posted October 28, 2017 07:30 PM            

Her south node right on top of my descendant we have many signs we were connected in the past and probably soulmates

Im just tired i dont know why i feel her personal life this much.

Is it two ways does she feel things in my life too. All i know just one look at me she understands whats going in my head without me telling her anything.

How to stop this connection i bet its past life thing but dont want it anymore.

We do have unexplained feelings.

posted October 29, 2017 12:08 AM            

So you feel it, you acknowledge is there and let it be there but you dont feed it either..

That is called cognitive defusion and acceptance/expansion from Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT).

posted October 30, 2017 10:37 AM            

Just sounds like slight-timing issue, and, seems as though she might have met and been involved with the other person before you...?

Please try to reframe and not take it as a (subconscious) personal judgment of YOU as a marriageable or desirable male?

Sometimes.. allow this relationship experience to just illustrate or highlight the kinds of things that YOU find important, for your FUTURE considerations.

Connected to her spiritually....

You Loved/Love her. That's so Beautiful.
Love raises the vibrations of the World.

And there's a wound there from love(commitment) un-reciprocated.

I remember when I had told friends and associates that I was engaged to be married. Within those who were males.... one spoke up and told me that THEY had been interested in me, and that they felt I didn't give him a chance, and now his chances were closed.
... For me, I had had NO idea that this person 'had an interest' at all-- I saw him more as a buddy. Had he TOLD me he was interested, during the years I hung-out with him and our circles, I probably 'would' have considered him....
(And I smile within myself right now... because I am a DEEPLY shy person when it comes to my OWN divulging to another person that I would like them, or have an attraction to them-- in fact, sometimes, it seems I'll give them the opposite treatment than they really deserved.)

Make sure (in the future) that you (generic you) don't delay cluing that other person IN (for too long) that you DO have an interest in them.... You (and they) deserve the chance to know.

But with you, LoveHer, sounds like you didn't know her for any length of time beforehand? ....

Yes, some couples have that instant magnetic strong sudden attraction, make a solid commitment, that lasts a lifetime...

That happened to one of my great-grandparents-- they knew each other only 2-weeks, got married, and were VERY happily married ..even past 50 years, and till death did part them.

So... people here are giving you great advices. I took a slightly different track in responding to your posting.

I'm sooo sorry that happened to you.
Sounds like you feel ready for truly being a Soul-Partner, a truly Committed Heart.

It's not your last chance for romance and Love.

Love has a Way of Finding You?

Holidays can feel especially forlorning, as this is the season people 'desire' to be coupled and to 'belong' ..... to feel 'home' to somebody, snuggling up.

Don't give up.... Sometimes Love can be just around the other corner.

*virtual hugs*

posted October 30, 2017 01:11 PM            

Song for you to sing from yourself to her spirit, LoveHer...

{and claim some of it for you... You Deserve Love}

(music) I Wish You Love (Michael Buble) [2:51] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YVGkTWiatA0