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Topic: Being friendly but men almost always gets interested
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SecretGeek Knowflake Posts: 340 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 02, 2018 08:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: ^ That is new..never heard of that Lol..*googles*..food for thoughtThere are these weird lines, more like dots.. running between Uranus/Neptune and Venus, got any idea what it is ? Just read the description of Venus septile Pluto and yeah I can resonate with that very much,the "all-consuming" love, that is, always thought I got it from habing moon in 8th though. And thanks btw lol.
Your trolling will catch up with you eventually. You know that already though. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1112 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2018 11:21 AM
This is not really an astrology thing. If you are an attractive female who is friendly and nice to a guy they will think you’re interested. Period. Ask any guy and they’ll agree. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 6259 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 02, 2018 12:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: Your trolling will catch up with you eventually. You know that already though.
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Lalafortunaea Knowflake Posts: 426 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted March 02, 2018 01:48 PM
As my brother once joked "the most attractive thing about a woman is simply being alive." quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: This is normal for a heterosexual man to behave this way. They're stupid. Got to be ice cold ******* with them.
Exactly. Welcome to being female! IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea Knowflake Posts: 426 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted March 02, 2018 01:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: Short version: "Being polite is so rare these days that it's often confused with flirting." x Longer version: people believe what they want, and many fake experts are telling them what they want to hear. Though not everyone falls for it. I'd heard so much about this dating guru for women that I finally looked him up out of curiosity (and believe that what women really liked was his appearance rather than the fake words of wisdom coming out of his mouth), and it essentially boiled down to what so many others say to men and women both: if you acknowledge someone's existence of the opposite (or even same) gender, then you're attracted to them. (This guy went so far as to say guys never read scifi, so if one is next to you in the scifi section at a bookstore or library then he's there for you, not the books, and I know from experience that's not the case, but I don't feel like sharing that experience...and no one should believe it anyway.) Like many others, he said the slightest acknowledgement of your existence was proof that he was into you, so I posted a snarky comment about my male cousin being into me (as he did stuff anyone who knows you would do, which this false guru said were signs of attraction). I was then surprised by getting scores of likes and laughing replies in a single day, which implies to me that many were taking what he said with a grain (or pound) of salt. Still, many fall for such bad advice. Men get the same garbage told to them, and it's such that I had to become more cold and distant to many men because it would get taken the wrong way if I was so much as polite to them. Not all, but it happened with distressing frequency, and it's not just men being that way for I've had to deal with women assuming I was flirting with men as well, sometimes becoming obnoxiously jealous. Older men and women are usually much better about it so I'm still typically polite and courteous with them without fear (and the pervs among them strike me as people who will be pervs no matter what anyway). It's funny that many think I'm too cynical and yet I'm not the one who believes that people must want something from you (money, favors, dates, etc)--that is, have ulterior motives--before they'll be nice. And for this reason, I don't think astrology is particularly relevant here.
Yep. Similar thoughts here. I don't think astro is helpful in this area necessarily. Any woman can have anything anywhere. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 503 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted March 02, 2018 03:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: This is normal for a heterosexual man to behave this way. They're stupid. Got to be ice cold ******* with them.
Your too much of a liability. This is the reason why feminism is dying. 3rd wave feminists have used it as a method of entitlement and have destroyed the genuine feminists that actually are striving for equality or have actually been victims. When people think of feminists people now think there people such as yourself that are only using the movement as an excuse only for themselves. Thanks for ruining the movement!!. Its no different to Islamists there is a moderate majority that just wants to live a happy peaceful life and an extremist majority. The extremist majority are louder and more vocal and make the moderates look bad, your no different. quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: Now that’s just bad social etiquette, whatever your friend’s employee just did. I would have freaked out on the inside if thay was me in your situation. I don’t feel comfortable giving physical touch of any kind to someone I just met. I usually keep my distance too while talking, unlike when I talk with someone I already know. I think that’s the Virgo in me. There’s a certain standard I like to keep with social interactions. I don’t like immediately scaring people off. I think if I was your friend’s employee, a nice firm handshake would have sufficed. Smiling is key too though.I am an August Leo. I’m not sure about your observation, but I guess the July one kinda fits with my bf’s personality. He was born July 29. He’s more affectionate than I am despite havinf Cap moon. Could it be because July Leos are closer to Cancer season that they somehow exhibit some Cancerian traits too? As for August, I would say I can have a temper, yes. I get annoyed or irritated very easily. Although I usually don’t fly off the handle, there’s been quite a few times people have pushed the forbidden button. People used to get intimidated by me back in middle school. They said I had a certain look.
I was going to mention about the August born that I work with, she suffers from really poor Social Etiquette. But you know the difference so its not diagnostic for all Leo's. I guess it depends on the environment or in, you did mention you were in hairdressing?. Can that be it. I'm surrounded by people who have no time for relationships so its never a problem for any of them. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 6259 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted March 02, 2018 11:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lalafortunaea: As my brother once joked "the most attractive thing about a woman is simply being alive."Exactly. Welcome to being female!
First they talk about being ice cold bishes, then they talk about not getting love *sobs in one particular corner*...more like Welcome to being one particular group of female!!
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 7243 From: LURKING Registered: May 2011
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posted March 03, 2018 02:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: First they talk about being ice cold bishes, then they talk about not getting love *sobs in one particular corner*...more like Welcome to being one particular group of female!!
I have been in a relationship of mutual love and respected partnership for years... I just (really) don't like people.
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Radium Knowflake Posts: 370 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 03, 2018 10:59 AM
pretty sure you're just hot ...lol women are funny creatures...IP: Logged |