posted February 08, 2018 02:49 PM
Whenever I think of a topic or subject that I am interested in discussing, I come on Linda-land and already someone has started a thread on it The Dsc is that house that deals with relationships that are more contractual/binding or collaborative in essence.
People representing the 7th house tend to be mirrors for you. And the closer they are to represent the essence of the energy there, the more impact they have on you (for good or ill).
Close friends that shape you,the parent with the most influence,the sibling with the most influence, the partner that you just can't forget about etc. are such people.
And not all of them are people you love to be around(especially if Neptune,Pluto, Saturn or Mars are there).
Others could have impacted you negatively, but their memory is etched on to you to such an extent that you get angry or reference them on what NEVER to do again etc.
If Aries/Mars is on the cusp of the 7th, people who have the most impact on you are the Aries/Mars types. They are fierce people that came on you like a fireball.
In synastry, someones Mars falling in your 7th house can go either good/bad. And sometimes it can be hard to tell whether there is tension or chemistry?
The Mars person who falls in the other's 7th house is the fire-starter,the one who challenges,encourages,excites,dares,pushes, leads,initiates the relationship.
It could start spontaneously and progress very quickly into a friendship/attraction but with lots of hiccups.
Or it can progress to rivalry and competition- still encouraging the 7th house natal person to bring out the guns when dealing with your Mars.
Since you are Mars(energy), you could consider yourself the motivational speaker or life coach for the 7th house person.
You have the potential of getting them fired up and excited when you are with them. As the Mars energy inspires them to either go for gold or punch your lights out.
You have the same/similar effect on Sun/Moon /Merc/Ven in Aries. And also the with the squares and oppositions but there are mixed results with them.
If their Mars is also in your 7th house, you two may egg each other on. It could be quite a thing seeing you two together.
Same/similar would occur if their Mars is on your Sun/Moon/Merc/Venus/Mars by conjunction. Again squares/oppositions have mixed results, but the energy type is the same.
A Leo Asc meeting a Uranus in Aquarius in their 7th house would differ from a Mars in Aquarius in the 7th.
When you are the Uranus person, you bring a certain jolt of lighting, chaos, difference in perspective, disturbance, excitement or insecurity(depending on the person concerned) to the 7th house person.
This is similar to when your Uranus is on the person's Sun/Moon/Merc/Venus/Mars.The squares and oppositions having similar outcomes
I usually think that when Mars shows up on the angles(esp the 7th),the relationship has the potential to get very sexual /passionate early on.