posted March 22, 2018 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Not at all. My 5th House is loaded, and I have no kids and don't want any.

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posted March 22, 2018 11:44 AM            

In this day and age is legal to abort, you can adopt or have a strangers sperm from a clinic get you pregnant so it really comes down to personal choice.

If you really wanted to have a child you could, its your choice regardless of what your chart looks like.

posted March 22, 2018 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I would also look at your 5th house ruler and the aspects your 5th house ruler is making but I concur with all the responses.

In this day and age is legal to abort, you can adopt or have a strangers sperm from a clinic get you pregnant so it really comes down to personal choice.

If you really wanted to have a child you could, its your choice regardless of what your chart looks like.

Ofcourse, I think is best for everyone to bring a child to the world to a healthy marriage that way the child is able to bond/connect with both parents which is great for their development and been a single mom is hard so decisions that lead to you having a healthy marriage and having children under such would be best for everyone including yourself.

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posted March 22, 2018 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Well not everyone is marriage material a lot of people co-parent.

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My point is that you should strive to bring a child to the world under the best possible conditions but ultimate you can chose to have a child on your own and go to a sperm clinic, it really is up to you.

posted March 22, 2018 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
My point is that you should strive to bring a child to the world under the best possible conditions but ultimate you can chose to have a child on your own and go to a sperm clinic, it really is up to you.

Neptune rules my 5th, I have very high ideals around having children personally.

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posted March 22, 2018 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What kind of ideals? I have Neptune in the 5th house as well. A sperm clinic would be my last resort. I would like to co-parent with a friend.

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Co-parent with a friend sounds like it could work out nicely bc you are friends who want what is best for the child and there wouldn't be all this drama surrounding the child. As long as you put the kid first and work together with that goal in mind that sounds neat.

With your venus in pisces and neptune in the 5th you would be very attuned to your child and give them what they need but is good to provide structure and have a few rules.

posted March 22, 2018 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Co-parent with a friend sounds like it could work out nicely bc you are friends who want what is best for the child and there wouldn't be all this drama surrounding the child. As long as you put the kid first and work together with that goal in mind that sounds neat.

With your venus in pisces and neptune in the 5th you would be very attuned to your child and give them what they need but is good to provide structure and have a few rules.

Neptune ruling my 5th makes me really idealistic and is why I never had kids, I want everything to be perfect . I want my kid to have good role models and I feel my husband would be a good dad but not the kind of role model I want for my kid, also we occasionally have nasty fights that I would never want my kid to be exposed to. Last, I worry I will not give my kid the attention they deserve bc I work too much and I am tired a lot. Last, I don't feel financially ready for this commitment. My kid deserves a lot more than I can give them so I don't have kids. But this is my issue, I do have ideals that are very high probably. I feel I should be able to provide them what my parents provided for me.

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posted March 22, 2018 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I agree about being financially able
to care for the child. I won't have one until I am capable of providing for them. People think I'm weird for wanting to have a child with a friend. I don't see the issue as long as the child is being cared for.

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posted March 24, 2018 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I agree with hypatia 238 . You must look at the sign and ruler of the 5th.

Is your 5th house cusp in Cap?

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posted March 25, 2018 04:34 AM            

If they feel that children enhance or will enrich their lives, the choice to have one is easily made.

posted March 25, 2018 11:28 AM            

The reason I ask this is that a cousin of mine has 5th house cusp in Sag with Saturn/Uranus conjunct there.

Mars opposes both these planets in the natal and as they get older, they are conflicted about the child issue.

On one hand they see children as a necessary occurrence to mark them as a "real woman".

On the other hand, they get angry at the societal pressure they feel to " produce" as a mark of being a woman and yearn to rebel against it all.

posted March 25, 2018 03:57 PM            

It often ges activated with transits.
My mother got me and 18 months later my brother when transit pluto was in her 5th house. Also the tr planet in 5th may show what kind of child/children one will get. (I'm highly plutonian, and my brother has scorpio rising).

Interesting enough, transit pluto is in my 5th now.

My 5th house is empty if I use placidus.Neptunus is in it if I use equal.

In Capricorn and I do not wish to have children or carry children at all.

Ruler saturn is in my 4th conjunct Uranus, oppo Moon, Mars and Chiron.

I see children as a huuge responsibility and also having OCD tendensies, everything concerning a child would drive me nuts I believe. Also I see children as hindrance, and not as something joyeous at all. I have seen my twin brothers grow up, and I know what a burden it is to care for a child.
Also I think childbirth and also carrying a child inside the womb, is horrendous. No thank you.

I love animals though and I tend and care for my pets very well, I go the extra mile for them (all or nothing). I don't think animals/pets would ever be the same as a child though.

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posted April 01, 2018 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mine is empty. I had children. The empty houses are areas that are not as much a focus for us, not something we will lack. My 7th House is empty too and I got married lol

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posted April 02, 2018 07:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Not at all. My 5th House is loaded, and I have no kids and don't want any.

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I read that a male with a loaded 5 house is a player!! I think I read that on this forum!

posted April 02, 2018 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I read that a male with a loaded 5 house is a player!! I think I read that on this forum!

I'm dying to stick the pieces together of Randall. Not into marriage or kids but a loaded 5 house.. Im starting to see the picture here

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Want see Randall's chart too!

I find it a good idea.. It's for sure better as it has higher chances of being successful in my opinion.. there will be no drama and boredom..
I don't want kids myself at all. Pluto in Scorpio in 5th H.
Uranus in 7th H opposite Sun probably explains everything.. even though I am a Cancer Sun,Asc and Mercury