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Topic: Im afraid of getting into a relationship...
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SoulOfABird Knowflake Posts: 117 From: California Registered: Sep 2017
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posted November 18, 2017 07:35 AM
Im really scared. I think I will have bad luck in relationships. I have so many aspects that show that. I have Mars in the 7th house, Venus Square Pluto, and Leo Lilith in the 7th house! Im so scared. The descriptions of these placements scare me. Im worried now to ever enter a romantic relationship. I crave a peaceful love. I feel like I am attracted towards more kind and understanding laid back men yet these placements say I will end up and be attracted to partners that are rebellious, overly sexual, etc all what I DONT want in a man. I dont want to be in a relationship with someone like that. It sounds like I will have a difficult time in love. If that's the case Id rather dye never getting in a relationship ship ever 😔 My chart has such ugly undesirable traits in it that I dont know what to do. I feel scared and hopeless. I dont know how to get through this. What to do what to do... 😔 I have never been in a relationship even though Im 20 because Im waiting for my Mr Right but now I feel like ????------------------ I appreciate the masterpiece that is you, because your existence alone is art IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 4641 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 18, 2017 08:12 AM
I have Mars conjunct the 7th house from the 6th. And that doesn't suggest that one is "scared". It suggests an attraction towards the ernest straightforward types i.e Moon in Aries/Venus in Aries traits. But it could also suggest a fear of commitment. One wants to have relationships on their own terms.Venus -Pluto suggests that one craves that all consuming love. Nothing light /fluffy as you may crave exclusive attention from the one you love. Strong water types may appeal or those that crave just as much intimacy as you do i.e Moon-Chiron or Moon/Pluto types etc. I suspect this push/pull dynamic is interesting i.e Mars in 7th(independence) vs. Craving intimate encounters(Venus/Pluto). The square aspect suggesting exaggerated sexual desires/inclinations because of this. Be careful of taking the interpretations you find online literally. They are open to criticism and perspective. And they are never exhausted nor cast in stone. What are you Moon aspects ? Where is Saturn? Aspects to Ic?
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Kannon McAfee Moderator Posts: 2944 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 18, 2017 06:50 PM
SoulOfABird,Factors in your birth chart are not predictive -- unless you simply walk through life blindly and don't grow past your starting place tendencies a seen in your birth chart. The whole point of astrology is to look at the potentials in certain aspects or other factors and channel those energies in a positive way. They represent tendencies you came in with that are part of your starting place. With self-awareness and growth you need not experience the worst that can be imagined with those factors. This is where the setting of intention becomes important. Desiring a peaceful relationship is more important than what some may say about factors in your birth chart. Hold that intention, strengthen it, and let go of fear so it can do its work. In other words, put the emotion and intention of your desire for a peaceful relationship into action rather than into the fear you'll end up with something worse. Then go about learning what it takes to be that peaceful person. Look for those you can trust who can be a check and balance upon your rose-colored-glass idealism so that you can go into a relationship with some perspective.
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DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 406 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted November 19, 2017 03:36 AM
Venus-Opposite NeptuneSo no I don't have any interest in relationships. I just see it as a burden and feminists have to much rights that anything can spell game over for a guy even if his intentions are good, so its not worth the risk. I occasionally make fun of people who are in relationships. For example a buddy of mind is a teaching assistant for Actuary Science (Risk Assessment/Insurance) and he just got engaged. I said to him what formula did you use to calculate your risk of getting married?. I hope its as good as the formula you teach your students on how to calculate other types of risks. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 6029 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 19, 2017 09:19 AM
Take the plunge regardless of your aspects I say, it just might turn out well, who knows ?IP: Logged |