our relationship) and he is too much stubborn. So I did cut him off completely and never have any interest to keep tracking or care about him anymore as he didn't care about respecting me and the relationship.

With my now partner, it has similar pattern (as they share some same aspects and planets) but as there are small improvements here and there, I keep giving chances to the relationship. It's A LOT of chances. But during the process, I also find the hidden me, I never know I have a gentle emotional side and can appease my stubbornness to really really listen with emotional understanding (as I used to always put my air headed first - air mercury in 3rd house plus a dizzy dizzy sextile aspect to uranus and cold saturn) and can show my care/affection properly. If my partner doesn't want to keep the relationship anymore, I think it will be the end of our relationship as I won't force people to like me and be with me in the relationship just because afraid of loneliness, have a hard time to let go, or any kind of selfish excuses.

posted October 29, 2017 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by lalalinda:
No second chances?
It's a fixed sign quality or trait.
Notice all the signs listed above.
Fixed signs, very stubborn.

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posted October 29, 2017 10:08 PM            

At the end of the last year, she asked me to meet up and I didn't know that she wanted to talk about her recent 5 years relationship break up. She asked me what to do. I told her if she still wanted the relationship and willing to work it out then reconciled, compromised, but she was quick saying, "I'm not a type of giving people second chance, this is our first major break up and.. No.. I can't go back." (She and her bf met at church and an active member of their church)

Then I asked her what if her ex came back for the relationship, she said, "No, I can't go back there, no." Then she told me how bad her emotional situation after the break up but still didn't tell me the "clear" reason why they broke up. I bet she has Neptune's going on touching her mercury but I only remember her mars square neptune. She seemed avoiding clear details.

posted October 30, 2017 09:41 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I notice that when a person does me wrong. I usually don't look at them the same anymore. And I usually don't give them second chances.

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posted October 30, 2017 09:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
They way Scorpios cling, and stalk people I find it hard to believe when people say they don't give second chances.

An icy Capricorn I'd believe this about. Not the stubborn and clingy Scorpio.

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I've never dated a Scorpio but I do know someone with a Scorpio moon , yes they defiantly keep up with you. Funny I think my moon conjunct pluto in my 1st house gives me the plutonian things so I don't think too much on somethings that would freak other people out. ( also depends on the person)

I just know that have pluto on my moon because I have no other placements that are Scorpio besides my Uranus which is trine my sun but if I feel like someone really did me wrong, I can ice them out. Like my heart turns to ice , IDK how to explain it but I have no care to see them ever and it's like they died to me.