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Topic: Libra dominant/moon in libra
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Spica
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 20, 2018 01:26 AM
  
I have a libra moon and venus.I'm really hard on myself. Whenever something bad happens or someone's mean to be I always think there must the something wrong with me. And I need to find that. It's like I'm made for others, and just to be good in their eyes, and if I'm not, I'm powerless. Because I try to get what I want through others, mostly the emotional approval and and support. I also need other people for material comfort. I feel like my life purpose is to please others. I also have a Pisces ascendant. I feel pathetic. I don't know if but inside my emotions really depend of others, especially those I'm dependant on or need for survival. IP: Logged |
Rheanna
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From: The Orient
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted January 20, 2018 03:53 AM
Spica dear,If I may ask, what is your purpose in sharing this information - your moon and venus position in libra thus the implication on your life? I ask this with all good intention. IP: Logged |
Spica
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 20, 2018 11:13 AM
I was sharing my placements and what it does to me, anyone can come here to share their placements too, this way we understand astrology better.IP: Logged |
snow angel
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posted January 20, 2018 12:33 PM
I would think a Moon conjunct Venus in Libra Woman is very beautiful and desirable. You have a gift with aesthetics that you should explore. Do things that you find beautiful and you will be happy.IP: Logged |
Spica
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 20, 2018 09:31 PM
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Originally posted by snow angel:
I would think a Moon conjunct Venus in Libra Woman is very beautiful and desirable. You have a gift with aesthetics that you should explore. Do things that you find beautiful and you will be happy.
Thank you snow. I love art and designing. Right now at the moment I'm just going through a difficult time related to health so I can't enjoy anything. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 4934
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 21, 2018 12:12 PM
I get your predicament.Moon in Libra or Ic in Libra can be all about beautiful relations with others. Feeling bad/awful when there is a fallout. Ironically, many Moon in Libra people are actually single. As relationships can be so highly stress inducing for them. Perhaps it takes a level of accepting that you can't create in another's world. No matter how much you try to get on with others. There are those that won't like you. And its okay. It takes time to come to the realization. But you will and then realize that the only person whom was putting you under pressure to be the " be all" to everyone was YOU. Not wanting others to think ill of you suggests that u are too invested in what others say about u. And could care less about what you think about you. Ironic I know. Especially for someone who is so " considerate" is very abusive with themselves. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 7962
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 21, 2018 12:38 PM
Spica what are your saturn placements? Does Saturn aspect your Sun, moon or ascendant? IP: Logged |
Spica
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 22, 2018 02:04 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I get your predicament.Moon in Libra or Ic in Libra can be all about beautiful relations with others. Feeling bad/awful when there is a fallout. Ironically, many Moon in Libra people are actually single. As relationships can be so highly stress inducing for them. Perhaps it takes a level of accepting that you can't create in another's world. No matter how much you try to get on with others. There are those that won't like you. And its okay. It takes time to come to the realization. But you will and then realize that the only person whom was putting you under pressure to be the " be all" to everyone was YOU. Not wanting others to think ill of you suggests that u are too invested in what others say about u. And could care less about what you think about you. Ironic I know. Especially for someone who is so " considerate" is very abusive with themselves.
You're right. Thank you for understanding me. IP: Logged |
Spica
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 22, 2018 02:08 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Spica what are your saturn placements? Does Saturn aspect your Sun, moon or ascendant?
Saturn opposes my venus and moon, but at the same time Jupiter trines my venus and moon too. But Saturn is making a stronger opposition to my venus than to my moon, and Jupiter is making a stronger trine with my moon than with my Venus. Saturn is not aspecting my sun, but Jupiter strongly aspects my sun. IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
Knowflake Posts: 120
From: California
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted January 22, 2018 02:45 PM
Having Libra moon, I find myself feeling emotionally hurt if I upset someone. My life depends on making others happy by pleasing them. In reality, it isn't my job. I can build a reputation/relationship with them for months and years, and can fall all in just one day -- it's like the end of the world and I can fall into a pit of thinking what did I do wrong. It takes time to re-work ourselves and learn to please ourselves first -- overtime you get used to the idea not everyone will be happy with your action or even ideas. You want to be surrounded by those who love you for YOU, not what you can DO for them. I would like to see myself think like the opposing sign Aries and work it's own balance between the signs. IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 2638
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 22, 2018 03:50 PM
Your Pisces will make you very concerned about others, and having Libra moon can make you want to please people a little too much, especially as it might fall in your 7th house of others or the 8th house. But I think the real issue is the Saturnian opposition to your moon and Venus. IP: Logged |
Spica
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 22, 2018 11:07 PM
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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Having Libra moon, I find myself feeling emotionally hurt if I upset someone. My life depends on making others happy by pleasing them. In reality, it isn't my job. I can build a reputation/relationship with them for months and years, and can fall all in just one day -- it's like the end of the world and I can fall into a pit of thinking what did I do wrong. It takes time to re-work ourselves and learn to please ourselves first -- overtime you get used to the idea not everyone will be happy with your action or even ideas. You want to be surrounded by those who love you for YOU, not what you can DO for them. I would like to see myself think like the opposing sign Aries and work it's own balance between the signs.
There are positive things about having a libra moon such as being polite, charming and graceful, like a royalty would. Also being patient with others and making them feel special and important. We create harmony, peace and we're sane. We should be proud about that about ourselves. Without us libras/libra energy the world would be a nasty place. IP: Logged |
Spica
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 22, 2018 11:19 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
Your Pisces will make you very concerned about others, and having Libra moon can make you want to please people a little too much, especially as it might fall in your 7th house of others or the 8th house. But I think the real issue is the Saturnian opposition to your moon and Venus.
Saturn of course causes problems to planets especially sensitive ones like venus and moon. So it's true. But I think it gets better with age. IP: Logged |
Spica
Knowflake Posts: 1239
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 22, 2018 11:27 PM
I admit as a libra dominant I am really superficial, that's why I expect the same from others towards me. I like harmony and balance and anything that disrupts it makes me uncomfortable. I need to accept that life is not always smooth, it's not a Disney movie. I hate anything inappropriate or 'disgusting'. That stuck up attitude could also come from the Saturn aspecting my venus. I don't show this of course, because I always act patient and understanding but I actually dislike anything that takes away from the perfection or harmony of a place/situation.It could also be because of being a Virgo. I realized how Virgo it sounded too. I wish I could accept and see everything as special and beautiful instead of always judging it, that's how I used to be when I was little, I was a little dumb for being this way but I didn't know how to judge things, even though it would be weird in society, anyone or anything different would fascinate me and I would accept it unconditionally and not judge it like I do now. I hate who I've become but it was all because of the fear and negativity I saw and learnt from middle school. I have a unconditionally accepting, innocent and soft and sensitive Pisces side that conflicts with my libra side that wants to be appropriate and liked by society, the libra side that judges others and who's hard on my own self and be superficial. It's really hard being this combination. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 1972
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted January 23, 2018 06:39 PM
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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Having Libra moon, I find myself feeling emotionally hurt if I upset someone. My life depends on making others happy by pleasing them. In reality, it isn't my job. I can build a reputation/relationship with them for months and years, and can fall all in just one day -- it's like the end of the world and I can fall into a pit of thinking what did I do wrong. It takes time to re-work ourselves and learn to please ourselves first -- overtime you get used to the idea not everyone will be happy with your action or even ideas. You want to be surrounded by those who love you for YOU, not what you can DO for them. I would like to see myself think like the opposing sign Aries and work it's own balance between the signs.
I have a Libra moon and I experience the same, I have had to learn those issues belong to the other person and not myself. My pluto conjunct moon in my 1st house drawls folks like this and it has been learning if they were real in the first place then our friendship shouldn't end the few times I say no or don't agree with what you say. That's insane but also very telling of the other persons character.
Have you ever taken the ennogram test and seeing what you get? I have a 9w8. nines are peacemakers at heart but the 8 is assertive aggressive types that will move you out the way if you are in line of something they want or goal their trying to obtain. I agree with this on end being a libra moon ( 9) and 1st house of Aries location ( 8 ) conjunct my pluto ( 8) .
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WarriorPrincess7
Knowflake Posts: 746
From: Island of Sirens
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted January 24, 2018 04:45 PM
I have moon in Libra and people's opinions are crippling me right now, I feel like if people are talking badly about me i can't live right, it affects me soooo much its a real issue for me.IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
Knowflake Posts: 120
From: California
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted January 26, 2018 05:06 PM
@colorful butterfly
OH yeah! Were you the person who started a thread about the test? I can try find it. @WarriorPrincess7
I know right? It's emotionally draining. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 1972
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted January 29, 2018 01:56 AM
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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
@colorful butterfly
OH yeah! Were you the person who started a thread about the test? I can try find it. @WarriorPrincess7
I know right? It's emotionally draining.
I have seen a few on here but I did start one awhile back.
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