posted February 26, 2018 11:22 AM            

His moon conjunct neptune and now I know clearly and it makes sense on why his relationship with his mother seems weird. And he can be drawn into sob story and takes it personally.

I still can not believe that he has Moon in Cap as he is not that so cold within interactions but sometimes can be soooo mean. He also prefers watching comedies than anything else. He changes job so many times and can not save for rainy days. He can be so careless with money that he told me he was worried he failed maintaining the money for our future. Sometimes I feel like he depends on me for a safe nest. I am wondering why he is attracted to me as his moon in Cap if it's in early degree makes a minor aspect to my Aqua sun early degree (his venus early degree trine my sun), but if it's not it only makes a sextile to my venus in Pisces. I also once attract Cap moon last degree (conjunct my sun out of sign) and he was so serious about his intention to marry me but at the time I was still in a relationship with my Cap moon early degree now husband. I wonder what are Cap moon men looking for in a woman? I don't think my Aqua sun fit their moon.

My husband also quite different than other Cap mooners I know, how does Moon conjunct Neptune effect moon in Capricorn men? Are they loyal?

His moon aspects:
- Moon conjunct Neptune
- Moon sextile Pluto
- Moon (may or may not) opposite Mercury/Mars
- Moon minor aspect to venus

posted February 26, 2018 02:02 PM            

The one thing you need to watch for is a tendency towards implosion and at worst, outright depression.Black moods may also feature.

The Moon is not necessarily sexual by nature-but does point to one's ability to be intimate, open up or receive affection.

Some Cap Moons are strongly drawn to the feminine touch and caring nature that is the epitome of many water Moons(barring Mars/Uranus or Saturn aspects).

Others tend to prefer to have a partner who keeps all that in check. So air signs or the equally impassive earth signs tend to be attractive to them.

Fire attractions do happen I.e Brad Pitt/Jennifer Aniston. Brad Pitt/ Angelina Jollie etc.

But what happens usually is that there are headaches with the fiery Moon being too impromptu for the cautious Cap.

In classic situations, it could be when a fiery Moon uses "baby talk" whilst the Cap Moon is with colleagues or esteemed people

The fiery nature usually appeals to them at first. But there are problems when they(Cap) try to contain it or control it. As that is mission impossible.

posted February 26, 2018 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Just found out my husband's real birth date and his moon is not in Sagittarius and his venus is not in Taurus but actually it is a Capricorn moon and Gemini venus! :O

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I'm curious about the story on this if you don't mind elaborating more. What was believed to be his previous birth date and why? How did you find out it was different?
So now he knows his real birth date, but not the time?

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My husband also quite different than other Cap mooners I know, how does Moon conjunct Neptune effect moon in Capricorn men?

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The conjunction of Moon and Neptune can seem to affect some people like Moon in Pisces. The need for security and certainty, difficulty being clear about their own feelings. Imagination and idealism that is quite internalized and affects how they feel in ways that often are not plain to them.

The emotions can gain clarity through a stable external environment in which supportive people help reflect back to them who they are. But the inner feeling and dreaming perceptual world will have a lot of influence on them. Identity issues of feeling, 'who am I?' -- even if the question is not voiced outwardly.

Moon sextile Pluto can help stabilize this, and further reveals that he could really benefit from a creative outlet or distinct spiritual pursuits that dig deeper into his internal subjective self -- like an ongoing project of understanding himself through dreams and feelings. This could be successfully mediate through a group that shares this type of interest.

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His moon aspects:
- Moon conjunct Neptune
- Moon sextile Pluto
- Moon (may or may not) opposite Mercury/Mars
- Moon minor aspect to venus

Another thing I am curious to know about Cap moon is that, how sexual are they?

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You would know better on this about him. We Moon-in-Cap men can vary widely on matters of loyalty and sexuality. But with Moon conjunct Neptune he is likely looking for stability.

posted February 26, 2018 10:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Melancholic by nature. Cap moon people I know are yummy-looking, have a dry sense of humour and maybe overly pessimistic.

The one thing you need to watch for is a tendency towards implosion and at worst, outright depression.Black moods may also feature.

The Moon is not necessarily sexual by nature-but does point to one's ability to be intimate, open up or receive affection.

Some Cap Moons are strongly drawn to the feminine touch and caring nature that is the epitome of many water Moons(barring Mars/Uranus or Saturn aspects).

Others tend to prefer to have a partner who keeps all that in check. So air signs or the equally impassive earth signs tend to be attractive to them.

Fire attractions do happen I.e Brad Pitt/Jennifer Aniston. Brad Pitt/ Angelina Jollie etc.

But what happens usually is that there are headaches with the fiery Moon being too impromptu for the cautious Cap.

In classic situations, it could be when a fiery Moon uses "baby talk" whilst the Cap Moon is with colleagues or esteemed people

The fiery nature usually appeals to them at first. But there are problems when they(Cap) try to contain it or control it. As that is mission impossible.

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What do you mean by black mood? I don't understand his moods sometimes as he tends to denying if I'm asking what's going on and on-off be the meanest/critical person especially when I am in a good mood he can kill it in a sec.

I don't think I ever use "baby talk" as I don't really that comfortable to act like that. But I have learned a way to talk to him to avoid long argument. It's true that he wants to control me all the time, at first we fight about it and he seems learn that I am not an irresponsible person.

I wonder if Cap moon is possessive too? My husband kind of one but he denies it. Is it true that this moon has big trust issue?

posted February 26, 2018 11:27 PM            

My Dads both have Cap Moon. There is a firmness in both that is not pleasant for my Cancer Moon, even with the one Dad seeming to be outwardly more "cheerful".

Add to the Saturn conjunction, Cap Moons can be hard on themselves, hard to please and as much as they can be critical of you, they do it to themselves too. Trust me. Its not you , many can be exacting about the way you cook/clean or even wash your hair etc.

When in a good mood, the less evolved ones can put a damper on that or altogether alter it, so I try to not get too close as I may get affected by that with the ones I know.

Most will not be very expressive, in fact it may be like pulling teeth to get them to talk about why they behave like they do. And sometimes this tendency to bottle the emotional nature within can lead to depressive spells and self imposed isolation.

When I was growing up, my step Dad was very mean/callous/cold to my sibling and I.

I now understand that perhaps he was the type of Cap moon that wasn't warm or congenial.

My Virgo Moon brother and Taurus Moon Mom try to please him. Try to get on with him. My little sister with Aries Moon is neutral with him.

But I and my sister have since given up and distanced ourselves as our Cancer Moons are done with the irregular responses we both get.

Perhaps another Cap Moon can explain why they can be so dam frustrating to love and really hard to please. As I empathize deeply with people who fall for the unevolved type.

posted February 28, 2018 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
I'm curious about the story on this if you don't mind elaborating more. What was believed to be his previous birth date and why? How did you find out it was different?
So now he knows his real birth date, but not the time?

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His parents recklessly used wrong birth date since he was a kid then growing up he believed the wrong birth date was his birthday.

I found out when I thought his birth date was wrong written on our marriage paper and he said that he also got confused as it was based on his birth certificate. He doesn't know the birth time as his Mother keeps his birth certificate and he seems doesn't want to ask her about his birth certificate. His relationship with his parents seems bizarre to me.

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:

The conjunction of Moon and Neptune can seem to affect some people like Moon in Pisces. The need for security and certainty, difficulty being clear about their own feelings. Imagination and idealism that is quite internalized and affects how they feel in ways that often are not plain to them.

The emotions can gain clarity through a stable external environment in which supportive people help reflect back to them who they are. But the inner feeling and dreaming perceptual world will have a lot of influence on them. Identity issues of feeling, 'who am I?' -- even if the question is not voiced outwardly.

Moon sextile Pluto can help stabilize this, and further reveals that he could really benefit from a creative outlet or distinct spiritual pursuits that dig deeper into his internal subjective self -- like an ongoing project of understanding himself through dreams and feelings. This could be successfully mediate through a group that shares this type of interest.

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I may say that he lacks of boundaries to sob story. Before he met me, he was easily jump in to other people personal story especially about the sob one or the unfortunate sad one. He would try to help them (including the people he doesn't know very well) and felt very personally involved with them which triggered the conflict between us. Sometimes I feel like I am way too realistic and he just a weird Capricorn moon I know. But he has learned it the hard way when his ex lied to him about sob story to get his money and my blunt mouth couldn't help itself to tell him that he need to open his eyes to every sob story as not every sob story had truth as it also could be deceitful or manipulative.

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:

You would know better on this about him. We Moon-in-Cap men can vary widely on matters of loyalty and sexuality. But with Moon conjunct Neptune he is likely looking for stability.

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What do you mean by "vary widely on matters of loyalty and sexuality"?

My husband surely expects me to be loyal to a fault but based on our past, himself was not that loyal. Two days after we got married, we argued about the past and he opened up a little bit to me and he was cried. I think he felt guilty but I don't know.