posted January 16, 2018 05:40 AM
Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Venus in Libra wants romance and sharing. Mars in Capricorn is reserved and at worst even stoic.
This may suggest someone whom one minute attracts with their charm(Libra). But then goes on to be quite difficult to break into or go past the superficial "hi"(Cap)
There could be a wall built around them where they really want you close(Libra) but are shy of revealing whom they are(Cap).
So they seduce on one hand. But back off quickly on the other. Feeling like they can't reconcile their need for a partner (Lib)with their need for solitude(Cap)
He wants you close. But not with the heavy feelings that may result. Almost like wanting to take a shower without wetting the floor. Impossible feat. But thats what he wants
So he may treat this relationship as a business transaction. Diplomatic and agreeable on the surface. Even going as far as doing all things "relationship" centred i.e holding hands, dates etc.
But even with this backdrop, you may feel that your partner is still foreign to you or impenetrable. You are dating him. But you are not certain that u know him etc. Not deeply.
If you push him. You may push him away. As he may fears emotional demands(unless Moon is in water)
When you try and get into him, you may find a very charming man whom is very guarded and closed off to a more emotionally intense connection.
And that is what friendship is really. Its less demanding of feelings and gives more leeway for the individual to decide when to get close(Libra) and when to stand off (Cap).
I'm sorry for replying so late! Have been a bit emotionally overwhelmed lately.
I really appreciate all your answers <3
Yes you are right about how Venus square mars can be seductive at one hand, and then back off.
Do you think having Venus-Mars connection gives that planets more of an Aries vibe, then having Venus in Aries? It's not the same but dunno.
I read someone describing Square dynamics as a table with 4 feet, but one of the feet is shorter so the table is unbalanced and tips and wobble sometimes, and is steady sometimes.
I can remember so many interaction, especially in the beginning. Once we were gonna have a class together, and he is always a happy go lucky person. So I said hi while he was passing by and he was super cold.
After the class when I stood outside searching for something in my bag, he came up and was super charming and smiling and stroked up a conversation and was reluctant to leave haha I was like, wtf?!
It was like he really regretted being cold earlier and wanted to make it up for me.
But since I have Moon oppo saturn I can really relatebeing cold and in control sometimes, and be able to relax other times.
This was in the beginning of me starting to know him.
Then he had a phase 2 months after me always going up to him and his friend and being charming and chatty when he out of the blue started to flirt more intensely and focused.
But that phase sizzled down and for quite a while he seemed to struggle to find balance. It was like, he wan't to flirt but also he wants to be friends and he seemed unable to find a thin line between those. It has been interesting following his struggles haha. I really crave emotional struggle and drama (plutonic)
I'm Aries 8th house female, when I focus I have the eye on the prize and I wan't results! I hate standing tramping water.
Yes he has water moon in Pisces so I think thats why and how he has not freaked out yet by my intensity
Sorry I was not gonna go into about him. I'm just so interested in the Square aspects dynamics! I have only a few squares and those are to my asc.