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Topic: Aquarius venus in longterm relationships vs Scorp venus?
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 3057
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 05, 2018 03:48 PM
  
I know so many aqua venus people who are in longterm relationships, or have been in a relationship longer than what you would probably expect with this venus. It's like they just really knows how to work things out in a partnership, in terms of privacy and freedom. They seems to really get the balance between having a friendship with their partner, but also having their own friends and their own life??
But I must say it makes me really surprised, because I would have thought that people with this venus sign, often would prefer to be single and "free". On the other hand, I don't know that many Scorpio venus who managed to sustain a longterm relationship (including myself). I would have expected this venus to be really loyal and would go a great length to protect any kind of intimate relationship. I would expect them to enjoy the intimacy and become even possessive in their close relationships. But I keep experiencing that scorpio venus cannot really figure it out. They just seems to remain single for most of their lives, or their relationships becomes unhealthy at some point. Does anyone relate to this or is it just me? I would really wish that I was able to find a special someone I could enjoy a long and happy relationship with, but it just doesnt seem to be possible. I got a scorpio venus in 5th house myself, trine jupiter, sextile uranus, saturn and neptune, conjunction pluto. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 4839
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 05, 2018 04:11 PM
Scorpio Venus here. I think we can get too complex and self sabotage.Also, we are not able to be objective because of our intense emotions. So we lock down instead of reaching out. Scorpio Venus wants intimacy. But many are terrified of being hurt too. More so than most would think. I don't think I can stand another Scorpio Venus. Maybe Cancer or Virgo. But not Scorpio. It gets too complicated too quickly. IP: Logged |
mereiposa
Knowflake Posts: 426
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Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 05, 2018 05:33 PM
I am interested in someone currently with an Aqua venus. I'll be watching this thread. I've never been with an Aqua or Scorpio Venus, before now. One of my close friends is a Venus in Scorpio and yes he is super intense. His girlfriend is Venus in Pisces, but they have DW pluto venus aspects and she is a Scorpio ASC so they seem to be doing very well. He was single for a long time prior to this. My venus and mars are both in Virgo and I've been single for a long time. My friends think I am too picky. But I can't force attraction if the pieces aren't all in place. I do have a Scorpio ASC, and I am constantly looking for my one. I don't love this being single thing. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 05, 2018 06:06 PM
Venus in scorpio is too freaking intense for most people to want to do the long term thing with them including myself...On the other hand the best marriages with the highest success rate are founded on a strong friendship research shows and is no surprise this comes naturally to venus in aquarius. Everyone I know with this placement is great at long term relationships including my mom and dad, together for over 35 years now, my dad only has married once and the other person he was with bf my mother they lasted 4 years and it was a nice relationship. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 4839
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 05, 2018 11:03 PM
Just to add. My best friend since 2004 is Aqua Venus with Cap Asc ,Pisces Moon.He was quite a handful at the beginning of our friendship. But has toned down a lot with his denands. His Venus is in my 11th house and my Mars is in his 11th house. He is quite intense with relationships too. But is a lot more sexually active than i am when single IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 7917
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 06, 2018 12:47 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Just to add. My best friend since 2004 is Aqua Venus with Cap Asc ,Pisces Moon.He was quite a handful at the beginning of our friendship. But has toned down a lot with his denands. His Venus is in my 11th house and my Mars is in his 11th house. He is quite intense with relationships too. But is a lot more sexually active than i am when single
Does his moon trine his DC in cancer? IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 7917
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 06, 2018 12:54 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Just to add. My best friend since 2004 is Aqua Venus with Cap Asc ,Pisces Moon.He was quite a handful at the beginning of our friendship. But has toned down a lot with his denands. His Venus is in my 11th house and my Mars is in his 11th house. He is quite intense with relationships too. But is a lot more sexually active than i am when single
DC in cancer can be intense and clingy in relationships even though they may appear aloof, relationships activate his cancer traits. Add that moon in pisces rules his DC so he has very high ideals and hence expectations in relationships, issues with emotional boundaries perhaps. What are his mars aspects? What does he have mars in?
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 4839
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 06, 2018 01:47 AM
His Moon in Pisces conjuncts Mars in Aqua(29).His Moon trine the Dc. And add to Moon-Mars conjunct. Mars square Uranus(29 Scorpio). I think you are correct. But i must say that Asc in Cap can add a seriousness to the personality. Even intensity. Whenever he is in a relationship, he just succumbs to the will of the partner. Its really weird to see. And most of his exes immediately moved in - weeks after dating. IP: Logged |
starzy54
Knowflake Posts: 487
From: CA
Registered: Feb 2010
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posted January 06, 2018 04:01 AM
Scorp Venus here in the 4th house. Been in a long term relationship with aqua venus for 10 years now.I have gone through phases myself over the years trying to adapt to the detached and "free" spirit he has. I've put myself through my own personal hell /agony over getting possessive and jealous of him not being as intense as I am about him / he with me. I've come to appreciate the beauty of his spirit over the years, I just wish I realized earlier to not be so serious and chill out. It can work, but scorp venus just has to understand early that if you try to "bottle" up Air, it's going to go stale. IP: Logged |
jjj
Knowflake Posts: 475
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted January 06, 2018 05:45 PM
Female Scorpio venus here - never had a good relationship in my life, single after my failed marriage (single for 10 yrs now). Forever single lol.
Men with Scorpio venus seem to be luckier, but all women with Scorpio venus I know seem unable to find lasting relationships.
I’m too intense, want too much, hypersensitive, swing between extremes, very picky, drama queen, attracted only to very broken types, need constant excitement etc. Funnily enough most of my lovers/crushes/friends have been Aqua venuses. Actually flirting with two now. IP: Logged |
mereiposa
Knowflake Posts: 426
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Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 07, 2018 05:08 AM
a friend of mine has her venus in Scorpio, and yes, she's only had one real relationship. That was many many years ago and she does not attempt to meet anyone now. She is young (39) but says she's done with men. I don't know much more than that, but she is very mistrustful.All I know is she loves men who are dark and dramatic- many piercings, tattoos, dyed hair, even makeup. Loves men on stage who wear masks! And then she also has a crush on her pharmacist, who is your typical neighbor next door kind of guy. It's pretty funny trying to figure her out. IP: Logged |
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