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SunAscendant
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posted February 01, 2018 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Taurus sun (on the Aries-Taurus cusp to be exact) with a Cap moon and am Capricorn dominant but have Venus in Aries & Mars in Pisces making me different from this guy I like who is an Aquarius sun, Leo Moon and has Venus in Cap and Mars in Cap. My ex had this same setup except he had a Sag Venus so he was able to understand my Aries Venus.

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Lalafortunaea
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posted February 01, 2018 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorn usually likes Pisces, and vice versa. The rest of your set up seems fine enough. As for wooing him, I'd say get ready to take it s.l.o.w. You've got Taurus, so you've got the staying power (hopefully). You'll need to control the impulsive Aries side in the beginning. Accentuate your Pisces energy a bit more. Believe it or not, Leo and Aqua also have a thing for Pisces energy (Pisces is warmed by Leo thus making Leo happy, and Aqua is fascinated by Pisces depth)

Since this person is an Aqua sun, they're going to be a bit of a challenge, since the sun is in its fall here. They'll put on airs (pun not intended) to hide what's really inside. But, again, your own earth signs will give you tenacity. Capricorn is quite serious, as I'm sure you yourself feel, so, patience is important. And this person, given their sex + love sign, and their sun and moon, might actually secretly be ashamed of some of their own feelings, and keep them from you. Do you feel that from them?

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posted February 01, 2018 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Capricorn usually likes Pisces, and vice versa. The rest of your set up seems fine enough. As for wooing him, I'd say get ready to take it s.l.o.w. You've got Taurus, so you've got the staying power (hopefully). You'll need to control the impulsive Aries side in the beginning. Accentuate your Pisces energy a bit more. Believe it or not, Leo and Aqua also have a thing for Pisces energy (Pisces is warmed by Leo thus making Leo happy, and Aqua is fascinated by Pisces depth)

Since this person is an Aqua sun, they're going to be a bit of a challenge, since the sun is in its fall here. They'll put on airs (pun not intended) to hide what's really inside. But, again, your own earth signs will give you tenacity. Capricorn is quite serious, as I'm sure you yourself feel, so, patience is important. And this person, given their sex + love sign, and their sun and moon, might actually secretly be ashamed of some of their own feelings, and keep them from you. Do you feel that from them?


Yeah I'm Earth and Cap dominant so even though my Aries Venus is extremely prominent in me (I approach men first, I am flirty, I definitely don't take any sass etc) I have so much Earth and even a Grand Earth Trine keeping me reigned in. My 8th house is in Aquarius and I have Saturn there and it does conjunct his Aqua sun, but Saturn contacts in synastry can give longevity to relationships, or so I've heard. His Sun is also exactly (0 degrees) sextile my Venus so that makes me think that at the very least he probably likes me as a person and isn't revolted by me (our Venuses are in an almost exact square though, but I feel the Sun sextile Venus aspect negates the Venus square).

I haven't approached him yet in a flirty way so I don't know if he's keeping any hint of attraction towards me a secret. As I said, my ex had the same Sun, Moon and Mars combo as this guy but my ex had that adventurous and outgoing firey Sag Venus that made it easier for him to express his attraction towards me, this new crush is difficult to assess since he has that earthy Cap Venus that operates kind of like a secretive Scorpio Venus in my opinion. The Leo moon in him tells me he does love romance and affection at his emotional core, so that's good; that means that he isn't some cold person devoid of feelings!

The thing is that when we have talked it doesn't seem like he's particularly fond of me, in fact, it almost seems as if he's annoyed by me even though he's said he isn't (maybe I'm paranoid). He might just be showing that super serious Capricornian energy when he's talking to me and I'm mistaking it for disinterest or annoyance.

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treedroppings
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posted February 01, 2018 09:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for treedroppings     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since he's an Aquarius-Leo, you might want to review that combination:https://soulastrologer.wordpress.com/2012/02/01/aquarius-leo-the-flow-of-love-and-the-flowering-of-human-consciousness-part-2/

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Aries23Degrees
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posted February 01, 2018 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cap Venus/Mars may have attracted your Cap Moon and Cap placements.

Be yourself and flirt. Be receptive to see if he is interested.

Its tricky when a woman makes a move. Some guys feel awkward. But you can always flirt to see what happens.

The combo of Cap makes it hard for the individual to be open at first.But they are not indifferent to charm.

So if you can make them feel at ease i.e dry humour always disarms the Cap. Once this is taken care of they can be quite ardent and demonstrative-in a sensual way.

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posted February 02, 2018 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Cap Venus/Mars may have attracted your Cap Moon and Cap placements.

Be yourself and flirt. Be receptive to see if he is interested.

Its tricky when a woman makes a move. Some guys feel awkward. But you can always flirt to see what happens.

The combo of Cap makes it hard for the individual to be open at first.But they are not indifferent to charm.

So if you can make them feel at ease i.e dry humour always disarms the Cap. Once this is taken care of they can be quite ardent and demonstrative-in a sensual way.


Would being upfront and telling him that I think he's cute work? I want to ask him out. I have never had a problem with that before with other men.

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Melinn
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posted February 02, 2018 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I bit alike my crush who has Sun leo (in 4th house). Pisces moon and Mars capricorn venus in libra, plus all the aspects one has to concider. However, yes capricorn or saturn aspects more so makes the person put up a "wall" to hide their feelings. Like a scorpios poker face. But as myself has many saturn aspects I can see through that wall very easily.

I have Taurus sun and Venus in aries as well!


However, I can tell you that capricorn mars in general and more importantly saturnian people and males have to be very sure you like them and find them attractive. Since he has leo moon and capri placements, he should like a shy, coy and serious girl but who is also warm and can show feelings and affection. It may seem confusing but yeah its a lot of energies at play here so. Your aries venus would be to his liking, and yeah you have to show him you find him attractive, but not in an aggressive way. Just smiles and talks should be enough but I'm no expert

If you act cold, or uninterested he will back away and feel rejected immidiately. I did this to my crush soon after he started to flirt because I have saturn oppo moon and wanted to control my feelings. And it back fired totally, he started to ignore me haha. Until I showed I wanted to be close again, like 4 days after that , then he was game on again.

If he is sure you won't reject him he will reciprocate sooner or later, but it takes time.

Also one weird thing, atleast with my guy, is that he is super bubbly and charming and like a giddy little school girl when his guy friend is with us (venus Libra) Like, he is very relaxed. But as soon as its him and I alone, his Capricorn Mars comes out and he is more calm and collected and focused and not giddy at all.

Omg, I'm sorry for my messy text! Don't know if its any help at all! :/ Just wanted to share my experience.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted February 06, 2018 06:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Would being upfront and telling him that I think he's cute work? I want to ask him out. I have never had a problem with that before with other men.

You can do that as I always think that the upfront approach is best. But here is a disclaimer- astrology aside for a moment.

First make sure that you are NOT fully invested in a positive answer.

The reason I say this is because if you are specifically focused on him. There is a lot of momentum and force dependent on him saying "yes".

So in other words, your well-being or rather your feeling great/feeling embarrassed is dependent upon him responding in a favorable manner.

In my experience the Universe tends to like optimism. So the more adoration you feel for yourself and thoughts of "I am sexy", the more it will respond with "yes you are".

This means that you have to keep that momentum and be that point where its not complete disappointment if he does say "no". And not, "all my prayers are answered" if he says "yes".

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charlie
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posted February 06, 2018 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
10 years ago I would have said: approach him and lay cards on table.
Today I will tell you: lay low but appear somewhat "receptive" when/if advances are being made.

Aqua + Cap...he'll be aloof for the entire hood...

Summary: do NOT be clingy. do NOT be too aggressive. wait him out.

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Melinn
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posted February 06, 2018 10:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with both above. Yes forwardsness is concidered good, but its more complex then that sometimes.

With a Cap person I would say wait! Until you are sure the person has letten his walls down a bit. But well follow your gut feeling!

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waxlobster
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posted February 08, 2018 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahaha Capricorn Venus is secretive? Well I would go along with that as a Capricorn Venus I’m very shy of showing my feelings. 

What attracts a Cap Mars & Venus? On a basic rudimentary level; status! With the Sun in Aquarius this will be accomplishment in something unusual. There is nothing more attractive than talent and somebody knowing all about something that others don’t.

I am Aquarius Sun also and know way too much about what interests me, I love it when I meet a guy who is an expert in his field. It doesn’t in and of itself procure sexual attraction but it’s far more likely to than a guy who looks perfect but has no personality.

Personality is everything but I have to say Capricorn Venus does like to feel they have ‘won’ somebody who has ‘value’.

As for Capricorn Mars I would think that somebody who is consistent in manner, reliable in following through on promises would be important. Understated sex appeal, a smouldering passion and definitely not a big spender. Capricorn does not like to have his/her hard work unappreciated or squandered, major respect for all things ‘valuable’ is important.

Take him serious when he talks about his work and/or accomplishments, ask questions that imply you think he’s very impressive and cultured. Give the odd, understated compliment and let him feel like he is taking charge. Mars in Capricorn is exalted, I hope its square your Venus in Aries, that would create a few sparks.

Try not to ‘be the Saturn’ just emulate his and so long as there is a basic attraction and chemistry between you (usually you can feel this either way, but most people don’t pursue where that is not present) then it should turn out for you. ;-)

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