posted November 09, 2017 02:42 AM            

Can anyone tell me what aspects or house placements would cause her to feel this way? What would be triggering events like these?

She also has Uranus in Aquarius conjunct her Sun and Mercury, if she is a Pisces Ascendant that would place her Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Uranus all in her 12th House based on her Mother's birth time, but she said her Mom wasn't 100% on the time, it could be much later or a little earlier.

posted November 09, 2017 04:44 PM            

Stressful Saturn influences unresolved can leave a person feeling like a lot is expected of them, but they don't measure up. Similar Neptune influences, an idealism or ideal that is hard to reach if never defined in a concrete way.

In her case, Neptune square Mars shows up; you think she is Pisces rising, and I'm inclined to agree. Pisces and Virgo types tend to develop inferiority complexes if they run into troubles they take personally.

Most importantly, let her know she deserves to be loved and accepted as she is -- no matter who the other person may be.

posted November 09, 2017 10:29 PM            

Pisces/ Neptune people also dont have inferiority problems, in fact Neptune injects quite a lot of faith in their natives. Neptune people feel they have been misunderstood, overlooked or left out but they dont blame it on themselves, its usually someone elses's fault.

posted November 10, 2017 01:24 AM            

Basically afflicted Venus or/and Moon because the feeling of unworthy of love is a result from low self esteem and believing they don't deserve better.

Maybe Sun/Saturn too

posted November 10, 2017 01:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Virgos never suffer from inferiority complex, at least i havent met one that does, and i know many, and i am a Virgo myself. Virgos are very, very self sufficient and doesnt need anyone's validation.

Pisces/ Neptune people also dont have inferiority problems, in fact Neptune injects quite a lot of faith in their natives. Neptune people feel they have been misunderstood, overlooked or left out but they dont blame it on themselves, its usually someone elses's fault.

Virgo/Pisces people have a very good balance in their character prompting a healthier self image. No inferiority.

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posted November 10, 2017 03:30 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Pisces do blame themselves. I know quite a few, and I also have Mars there. I will blame when it's warranted, it isn't always someone else's fault. The Pisces I know, actually question themselves a lot, and so do I.

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I dont know if I can completely agree with either one. I tend to doubt. I feel lost. Like a lot of times I feel like no one understands me, I tend to get hurt and question myself and others. On one side I would think is something wrong with me that I feel everyone is against me? I would begin to feel maybe it's just me but I still validate my feelings. Id tell myself , "but wait I know how I feel I dont think I did anything wrong." Then I would think "Well maybe I could have handled it differently. But still why do they have to be mean to me? Why cant they understand me?" Then I get to a point after thinking a lot where I get upset at everyone, and self pity myself and say I dont like anyone. Ultimately though I have my doubts about whether something is my fault. I wouldnt dismiss my own feelings and blame myself for my feeelings, but then I try to understand if I did something wrong. If I dont feel like I did I wont really blame anyone but just feel sorry for myself. Kind of hard to explain.

posted November 10, 2017 04:00 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I dont know if I can completely agree with either one. I tend to doubt. I feel lost. Like a lot of times I feel like no one understands me, I tend to get hurt and question myself and others. On one side I would think is something wrong with me that I feel everyone is against me? I would begin to feel maybe it's just me but I still validate my feelings. Id tell myself , "but wait I know how I feel I dont think I did anything wrong." Then I would think "Well maybe I could have handled it differently. But still why do they have to be mean to me? Why cant they understand me?" Then I get to a point after thinking a lot where I get upset at everyone, and self pity myself and say I dont like anyone. Ultimately though I have my doubts about whether something is my fault. I wouldnt dismiss my own feelings and blame myself for my feeelings, but then I try to understand if I did something wrong. If I dont feel like I did I wont really blame anyone but just feel sorry for myself. Kind of hard to explain.

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I do that, too. I used to write in a diary, about things - I'd go back-and-forth between my viewpoint, and the other person's, any motivations, etc.

I've had two people rave about me in the past two days, and I have trouble with that, versus the extreme nastiness I've encountered. I mean, I've had the worst thought and said about me, either to my face, and/or behind my back. I don't know how to reconcile the two, unless I know that someone has an agenda (either way). But that's also too paranoid for me to think about, for long.