posted March 01, 2018 09:52 AM            

I used to say "I hate this,I hate that" but then I realized that ultimately everything on my chart is about ME,my behaviour.I can't just blame the planets.

It isn't about uranus making me do anything.It simply show to me through my natal chart that for some reason (whatever it is) I tend to isolate (sun/uranus) I tend to keep a distance from people,I tend to keep everything in secret,I tend to be overly rational etc.

I truly hate all of it.I don't like to keep the guard so high.It is frustrating.It makes me feel disconnected to the world.Why I used to think I was different like an alien?I thought it was because of my chart but it is just my mind playing tricks.I'm like everyone else.What do I need to change is my mindset.

I said a hundred times "I hate neptune because it makes me to..." "If I didn't have this aspect things would be different".

I don't think it makes me do anything.It simply show me who I became.If it was my fault or if I became that person because someone else hurt me,it doesn't matter.What is done is done.

I believe that good or bad fair or unfair ultimately God give us a choice.You can let it be or you can change.That's how I see it now.
How do you see the natal chart?

I used uranus and neptune as an example because they are strong on my chart.

posted March 01, 2018 02:01 PM            

However, Neptune, for example, has influenced my behavior. It did not *make* me do anything, but it certainly contributed to a period of time in which I felt confused and my judgment was clouded beyond the capability to think clearly and see the truth. This could be explained with any number of explanations honestly yet during that period Neptune was actually transiting an asteroid in my natal chart and the transit played out according to what I'd theorize would be the meaning of it. If I had been aware that Neptune was transiting anything, I think I would have used that information to avoid conflict. Unfortunately, as I was unaware, I could not change my actions and make them more appropriate. In my opinion and my experience, planets do influence our actions. Ultimately, we have the final say, of course. No transit dooms us to utter misery.

In the natal chart, I do not believe that any aspect or placement is a cause for alarm. Every placement has a positive manifestation and a lot of people seem to focus on the negative manifestation instead. Yes, sometimes the negative manifestation fits, but any negative manifestation can be altered so it is a more positive one.

posted March 01, 2018 03:04 PM            

Now you are talking transits and I get what you mean cuz I had a crazy experience on a neptune transit!!!Probably the craziest I ever had.Honestly I didn't had much time to think about transits when I opened this thread but at times I believe that them are only a blueprint of what for some reason would happen.It is just showing you not making you feel in that way.

I'm still reflecting.As you have said that's just my opinion.I'm glad you have shared yours.

posted March 01, 2018 03:34 PM            

You don't think as the majority,it seems
I opened this thread because all over the internet you see people complaning about how it isn't fair that they were born with a certain chart and the fault is on the planets,aspects etc and how things would be different if they had another chart.I used to think like that too but it ruins your mind.It gets you trapped.

posted March 01, 2018 04:18 PM            

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I'm an Aries, I can't control my temper, so why fight the way God made me?"

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