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capricorncheriscty
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posted March 24, 2018 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know the male version of a cougar so I just put cougars.

So I've noticed Cancers typically go for younger men or women, especially when they (the Cancer) are much older. When Cancers are young, they date in the same age range or someone who is older but for some reason they have this thing when they are older they start dating down. I think this is because Cancers are like children inside and so they need someone to help them maintain the youthfulness of their mind without getting too bored. Cancers are one of the tradition-adoring signs (other is Capricorn) but they like FUN traditions...FUN people....It's hard to have fun when you're shacked up with an older guy/girl.

But Capricorns are the opposite I think? They date young while they are young but as they get older they date people who are closer to their age or older. But honestly I don't know. Capricorns are hard to pinpoint with this. I have seen many Capricorns doing the exact vice versa of this...So who knows.

Do you think either of these are true? Any personal experiences?

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posted March 24, 2018 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think women generally look better as they age, so I usually dated up. Streaks of gray hair are sexy. However, I go by the chemistry and not age.

I don't see any pattern with signs.

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posted March 24, 2018 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of my exes is a Cancer Sun that once dated a woman over 15 years older than him, but I'm only 2 years older than he is so he has dated close to his age too.

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posted March 24, 2018 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what I have seen, Cancer women tend to be attracted to men older than them. Cancer men on the other hand like older women.

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posted March 24, 2018 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leos, and people with prominent Leo (Asc & Moon) are the cougars.

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posted March 25, 2018 03:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
signs I have witnessed as cougars (men/women), and with the sun, AC or moon are:

libra (female), virgo (male), sagittarius (male), gemini (female)

overall as a formula, I've seen women with sun/jupiter/saturn, especially in a hard aspect, have a big cougar potential

and men similarly with venus in aspect with saturn or jupiter

in both sexes, if mercury is in the 5th, or the sign gemini is at the 5th house cusp, there is cougar potential, and in extreme cases, pedophilia

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posted March 25, 2018 03:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini Moon/Sun/Venus/Ac/Dc would be into youngins I think. Especially Draconic placements there.

Caps when older also tend to like em young.

I would also count Leos into that mix. But I really don't know about Cancers

I find the word "Cougar" sexist. Its connotation is that of a stalker or prowler who "attacks" helpless victim etc. Nothing sexy there.

There is no similar name for a male who does the same..ehem..Donald Trump.

Cancers I know tend to go for the older people because of the security that older people offer I guess.

A Cancer Sun/Venus Cancer guy I know loves them older. And I mean looooooves!

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posted March 25, 2018 05:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can see it in the sense of trying to groom someone to there desire in a caring way.

My mom is a cancer leo mix and she always talks about a younger person she works with thats the same age as me and trying to "groom" him for the real world.

..then two of my bosses had the same placement as my mom, both took me on as if they were my mother. I ran from both of them once the money got high enough.

FYI my Dad is 5yrs younger then my mom.

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posted March 25, 2018 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its not a cancer thing. Its crazy how many guys out there are interested in older women regardless of sun sign, its a fantasy for a lot of guys, it seems a lot of guys don't care about age or prefer them older.

I think is a social phenomenon that is occurring since more women are now the providers.

They go after the older women to be clear, is not the older women picking them up, they are still doing the pursuing.

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posted March 26, 2018 06:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In all my dating history I’ve gone 5 yrs down or 5 yrs up. Haven’t been able to figure this out yet. Would I date someone much younger than myself? Not sure, but I will guess no.

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posted March 26, 2018 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mereiposa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m cancer sun and have always dated older. Now as I get older I have dated a few younger, but I still prefer older.

Cap moon too.

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posted March 26, 2018 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cap moon finds older sexy LOL

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capricorncheriscty
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posted March 26, 2018 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Gemini Moon/Sun/Venus/Ac/Dc would be into youngins I think. Especially Draconic placements there.

Caps when older also tend to like em young.

I would also count Leos into that mix. But I really don't know about Cancers

I find the word "Cougar" sexist. Its connotation is that of a stalker or prowler who "attacks" helpless victim etc. Nothing sexy there.

There is no similar name for a male who does the same..ehem..Donald Trump.

Cancers I know tend to go for the older people because of the security that older people offer I guess.

A Cancer Sun/Venus Cancer guy I know loves them older. And I mean looooooves!


I know it is a little sexist, that's why I didn't know if there was a male equivalent or not

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posted March 26, 2018 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My 2 cents...

Cap women seem to naturally go for older men, but a mature younger man will do as well. Older is more established. Also, older seems more reassuring. Despite appearances, Cap can suffer from self doubt, and a solid, stable, mature partner helps.

Cancer likes the traditional, sometimes even to a slightly male dom, female sub extent. Older gives that feeling to them. But older Cancer women might also be attracted so someone they can "mother" a little bit, so maybe...

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posted March 26, 2018 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
My 2 cents...

Cap women seem to naturally go for older men, but a mature younger man will do as well. Older is more established. Also, older seems more reassuring. Despite appearances, Cap can suffer from self doubt, and a solid, stable, mature partner helps.

Cancer likes the traditional, sometimes even to a slightly male dom, female sub extent. Older gives that feeling to them. But older Cancer women might also be attracted so someone they can "mother" a little bit, so maybe...


My Cap sister is with an older guy with a troubled past (Sag).

I wouldn't say he's established more like he's "been to hell and back".

He's a little rough for my liking I wouldn't exactly call him a brother in law.

Guys are like wine, if aged properly they'll turn into a fine wine.
Aged incorrectly they'll turn into a sour vinegar.

I don't know were I fit the fermentation process is yet to begin but I haven't turned into sour vinegar either.

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posted March 26, 2018 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mereiposa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hypatia238:
Cap moon finds older sexy LOL

Hell yeah, we do! Younger men are sexy too, but it's harder to take them seriously.

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posted March 26, 2018 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hypatia238:
Cap moon finds older sexy LOL

LOLOLOLOLOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6b9bzoye5C8

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SecretGeek
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posted March 26, 2018 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any Cap Moons looking for a Cap Saturn. LOLOL

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