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posted April 10, 2018 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
It's like me, I'm a Sagittarius, and I can't help being goofy! I bet I annoy a lot of people, but it's part of who I am.

Goofiness is cute, I'd appreciate it and laugh with you .....but only for awhile. Then I'd be like - "Go back to your mommy now, ok"
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posted April 10, 2018 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Goofiness is cute, I'd appreciate it and laugh with you .....but only for awhile. Then I'd be like - "Go back to your mommy now, ok"
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LOL you see what I mean you are funny and cool. Virgos rule ;p

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posted April 10, 2018 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Orgy porgy lorgy! Snort, snort, snort! I ate a buggy!

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posted April 10, 2018 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
I am a Virgo gal and while I find Virgo people to be very cool and smart and beautiful and clean and reliable, I still haven't met one specimen of the Virgo tribe that is NOT nagging or uber critical or know-it-all. It may not be noticeable in the beginning when you meet a Virgo, but it will come out at some point and it never stops after that - the nagging and the critiques. I have no idea how anyone can put up with a Virgo ( sun, moon ore an asc) in their close circles. Its almost unbearable.

I have Virgo asc, second decan, saturn ruled.
That virgo energy is coloring my whole chart. When I read venus in virgo, or mars in virgo or sun in virgo etc, them all is traits I have, with only an asc in virgo.

The female virgo sun or virgo venuses I have met I have gotten along very well with instantly.

I have only one virgo sun male friend. And his criticisim and nagging is overbearing indeed! I knew he had to have a virg placement 5 minutes into meeting him for the fisrt time. How he was quite, reserved and observing. Some would maybe mistake it for shyness, but I knew that look on his face, and that energy. And I was right, Virgo sun! (and mercury)

I just can't stand his dry way of critiquing. Thats his way of showing concerne and his way of showing he is interested in helping you. By nagging the **** of others. And he does this more with me and other females, but almost never towards his male friends?!

Since I know exactly where he comes from I don't get offended or angry etc that easily, But I'm close to, even when I know exactly well what it is all about. I'm more like "**** , is this how other people perceive me when I nag?!".

Also, how he analyzes me, often he is just half right! But he is so sure he is 100% right. Playing a psychologist all the time, that makes me the most irritated about him! He is just seing the tip of the iceberg, there is so much he does not know or see, so his halfass analyses makes me so mad.

I had to tell him off a couple of times so he would chill a little. He was negative to anything I was saying, dissmissive and seing only the negatives. Nit picking anything I would say while we were working on a project.

And he really did go overboard. So I was like "Hey why are you so dissmissive? And so negative about whatever I say?! You are not like this towards B (or male friend in the group), you are normal to him but negative to me?!". Confronting people that irritates me is not an issue for me

That snappd him out of it. But I had to do this a few times more, and he is acting better now

And once he was at me about something dumb I had did and I responded in a way a virgo would understand, I said " Ok but you mentioning it don't help me, since I can't go back in time to undo it right? So what good does it do you mentioning it?. You maybe will make sure I won't do it again? Trust me I'm super critical towards myself and very selfaware, I don't need you to remind me something I already know".

Bam, it was so on point he chilled with the notion I was aware as fudge and would not do it again haha.

I still don't know why he acts out his sun so much towards females, but almost nothing of it towards males? Any clues?

I also said to him once "Look, I know this is your way of caring and helping. You see potential in the other person, and just want that person to live up to that potential. Other will percieve that as cold criticism, but thats just how it looks like, I feel you, This is typical Virgo sun traits".

He agreed coyly and seemed happy I had "analyzed" him right ahaha!

It feels really nice knowing how someone work and talk in their language!

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posted April 10, 2018 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hypatia238 :
virgos I know with moon in aries like Pink and this person I know are not fussy, critical, nitpicky, they are very non-judgmental but like a firecracker, very passionate and impulsive.

I love Pink! Wow, she has a stellium in Virgo. I didn’t know that. I’ve always loved Pink.

“Raise your glass if you’re wrong in all the right ways!”

Actually, I can see how technical and hardassed she is.

My husband is also a Virgo with an Aries moon. I think his sun is an earth singleton. He’s a musician too, and technical to the point of being mechanical. Impulsive(!), YES! What a contradiction, right!? I think it’s a hard combo to balance.

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posted April 10, 2018 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Melinn:
Also, how he analyzes me, often he is just half right! But he is so sure he is 100% right. Playing a psychologist all the time, that makes me the most irritated about him! He is just seing the tip of the iceberg, there is so much he does not know or see, so his halfass analyses makes me so mad.

I had to tell him off a couple of times so he would chill a little. He was negative to anything I was saying, dissmissive and seing only the negatives. Nit picking anything I would say while we were working on a project.

And he really did go overboard. So I was like "Hey why are you so dissmissive?


OMGeee, I worked with a Capricorn Sun, Virgo moon who is exactly like this. Always grumbling. Always asking me, “What are you eating?” “What is that smell!”

Saying, “I don’t eat that kind of food.” “I don’t eat here and I don’t eat there.” “I only eat carrots cut this way or prepared that way.” Lol... Fussing about what kind of lotion I have, how I answer the phone, says I have a “b!tc* -face!”

When actually talking about work, he thinks he knows best but is completely clueless. He doesn’t even do HIS own job well. The confidence with which he declares his observations just elevates the level of ignorance in his critiques. It is totally dismissive. Rigid. Dogmatic. And worst of all, wrong!

Tells me, “I look expensive (I think he means classy), but act uncivilized.” Lol!!!!! Ummm, I work in a male dominated environment with guys who in the first minute of seeing me tells me “ugh, you have bitc!-face!” Yes, I’ll adapt accordingly.


His sun is conjunct my moon. I think he likes me!

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posted April 10, 2018 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You see my dad has sun in capricorn and moon in virgo and he is super chill and cool, the opposite of controlling, very accepting and chill. I adore him, he is so easy to get along with, I have never once in 34 years alive felt criticized by him, its amazing, its hard not to put him up in a pedestal, very supportive and unconditionally loves me.

He has Sun square Neptune exact, I have sun square neptune by 2d too, we are both laid back.

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posted April 10, 2018 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As for food pickiness, my mom, my father and my brother are all capricorns and all follow strict diets and the two capricorns in my office are also very careful and healthy around what they eat so it might be more of a capricorn thing bc it rules long life and they have the discipline to follow strict diets.

I eat whatever I want but all in moderation, I hate diets.

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posted April 10, 2018 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You see my dad has sun in capricorn and moon in virgo and he is super chill and cool, the opposite of controlling, very accepting and chill. I adore him, he is so easy to get along with, I have never once in 34 years alive felt criticized by him, its amazing, its hard not to put him up in a pedestal, very supportive and unconditionally loves me.

He has Sun square Neptune exact, I have sun square neptune by 2d too, we are both laid back.


That’s interesting. I think my cap/Virgo means well. This may not sound sensical, but I don’t feel judged or rejected by him. I’m more playful and teasing with him about it and it always lightened our interactions. It became a platform of play for us. He was serious when it came to my work performance though!!! I wasn’t offended; I knew he just didn’t understand.

The food thing I found amusing because I’m picky too!!! He’d actually recommend things I really enjoyed. He’d buy me lunch to prove how subpar what I’d usually buy was. Lol. Overall, I’d keep him. Lol

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posted April 10, 2018 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
I love Pink! Wow, she has a stellium in Virgo. I didn’t know that. I’ve always loved Pink.

“Raise your glass if you’re wrong in all the right ways!”

Actually, I can see how technical and hardassed she is.

My husband is also a Virgo with an Aries moon. I think his sun is an earth singleton. He’s a musician too, and technical to the point of being mechanical. Impulsive(!), YES! What a contradiction, right!? I think it’s a hard combo to balance.


I think is a very interesting combo, far from boring lol.

She seems pretty cool and nonjudgmental, I can see her been picky about her work and with her career but not outside of work.

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posted April 10, 2018 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
That’s interesting. I think my cap/Virgo means well. This may not sound sensical, but I don’t feel judged or rejected by him. I’m more playful and teasing with him about it and it always lightened our interactions. It became a platform of play for us. He was serious when it came to my work performance though!!! I wasn’t offended; I knew he just didn’t understand.

The food thing I found amusing because I’m picky too!!! He’d actually recommend things I really enjoyed. He’d buy me lunch to prove how subpar what I’d usually buy was. Lol. Overall, I’d keep him. Lol


Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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posted April 10, 2018 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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[BI have never once in 34 years alive felt criticized by him, its amazing, its hard not to put him up in a pedestal, very supportive and unconditionally loves me.[/B]

Yeah, but you’re a Virgo sun, Pisces moon... you’re probably perfect.

I’m a gem sun, rising and mercury. I want to finger paint with my whole body, jump in puddles and mess up your perfect hair! Lol

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posted April 10, 2018 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
She seems pretty cool and nonjudgmental, I can see her been picky about her work and with her career but not outside of work.

Ya, I get that impression too. I think she channels the Virgo energy well. I’m really into her “don’t give a fu*k” demeanor. Most of my friends are Aries moons. I can see her being picky with anything she cares about, which is understandable. Relatable. Love her.

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posted April 10, 2018 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
Yeah, but you’re a Virgo sun, Pisces moon... you’re probably perfect.

I’m a gem sun, rising and mercury. I want to finger paint with my whole body, jump in puddles and mess up your perfect hair! Lol


Actually my best friend and I in high school painted our entire bodies with make up, got really dirty all over, yes like body finger painting, and then walked around like that in public, it was fun.

I have wild curly messy hair! Jupiter conjuct Uranus in Sag in the 1H with Scorpio rising. I just watch it and maybe put some moose and let it dry.

Perfect? I am soooooo not perfect but I love myself anyways, you gotta.

Oh and I love mud and getting dirty, I love the woods and sweating, I actually enjoy smelling my husband's armpits when he stinks, he thinks I am crazy, I also love how he smells after he showers and the smell of clean laundry. I can get more graphic about fluids but will stop there lol.

You are funny, I like you!

Hell even my supervisor who played a key role in me getting hired I am sure how moon in aries.

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posted April 10, 2018 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ya, I get that impression too. I think she channels the Virgo energy well. I’m really into her “don’t give a fu*k” demeanor. Most of my friends are Aries moons. I can see her being picky with anything she cares about, which is understandable. Relatable. Love her.

I attract moon in aries like big time, like its weird bc I am not looking for them but it just always works out that way LOL. This guy lied to me about birth year, I thought he was a virgo with moon in pisces, nah turns out moon in aries. I started cracking up loudly for several minutes when I realized he lied about his birth year as I looked at his ID.

Even when it doesn't oppose my Pluto in libra at 28d. It conjuncts my pholus in aries at 18d and trines my venus conjunct mars in Leo at 23d and 24d, sextiles and trines my Nodes at 19d in gemini and sag.

I love her “don’t give a fu*k” demeanor!

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posted April 10, 2018 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
OMGeee, I worked with a Capricorn Sun, Virgo moon who is exactly like this. Always grumbling. Always asking me, “What are you eating?” “What is that smell!”

Saying, “I don’t eat that kind of food.” “I don’t eat here and I don’t eat there.” “I only eat carrots cut this way or prepared that way.” Lol... Fussing about what kind of lotion I have, how I answer the phone, says I have a “b!tc* -face!”

When actually talking about work, he thinks he knows best but is completely clueless. He doesn’t even do HIS own job well. The confidence with which he declares his observations just elevates the level of ignorance in his critiques. It is totally dismissive. Rigid. Dogmatic. And worst of all, wrong!

Tells me, “I look expensive (I think he means classy), but act uncivilized.” Lol!!!!! Ummm, I work in a male dominated environment with guys who in the first minute of seeing me tells me “ugh, you have bitc!-face!” Yes, I’ll adapt accordingly.


His sun is conjunct my moon. I think he likes me!


Omg! Haha my virgo friend is like that aswell towards me! Not that brash in his wordings, he is more like always teasing me and yes making fun of my ways in some situations. But he is teasing like a brother would tease his sister and a bit softer. Your guy is too harsh haha!

I feel 0 attraction to him. I really see him as a brother!

His Mars and moon is Conj my Venus-jupiter. Maybe he feels something towards me. Today for ex he was sitting and constantly bumping my chair trying to irritate me. I just laughed it off. I find it cute when he acts like that, like a bro though.

Dunno if he is just playful, Bro-sister like. Or something more, but I'm not interested at all in him^^. I have a crush in our mutual friend though. I hope he does not pick up on that

And yapp, this virgo man I talk about also has Capricorn rising, Saturn conjunct his asc from 12th house, if he knows his birth time right.

He only has a Saturn square Mercury and conj Uranus aspect.

Yours sounds like he is liking you? Does he have female siblings? Men with female siblings often act like that towards female friends, (thats a dynamic they know)
and maybe towards love interests aswell. But yours maybe is over the top, he maybe does not know how to keep it on a middle level it seems.

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posted April 10, 2018 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
As for food pickiness, my mom, my father and my brother are all capricorns and all follow strict diets and the two capricorns in my office are also very careful and healthy around what they eat so it might be more of a capricorn thing bc it rules long life and they have the discipline to follow strict diets.

I eat whatever I want but all in moderation, I hate diets.


It may be a Virgo+Capri thing.
I have only virgo asc, but 7-8 Saturn aspects, Saturn in 4th, oppo my moon for instance. Super picky with food. Very health oriented, organic food, and all my make up is organic make up.

Have been gluten free for 9 years! I loove food, but I'm good at restricting myself, lots of selfcontroll involving food.

But for ex training (running and gym), I started after my first saturn return last year.

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posted April 10, 2018 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have Capricorn in my natal anywhere not even asteroids and I watch my food like a maniac.

Health and digestion is entirely a Virgo domain and the 6th house. What are you talking about being a Capricorn thing, y'all. This is annoying. This is basic astrology.

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posted April 10, 2018 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I don't have Capricorn in my natal anywhere not even asteroids and I watch my food like a maniac.

Health and digestion is entirely a Virgo domain and the 6th house. What are you talking about being a Capricorn thing, y'all. This is annoying.

Well I see this pattern in Capricorns frequently, I have three Capricorn family members, my partner has a stellium in the 6th and is a horrible eater btw, does not take care of his diet at all. Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, Saturn gives discipline to actually stick to a diet and rules longevity and time.

Virgos can be picky eaters but definitely capricorns too, I have seen it to much and there are also virgos that eat lots of junk. I see that more in virgos than capricorns actually. Even virgos that are picky eaters are not always very healthy eaters I have noticed.

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posted April 10, 2018 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
This is basic astrology.

So you do know it all LOL, I feel astrology is more complicated than stereotypes. I don't care for basics, I want to move beyond basics.

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posted April 10, 2018 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I don't have Capricorn in my natal anywhere not even asteroids and I watch my food like a maniac.

Health and digestion is entirely a Virgo domain and the 6th house. What are you talking about being a Capricorn thing, y'all. This is annoying. This is basic astrology.

Yeah cookbook astrology is a great start to know the basics. But there is so many levels and layers to astrology, its very complex and I can only imagine how much knowledge about astrology has been lost thise last thousands of years!


I have read many times about for ex saturn-moon contacts repressing the apetite etc. Saturn is the planet of restrictions, order etc. And how do you explain the Asc decan rulers? Virgo asc second decan ruler is Saturn for ex.

Look at your declinations, your progressed chart, lunar return, solar return, what ever, I don't think one can be wholly saturn energyless

Ok sorry, we are going off topic now guys!

This was about Virgo Males
But its hard not to trail off haha

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posted April 10, 2018 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I use asteroid Porco (#7231) to determine if someone doesn't have a healthy diet. LOL jk

Most of the Virgos I have checked have a well placed Hygeia (#10) indicating a prioritized focus on health.

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posted April 10, 2018 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I actually agree. I've met many Virgos, and many of them are very critical. Not all, but maybe about half? Your experience is valid, even if it isn't universal to everyone.

They aren't critical in a mean way, but they are very observant. And they are hard on themselves too.


I third Orange's statement. I also think house placement flavors the critical nature, like my bf has virgo moon in the 9th, and he's really critical of ideas, religion, philosophy, abstract concepts, loves to debate those to the point where you can't even say some random crazy idea just for fun, without any reason behind it, or he will tear it apart. But he doesn't notice a spoon in the sink.

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posted April 10, 2018 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Selenite:
I third Orange's statement. I also think house placement flavors the critical nature, like my bf has virgo moon in the 9th, and he's really critical of ideas, religion, philosophy, abstract concepts, loves to debate those to the point where you can't even say some random crazy idea just for fun, without any reason behind it, or he will tear it apart. But he doesn't notice a spoon in the sink.

Bingo, I am more like your guy. My Sun in virgo opposes my Moon which rules my 9th house

I have been meaning to also say this, the house placement and rulership plays a role.

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Selenite,
My guy has a Moon in Virgo in his 1st house and he is extremely observant about physical appearance in others. He can notice the slightest facial hair, all details or changes on someone's body, and the way one wear their clothing. He is also observant about weight gain.
He has Moon and ASC in Virgo and he is obsessed with health and has prominent germophobia.

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