posted March 15, 2018 06:51 PM            

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Originally posted by areesquivel:
I've been having issues with men my whole life, I'm 30 now and I'm beginning to have a different type of relationship, out of the unconventional cause I do too have those sort of relationships that end up in hookups, though I feel the culprit is my Sun conjunct Lilith...

Venus is in opposition with Neptune so maybe that too.

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posted March 16, 2018 11:11 AM            

George Carlin once said "....men are stupid. Women are crazy. And the reason that women are crazy is because men are stupid".

posted March 18, 2018 10:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
A great love .....deterred.

George Carlin once said "....men are stupid. Women are crazy. And the reason that women are crazy is because men are stupid".

Somehow I think Venus-Saturn women come to know that. And Venus-Uranus ones come to a point where they just can't put up with it any longer.

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posted March 18, 2018 11:16 AM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
What kind of man do you think you attracted to most? It could be you are attracted to a certain vibe. Like subliminal or primal without your knowledge.

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posted March 18, 2018 11:29 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
My Descendant is in Aquarius I'm attracted to Aquarian or Uranian types and Sags too.

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posted March 18, 2018 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
Those types make your heart pump?

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posted March 18, 2018 01:05 PM            

Your 4th house (emotions, mental state) ruler is Pluto in Scorpio in the 3rd house of the mind, thoughts, and communication. In trine signs to exalted Venus. You obsess too much over relationships I feel...Sometimes, the more we think about something that is bothering us, the worse it becomes in our life. Pluto in Scorpio means you are young. There is really no need for you to be stressing over these things the way that you are. Your Mercury and Jupiter conjunct in Aries makes you so impatient and hasty in your thoughts, especially these love matters. I see nothing in your chart that stands out immediately saying that you would have trouble finding a long term committed relationship. Not everything happens while we are young and that is not a bad thing per se...

posted March 18, 2018 03:06 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
I think maybe you might just be too focused on relationships tbh. Not to be mean, but I always see you on here and most of your concerns are to do with men and your relationship status with them. Your sun in Taurus and Venus exalted in Pisces is clearly having an affect on you, constantly worrying about relationships. As I said earlier, it is not really either of those aspects that causes issues with the opposite gender. Venus square Uranus is just unconventional Venusian qualities happening in agitating ways, Venus Square Saturn is perhaps saying you were a late bloomer which can maybe lend to you not having good relationships.

Your 4th house (emotions, mental state) ruler is Pluto in Scorpio in the 3rd house of the mind, thoughts, and communication. In trine signs to exalted Venus. You obsess too much over relationships I feel...Sometimes, the more we think about something that is bothering us, the worse it becomes in our life. Pluto in Scorpio means you are young. There is really no need for you to be stressing over these things the way that you are. Your Mercury and Jupiter conjunct in Aries makes you so impatient and hasty in your thoughts, especially these love matters. I see nothing in your chart that stands out immediately saying that you would have trouble finding a long term committed relationship. Not everything happens while we are young and that is not a bad thing per se...

Both of your 7th house rulers (Saturn and Uranus) are conjunct in the 4th house. The 4th house is very important for emotional stability, love, and home life. While Uranus here can indicate your problems with finding a long-lasting love, Saturn is there telling you that it WILL happen and that you just need to be patient. Saturn says things always happen, just not when you want them to. And it seems like you want it to happen as soon as possible. Quite often, Saturn gives us blessings when we are least begging for it. He is tough but he always delivers. Just be patient...

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I've had so many people tell me that Venus square Uranus and Saturn causes issues in regards to relationships. And people have told me that I give men a difficult time. I'm not obsessed about having a relationship. It's just the fact that I'm in my 30's and it seems like I'll never really have a normal relationship. My parents are always going on and on about what's going to happen to me when they are gone. I told them I would be ok with just having a friend and I would be. I don't have to be married I can be hasty lol but it's not really so much in regards to being in a relationship.

posted March 18, 2018 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
TY. Your ASC is on my NN. Give me a little bit of time. Your Jupiter on your NN in the 8th is huge.

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posted March 18, 2018 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Saturn and Uranus ruling my 7th house is that the same as having Saturn and Uranus in the 7th house? I'm asking so I know what to read about in regards to this aspect.

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posted March 18, 2018 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
Not the same. It just means that those planets have an affect on the outcome of your 7th house activities due to them ruling over your 7th house.

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posted March 19, 2018 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Saturn and Venus aspects, especially square, tends to denote issues with women. If the person in question is a woman, they could have issues with their own femininity, have particular views about what it means to be a woman, or have some insecurities regarding their own femininity. This could be unconscious contempt for the self or for other women.

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