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Yanmorg
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posted January 02, 2018 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars is in my 7th house (just above the cusp line)
Mars conjunct NN in the 7th.
Mars conjunct Pluto in the 6th.

Pluto rules my 7th house.

Do other women with these placements find themselves relationship-oriented as well?

I know there are so many other factors to consider (I have Moon in Libra also), but Iím trying to figure out where this intense need to partner up comes from.

I have always cared and values my relationships more than anything else in this world. I was never extremely ambitious or goal-oriented like my peers although I did manage to accumulate a few successes along the way (Bachelorís degree, management experience, Fluent Spanish).

My point is, so many people seem a lot less affected by their personal relationships than myself.

I am very intense, jealous, loyal, etc in my relationships but even my intensity is too much for the avg Scorpio. I donít get it. At first I thought it was a Scorpio thing until I met other Scorpios and observed them in their relationships.

Then I thought well maybe I need to change a few things about myself, work on my self-esteem, image, etc because maybe that has a lot to do with why Iím so relationship oriented...

Negative.
Negative.

Even the most insecure people arenít as intense as I am about my relationships.

My relationships consume me. Body and Soul.

All I ever wanted out of life was to marry a good man I can help make great and to raise our child.. go to work every day, come home, amd just live.

I feel guilty for not wanting millions or something bigger out of life like my peers.


I have passions, creative hobbies, etc just like the next person but I never felt the need or had the desire to turn my life into a big movie because of it.

I never had the desire to ďchange the worldĒ or peopleís lives in a major way. I do want to help people as much as possible and in any way I can, but I never wanted recognition or a big lucrative career out of it.

I would be happy living in the country with my family and living a simple life day by day. Enjoying each other.

Iím stressed out because the pressure is ON and I donít want any of it.

People can tell you not to care what others think of you and to a certain extent, I donít, but letís be realistic here, everybody cares what someone thinks, even if a little bit.

Iím just searching for answers.

Pluto is doing a number on my Moon, Uranus, Neptune.

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mirage29
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posted January 02, 2018 10:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry you're going through such difficulty right now.

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Nebel11
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posted January 03, 2018 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nebel11     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm the same way!!! Oh my gosh, I totally get you. I'm not ambitious at all...I just want to marry, be loved, have babies, grow old and be buried with someone. I have Pluto, Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, North Node and asteroids Nessus and Eros in the 7th in Scorpio.

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Yanmorg
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posted January 03, 2018 06:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mirage29:
Sorry you're going through such difficulty right now.

<3 I appreciate that, Mirage.

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Yanmorg
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posted January 03, 2018 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nebel11:
I'm the same way!!! Oh my gosh, I totally get you. I'm not ambitious at all...I just want to marry, be loved, have babies, grow old and be buried with someone. I have Pluto, Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, North Node and asteroids Nessus and Eros in the 7th in Scorpio.

Yup!

I have Sun, Mercury (r), Venus, Jupiter, Pluto in Scorpio in the 6th, Pluto rules my 7th conjunct my Sun, mars, DSC.

So it must have A LOT to do with Scorpio in the 7th!

Do you find yourself being criticized about it?

Nowadays, if a woman isnít ambitious enough, sheís viewed, in general, as lazy and worthless to a certain extent.

Women werenít expected to be ambitious back in the old days or even expected to have any success at all outside of her husband and children.

Fast-forward, itís expected. Probably moreso than the men since masculinity has taken a backseat in recnt years.

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Lalafortunaea
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posted January 03, 2018 07:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Well, I do believe I am quite ambitious - though, not necessarily about the traditional world of academia. I like being self taught and making a name for myself, on my own, in an independent way, and proving things to myself.

On the other hand, part of me would like, one day, to be married with someone who loves me deeply, and who I love deeply. The best of both worlds, in a way. I do like the idea of a peaceful domestic life, just as I do like the idea of pursuing/working on something greater than myself.

For you, I don't think you should have to feel such pressure. Having a loving husband, beautiful family life is already a nice thing to be motivated to get.

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