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Topic: I'm not quiet enough for Scorpios!
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Sulkyarcher
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posted November 01, 2017 08:33 AM
  
I'm a loudmouthed and can't be introverted. I'm a bit too loud and extroverted, sometimes. They like me, but I noticed a difference between us! LMAO. I have a lot of fire in my chart, add the Sun in Sagittarius. Scorpios find power in mystery. So I have to try not to be too direct, even about myself, around them. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted November 01, 2017 10:00 AM
Why bother? Go where u are appreciated and let them walk... I have Scorpio Ven/Sat/Plu. I will swop you. I get on with some. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted November 01, 2017 12:26 PM
I'm loud, exuberant, enthusiastic and even down right obnoxious when with people I know well and trust.With some people I barely know, I can be quite shy and nervous, and others being loud can make me even more shy. But, I have noted that when I have gotten to know a Scorpio heavy person, and got to the point where I'm comfortable emoting, they don't like it much!
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Why bother? Go where u are appreciated and let them walk...
I agree. If they really can't appreciate u at all, really, just move on! But I also think there's something to be said about learning to get alone with someone who's your opposite, and finding a balance. We can find things to appreciate about each other we never could before. I mean if all quite people only spent time with quiet people, and the loud only with the loud, eventually we'd see we need some contrast in our lives to shake us up a bit! IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
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posted November 01, 2017 12:28 PM
Yeah Sagitarrius are too extroverted for even Piscean me. A lot of them are popular kids in school and I dont do well with the popular kids at school. Although my friend was a Sagitarrius but she was more quiet. But we didnt have much in common and werent very close. ------------------
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Radium
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posted November 01, 2017 12:45 PM
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hypatia238
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posted November 01, 2017 01:11 PM
Yes they do like some mystery, someone complex and different and to be teased so the desire builds up and to be mind ****** a little (e.g.mystery) as it keeps them interested and on their toes. They also respect a strong personality. Someone who knows how to seduce them, who knows how to use their power essentially lol. You can be mysterious and blunt!  is about knowing when to be blunt and when to be reserved. I have a mix of both, a reserved side and a blunt side. IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
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posted November 01, 2017 04:19 PM
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Stellia
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posted November 01, 2017 05:43 PM
This made me smile ☺ I work with a number of sun Scorpios. One is sun-merc-saturn conjunct in Scorpio, he's one of the most reserved people I've ever known. But. He has Sag rising and a Leo moon... So if you get him 121 and don't bombard him with a barrage of words, he can totally handle it. A fiery edge will definitely balance out the need for quiet - in contrast, another colleague with sun-moon-merc and moon within 10 degrees all in Scorpio - definitely wouldn't handle constant loud. And yeah in general... A really difficult one to handle all round as there is so much locked away under the surface. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2
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posted November 01, 2017 06:00 PM
Does it Matter?????I don't want to be presumptuous ...
but the good Scorpios with deep hearts are easily liked and appreciated by all. The ones that don't like you are the ones that nobody likes and get negative flack from everyone. I've singled out the nasty ones and got them to receive all the negative karma back and got people to rewards the good ones. Anyway, I like Sagittarius, especially the females they have a sense of fairness. Not like Cancer (My Mom). If my Mom(Cancer) saw a poor mother stealing food to feed her family she would have that person charged to the full extend of the law. A Sag would more likely let it slide or try more productive ideas. My Planets
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Sulkyarcher
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posted November 01, 2017 06:03 PM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
I'm loud, exuberant, enthusiastic and even down right obnoxious when with people I know well and trust.With some people I barely know, I can be quite shy and nervous, and others being loud can make me even more shy. But, I have noted that when I have gotten to know a Scorpio heavy person, and got to the point where I'm comfortable emoting, they don't like it much!
I agree. If they really can't appreciate u at all, really, just move on!
But I also think there's something to be said about learning to get alone with someone who's your opposite, and finding a balance. We can find things to appreciate about each other we never could before. I mean if all quite people only spent time with quiet people, and the loud only with the loud, eventually we'd see we need some contrast in our lives to shake us up a bit!
Thank you, both, Aries23 and Lalafortunaea. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted November 01, 2017 06:04 PM
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
Yeah Sagitarrius are too extroverted for even Piscean me. A lot of them are popular kids in school and I dont do well with the popular kids at school. Although my friend was a Sagitarrius but she was more quiet. But we didnt have much in common and werent very close.
To be fair, I met another Sagittarius once, and I'm a Sagittarius, myself. She came on too strong, even for me! IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher
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posted November 01, 2017 06:08 PM
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Originally posted by Radium:
Find a Scorpio with a sag mercury or moon
Thanks! I see that you're back on the forum. I think I remember you a few months back. IP: Logged |
SoulOfABird
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posted November 01, 2017 10:56 PM
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
To be fair, I met another Sagittarius once, and I'm a Sagittarius, myself. She came on too strong, even for me!
I dont think there is anything wrong with Sagitarrius. They are super funny and the life of the party. I dont think there is anything wrong with being extroverted, a lot of people like extroverts. Just in my experience because Sagitarrius are so contagious to be around they make lots of friends. So in my experience a lot of Sags were popular in school and Im too introverted. I didnt like hanginh out with those people. However, Scorpios scare me lol. My closest friend in high school was a Scorpio. Although me and her would good friends and I was able to open up around her we would argue a lot😂 She even said that she liked to argue hahaha I guess she took pride in it. She was very stubborn too and was blunt so she said things to me that hurt my feelings. So I would turn cold towards her. I dont seem to get along too well with Scorps either. Im not sure why they say Pisces and Scorpios are compatible. The best friend I have ever had so far was actually a Gemini strangely... 🤔 ------------------
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Randall
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posted November 03, 2017 06:30 PM
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PixieJane
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posted November 08, 2017 03:50 PM
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Scorpios find power in mystery. So I have to try not to be too direct, even about myself, around them.
I thought Scorpios find even more attraction for those who are authentic.
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Sulkyarcher
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posted November 08, 2017 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I thought Scorpios find even more attraction for those who are authentic.
PixieJane, that's beautiful. I think I've been hanging around the shadow Scorpios too much! IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted November 08, 2017 09:24 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I thought Scorpios find even more attraction for those who are authentic.
Yes my scorpio friend just said that today that he loves how authentic I am... He has moon in aries, I feel moon in aries loves a driven independent woman but they are also natural leaders themselves who like to be there for others. Like the ideal woman is a strong independent woman who can hold their own but who can also be vulnerable around them and let themselves fall apart occasionally while they provide that safe place to do that bc lets face it its hard to be strong all the time and they understood that too. Just brainstorming... IP: Logged |
Spica
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posted November 11, 2017 09:00 AM
Scorpio and Sagittarius is a strange and interesting combination. Sagittariuses are prone to depression even though hey may seem fun on the outside. It's because to Sagittarius is the sign of the higher mind, philosophy and so it detaches from the reality and everyday little things in life and so they don't feel as excited for little things. They are also detached from others and don't share their thoughts, plans or feelings because they think others will misunderstand them so they feel misunderstood. In the game called life to really be grounded, to participate in it is what makes life exciting. Because Sagittarius are living life on a more lucid level than others they can feel depressed and misunderstood.They don't take life as seriously, which may sound good to most people but not taking life seriously has its own downsides. Scorpios on the other hand take life too seriously. In an emotional way. It is hard to be a Scorpio, they are always feeling intensely and passionately about everything (things that matter to them). They have deep and intense emotions and strong defense mechanisms to protect their emotions and to be one step ahead others (who they all see as opponents). The emotions Scorpio rules is fears, trauma, death and transformation. A Sagittarius can hurt Scorpio by not being as passionate about things and with their indifference. A Scorpio is very intense and for them life means a lot (even though in a bad way, scary, cruel). This is the nature of these signs but everyone has their ascendant and moon and others planets in different signs too so I don't think we can generalize sun in scorpios or sun in Sagittarius that way. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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posted November 12, 2017 05:34 AM
Why pretend to be someone you're not, or act a way that is not true to yourself, just to please another sign? Be who you are, and you'll attract the right people.IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted November 12, 2017 07:28 AM
All Scorpios aren’t quiet ALL of the time.I have a Scorpio Sun, Mercury, (RETROGRADE) Venus, Jupiter, Pluto, and DSC. My moon is in libra. I can be a social butterfly one minute,
extremely introverted the next.
It depends on my mood.
BUT 95% I am the latter.
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Plut0nian2
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posted November 14, 2017 08:25 PM
Why not leave them to us then? The children of Pluto Neptune and Moon? They will end up here anyway :P Seriously now though in my opinion (and from what I've observed till now) even noisy people can not stand other noisy people. Generally the more quiet ones seem to be more likeable and trustworthy than the noisier ones.
I am kind of in between normal and quiet.
Noisy people are like vampires sucking my energy. I tend to feel mentally exhausted by them really quickly. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted November 15, 2017 12:53 PM
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Why pretend to be someone you're not, or act a way that is not true to yourself, just to please another sign? Be who you are, and you'll attract the right people.
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colorful butterfly
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posted November 16, 2017 11:52 PM
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Does it Matter?????I don't want to be presumptuous ...
but the good Scorpios with deep hearts are easily liked and appreciated by all. The ones that don't like you are the ones that nobody likes and get negative flack from everyone. I've singled out the nasty ones and got them to receive all the negative karma back and got people to rewards the good ones. Anyway, I like Sagittarius, especially the females they have a sense of fairness. Not like Cancer (My Mom). If my Mom(Cancer) saw a poor mother stealing food to feed her family she would have that person charged to the full extend of the law. A Sag would more likely let it slide or try more productive ideas. My Planets
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☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑
WOW, I am a Cancer sun and sad to say, I would just turn my head unless it affected me on a personal level such as my friends, family etc in putting them in harms way. Outside of that , to each his own I guess and I would probably try to help her find a food shelter to avoid jail. IP: Logged |
Randall
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