posted December 14, 2017 02:48 AM            

With Cancer placements involved, you are sometimes lover, sometimes parent. But never sure when either one will take precedence.

I guess that may be why on one level, I am magnetically drawn to Cancer placements. But also on another level, instinctively aware of how undermining this tendency of unconsciously feeding off each others' energy can be

For my Moon in Cancer, it became so addictive; the emotional up/downs, the crying, the manipulation, the games etc. It didn't make sense that I felt so safe in all that. How could I feel so safe with someone whom changed like the seasons in one day?

Never have I felt so close to someone. And when he would stand outside my gate and sometimes I outside his when we had one of our epic fights, it was when I felt so emotionally "raw". It was crazy but I felt needed.

Perhaps it was his harsh aspects because he had Venus in Cancer square Mars in Libra. And both were square and conjunct Pluto in Libra respectively?

Or maybe it was my Moon in Cancer/Mars Libra and Mars on Dsc that made him so irresistible to me? I really can't say.But I got out and swore I will never be hypnotized by that again.

People often speak of Venus in Scorpio being intense. In my experience my Venus in Scorpio is having walls up and my "intensity" seemingly exclusively reserved for just me. I feel the sensitivity, others see the intensity. But they don't feel maternal towards me. More likely defensive or guarded.

The other side of the attraction other people feel for me comes from exuding that "promise" on to them. That promise of consuming them wholly body/soul and all that jazz etc. But it remains a promise. The intensity is often controlled, directed and hardly ever fully unleashed. Well atleast in my case.

With Cancer,which I initially underestimated btw,one can be drawn in by the softness and promise of romance. One gets the intimacy but also the retreat. Cancer can let you into their heart one day and then force you to climb out their rectum the next

Its a rollercoaster for the whole time and the loony part is that you KNOW its ludicrous. But the haunting energy of the Moon draws you in anyways-unless u steel your heart and resist the cyclical flow of their erretic energy.

But it was not all on him.I have Moon conjunct the Ic. So I am also a drama king.

He

Asc Cancer
Leo Sun
Sag Moon
Leo Merc
Venus Cancer
Mars Libra

Me

posted December 14, 2017 05:39 AM            

Cancer sign is very interesting, I'm dealing with someone who has either pisces or cancer asc, but he feels like cancer, maternal energies dunno. But he has Pisces jupiter and moon to so its hard.

posted December 14, 2017 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Cancer can let you into their heart one day and then force you to climb out their rectum the next

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Haha!