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Topic: Saturn trine Venus at 4th
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Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 1266 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2014
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posted January 04, 2018 08:54 AM
My Saturn Is trining Venus and they are both transiting 4th house at this moment. Would this be good time to meet someone in romantic sense?IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 4865 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 05, 2018 10:19 AM
I don't know about meeting someone new. But its great for making a step forward with someone you already have and want to be committed to.I would reckon starting things off slow(if someone new). As its usually a conservative time. IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 1266 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2014
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posted January 06, 2018 07:03 PM
Thank you! Well this aspect is not yet exact but so far its been unexpected. I had one guy in my life that i have been interested in and i thought he was too. He is 8th years of my senior. I asked him out and it was catastrophe. He avoided me two days and finally today i saw him and he said no to me..just great..But i also saw two days ago my old friend..i haven't speak with her in years as we had bad row. It was great to see her and we talked..everything was like before and i think we can renew our friendship. Im so happy that happened but at the same time im so sad..like why i can't find anyone who likes me and loves me. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 4865 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2018 11:34 PM
You asked that guy out. You went after what you want. You did it. So awesome He said "no" because he is not interested. Not because you are not interesting. So keep going , there will be someone who is as it looks as if you are ready to give love. Not all doors will be shut. Its only if you focus on how "humiliating" it was to put yourself out there, that you may get stuck in the quagmire of it all. The important thing is that you tried and made your intentions known in a dignified way. Nothing to be ashamed of. The rebuffs will only clear away the confusion of "do they feel the same?". So don't beat yourself up. Please. This approach is impressive as most people who say they need someone in their life, are always waiting to have the other person initiate. The other person be the one "giving" whilst they remain passive. It is not unusual to reunite with old friends(even lovers) during this time. As you are evaluating what you actually want(Venus) from a sober point of view(Saturn)-focusing only on that. So opportunities may arise that have been previously overlooked. Or a bond that didn't get the chance to mature etc. Keep going. It will come right. IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 1266 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2014
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posted January 07, 2018 03:05 AM
Thank you for your kind words and long answer. This just made me wonder why one should bother to try as everything was happening quite randomly. And have to say effortlessly when i met my friend. As I wasn't thinking about my old friend..we just met out of the blue and hanged around almost two days. And it was like old times (and of course i have been thinking her time to time during thede years.)So if it all was predestined or coincidence draw to me by stars...there seems to be no point to try to change things. I really thought it looked good transit wise also. He was older etc. But for some reason it wasn't once again love.(Maybe because my natal chart is such a mess..lol) Im not completely devastated just wondering what's the point. IP: Logged |
Melinn Knowflake Posts: 297 From: Sweden Registered: Jul 2017
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posted January 07, 2018 06:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Valmu83: Thank you for your kind words and long answer. This just made me wonder why one should bother to try as everything was happening quite randomly. And have to say effortlessly when i met my friend. As I wasn't thinking about my old friend..we just met out of the blue and hanged around almost two days. And it was like old times (and of course i have been thinking her time to time during thede years.)So if it all was predestined or coincidence draw to me by stars...there seems to be no point to try to change things. I really thought it looked good transit wise also. He was older etc. But for some reason it wasn't once again love.(Maybe because my natal chart is such a mess..lol) Im not completely devastated just wondering what's the point.
I feel you dear, and its so awesome you dared to ask! It makes you so powerful, to go after what you want and be forward. I have Venus-Saturn trine natally, as Venus also stands for "Values and selfvalue" it shows that you are aware of your selfvalue, and won't take any bs. Also Saturn is all about structure and buildng up things slowly but steady, it shows that a person takes all kind of relationships, romantic and friendships very seriously. It means, if the other person is not putting the same effort or near the same effort as you are in the relationship, you will not wanna bother building things ith that person. I think him saying no is all about him and not about the transits in your chart. Ad the friend who you pathed things up with maybe is that venus-saturn who wants to build things up again between you two, thats great! IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 1266 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2014
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posted January 08, 2018 05:01 PM
Thank you Melinn. I have tried to meditate and let him go for good as I don deserve this kind of treatment from anyone. Really happy to reunite with my friend IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 90541 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 13, 2018 03:45 PM
Thanks, Aries.IP: Logged |