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Topic: Should one date a person who has personal planet touching their southnode?
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sc0rpioRising
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From: somewhere!
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 22, 2018 06:38 PM
  
Are they meant to have a long lasting relationship in this lifetime? Especially if the moon and Venus is conjunctions the south node in Scorpio .... in the 12th house!The above is an example ... but generally speaking .. surely they are the lessons that need to be learnt and from there they should find someone who is
More towards the north node? Otherwise they would always feel stuck in the past? Would love to know your opinions! IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 22, 2018 07:15 PM
Southnode connections are not prone to be long lasting...Unless there are also Norhtnode connections to balance this out. My husband's Neptune conjuncts my Southnode but my venus, mars and valentine conjunct his Northnode. Also his Psyche conjuncts my Northnode. Also his Juno and Saturn are on my Sun. ...and Saturn squares our nodes in composite. So you have to look at Saturn too since Saturn rules time and commitments as Libra is exalted in Saturn for a reason. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7047
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 22, 2018 07:27 PM
South Node conjunctions in synastry supposed to feel very comfy , at least in the beginning. I think it depends on the natal chart mostly. For example, I have Sun-South Node - DSC tight conjunction and for some reason I do not like other people touching my South Node Stellium. I can't think of a case when I was attracted to someone conjuncting it, it's actually the opposite. Hmmm. IP: Logged |
Stellia
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From: Yorks, UK
Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 22, 2018 08:11 PM
Personally, I'd avoid south node only contacts now purely because I'm at an age where I'm ready to go north node.Not everyone's ready for the NN lessons yet. Interesting ones for me would be a SN conjunction and a square - the square could be a good catalyst to move things forward. It probably won't be long lasting, but will be hugely impartial* in forcing you towards the NN path. Where you have contacts at both sides, the SN will be felt first, then the nature of the relationship would change at some point. Eg someone has their BML on my south node, but their moon on my NN. The initial pull is absolutely sexually orientated... The emotional stuff is there but it hasn't yet shifted. It will need to shift at some point because the emotional experience is what I crave, and the sex-only emphasis is wearing thin. As a very pure example, I'd expect to see teachers and mentors with SN contacts - as the lessons are learned, the node person outgrows the relationship and is ready to grow. *influential - not impartial! Autocorrect got me  IP: Logged |
Orange
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From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 22, 2018 08:19 PM
I had someone's Venus on my North Node and ASC, and I was terrified of the uncharted territory which he wanted to pull me into, without any promises. He was like Here, kitty, kitty..Come on, come on...
.but there was no pat on the back nor a lap curl. I tried so hard to jump the fence but i guess wasn't ready to take all the risks, and he didn't offer much help, aside from the massive baits. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 7958
From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 22, 2018 08:26 PM
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Originally posted by Stellia:
Personally, I'd avoid south node only contacts now purely because I'm at an age where I'm ready to go north node.Not everyone's ready for the NN lessons yet. Interesting ones for me would be a SN conjunction and a square - the square could be a good catalyst to move things forward. It probably won't be long lasting, but will be hugely impartial in forcing you towards the NN path. Where you have contacts at both sides, the SN will be felt first, then the nature of the relationship would change at some point. Eg someone has their BML on my south node, but their moon on my NN. The initial pull is absolutely sexually orientated... The emotional stuff is there but it hasn't yet shifted. It will need to shift at some point because the emotional experience is what I crave, and the sex-only emphasis is wearing thin. As a very pure example, I'd expect to see teachers and mentors with SN contacts - as the lessons are learned, the node person outgrows the relationship and is ready to grow.
Love your input on this! Great Stuff. IP: Logged |
Lerena
Knowflake Posts: 894
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Registered: May 2015
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posted January 22, 2018 09:13 PM
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Originally posted by sc0rpioRising:
Are they meant to have a long lasting relationship in this lifetime? Especially if the moon and Venus is conjunctions the south node in Scorpio .... in the 12th house!The above is an example ... but generally speaking .. surely they are the lessons that need to be learnt and from there they should find someone who is
More towards the north node? Otherwise they would always feel stuck in the past? Would love to know your opinions!
Your question is not clear to me. Is this about someone else's planets touching the South Node or natal planets touching the South Node?I'm not sure that the South Node being involved in synastry is a good thing. However, if you are asking about natal planets touching the South Node, I do not think that anything touching the South Node has to mean that someone is not relationship material. The only people that don't deserve to be in a relationship are people that don't want a relationship to begin with. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted January 23, 2018 08:49 AM
My husband and I have all kinds of aspects between NN/SN/Vertex/Saturn. There are squares and conjunctions (oppositions by default then too) involved.
When we met it felt like our roots were from another lifetime. We do have our moments when his Aries Sun clashes with my Cancer Sun/Cap Moon but we have this bond that seem unbreakable and we can also switch from a personal argument to address an “attacker” from the outside REAL QUICK! I don’t think we are comfortable to be around for some people as we kinda are a “force” together. IP: Logged |
Stellia
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From: Yorks, UK
Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2018 10:20 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Love your input on this! Great Stuff.
Thanks hypatia238 - I'm really really into the nodal axis stuff (if you hadn't guessed!) IP: Logged |
Stellia
Knowflake Posts: 436
From: Yorks, UK
Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 23, 2018 10:25 AM
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Originally posted by Orange:
I had someone's Venus on my North Node and ASC, and I was terrified of the uncharted territory which he wanted to pull me into, without any promises. He was like Here, kitty, kitty..Come on, come on...
.but there was no pat on the back nor a lap curl. I tried so hard to jump the fence but i guess wasn't ready to take all the risks, and he didn't offer much help, aside from the massive baits.
This is such a great example (although I'm sorry you couldn't/didn't want to jump at that time). Out of interest, are you due for a nodal return any time in the next few years? That might trigger that willingness to leap the fence. My venus is exactly on someone's NN. His moon is on mine. I want to try out the whole 'emotional surrender' thing (my SN is in aquarius, I'm basically Spock), but it terrifies me. And he's not ready to understand love (inc self-love). Maybe after his second nodal return, we'll both be ready  IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 23, 2018 02:56 PM
There is nothing wrong with dating someone whose planets align with your S.Node. It's really more what your expectations are and whether the synastry is good overall. If the synastry doesn't have enough to support a flow into long-term relationship, then it could be easy to blame the S.Node interaspects even if they are good (like with Moon-Venus), but the real problems are elsewhere. One chart factor does not ruin a synastry.Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology. ------------------
Soul Stars Astrology - by the declinations guy
Declinations,
because the planets move north and south of the celestial equator IP: Logged |
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