posted April 11, 2018 02:39 PM            

I'm not an expect so I want to ask, if those Venus squares can make that? Venus square Chiron, North Node and Neptune.

posted April 11, 2018 06:36 PM            

Astrologically, he was born 13 March 1991 in Toronto with ... (using noon)

- Sun 22° Pisces / 3° south
- Moon in Aquarius (this placement pops up a lot with those who cannot seem to be faithful sexually to one person)
- Mercury 3° Aries / 1° north
- Venus 23° Aries / 9° north
- Mars 19° Gemini / 25° north
- Jupiter 4° Leo / 20° north
- Saturn 4AQU40 / 19S34
- Uranus 13CAP17 / 23S07
- Neptune 16CAP25 / 21S39
- Pluto 20SCO16 / 2S53
- N.Node 26CAP42 / 20S49

So Sun is parallel and trine Pluto, showing a willful person whose motivations are emotional and under the surface (Sun Pises, Pluto in Scorpio), given to secretiveness, but not given to compromise. The person may say one thing, but go and do what they want anyway.

Sun is square to Mars in Gemini, which is an opportunist orientation given the spontaneous or impulse nature of Mars in Gemini.

Mars is quincunx Neptune and Pluto (yod), which can relate to temptations to deceptive or dishonest actions, possibly involving the use of drugs or intoxicants (Neptune), and temptations to inappropriate use of power or sex (Pluto).

Jupiter is opposite and contra-parallel Saturn, showing challenges of ethics and morality (indulgence/expansion vs integrity/restrains).

Venus in Aries is square Nodes (Cap/Cancer. This puts all things Venus into play with how his life turns out and how his future develops.

No, the conjunction of Uranus and Neptune has little if anything at all to do with this question of cheating. That is an aspect of creative conceptualism, urging intelligence and awareness that goes beyond rational explanations (Mercury).

posted April 11, 2018 06:47 PM            

He has sun in Libra conjunct Saturn with moon in cancer, I feel at heart he is a domestic relationship guy because of those placements so it would be a mistake to assume that Venus square Uranus is a cheating aspect.

He is into politics and projects, he has a restless mind, I have a restless soul and heart, I am the problem. I don't have Venus square Uranus.

posted April 11, 2018 06:52 PM            

I mean blame it on that combination of energies! not on venus square uranus.

posted April 11, 2018 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Pisces Aquarius Gemini Aries and Leo all in one chart! lol hahahahhahhaa

I mean blame it on that combination of energies! not on venus square uranus.

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posted April 12, 2018 08:11 AM            

Aries energy tends to act on impulse and Gemini/Aqua energy can fan or encourage that independent way of thinking.

Add to that "I will not be dictated to or told what to do" Aqua who tends to minimize emotional loyalties.

Jupiter in Leo/Sun in Pisces "big on gamble" mutual reception and you have someone who can't resist risking it all because they believe that they can get it all back should they lose.

Sun/Mars square in Pisces/Gemini is also the type to be seduced easily by the fascinating promise in the great "out there". Always suffering some form of disappointment when the promise does not live up to expectations.

That Moon in Aqua/Venus in Aries and Gemini Mars would have had me back away slowly and not even try.... Air Moon and Air Mars with fire Venus? Are u kidding?

posted April 12, 2018 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:

Venus in Aries is square Nodes (Cap/Cancer. This puts all things Venus into play with how his life turns out and how his future develops.

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This is a great observation - I have long suspected the same. I know someone with venus-mars very tightly conjunct in virgo, square the nodes.

Specifically, in his case, that getting through his attitude towards marriage (taking venus and mars as a very literal marriage analogy) is critical to him for finding his life path. The fact that his NN is in the 7th underscores this. He's been married for a number of years, but is a serial cheater.

I'm optimistic in his case that his second nodal return (oh and this person's NN is in gemini as well) might force him to confront his own behaviour, but it is not going to be easy.

posted April 12, 2018 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:

Venus in Aries is square Nodes (Cap/Cancer. This puts all things Venus into play with how his life turns out and how his future develops.

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Kannon, I wanted to ask you about this Nodes aspects, since I have a complete Square between my Mercury in Cancer, Neptune in Capricorn and Nodes in Aries and Libra.

posted April 12, 2018 01:14 PM            

Some people cheat because after you have been with someone for 4 years or more the excitement and mystery starts to wane. You still love your partner but feel curious too about getting to know others and miss the passion from the beginning. Some people have a stronger need for excitement and passion/romance and some people have a stronger need for security and have more self control.

Others cheat bec they want to connect to other people in a different way from how they connect with their partner. As astrologers we know how different people bring out different parts of us through synastry and how relationships help us explore different sides of us.

Some people cheat because they are not sexually fulfilled in their marriage but don't think ending things is the right thing to do either and sacrificing your sexuality for a lifetime can be painful.

posted April 12, 2018 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
According to Ted Talk "rethinking infidelity" and the research and data she has looked into around 60% of people cheat at some point in their life in some way shape or form so I don't think cheating is a nodal thing, I think is a human thing.

Some people cheat because after you have been with someone for 4 years or more the excitement and mystery starts to wane. You still love your partner but feel curious too about getting to know others and miss the passion from the beginning. Some people have a stronger need for excitement and passion/romance and some people have a stronger need for security and have more self control.

Others cheat bec they want to connect to other people in a different way from how they connect with their partner. As astrologers we know how different people bring out different parts of us through synastry and how relationships help us explore different sides of us.

Some people cheat because they are not sexually fulfilled in their marriage but don't think ending things is the right thing to do either and sacrificing your sexuality for a lifetime can be painful.

Until not that long ago most people got married for practical reasons and it was the norm to have lovers on the side. Marrying for love is a more recent phenomenon.

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posted April 13, 2018 07:13 AM            

Uranus - commitment phobia, restlessness, constantly seeking out new things, inability to form healthy, monogamous relationships

Neptune - deception, lies, foggy mind, fantasy, delusion

posted April 13, 2018 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
I have always associated infidelity with Uranus and Neptune.

Uranus - commitment phobia, restlessness, constantly seeking out new things, inability to form healthy, monogamous relationships

Neptune - deception, lies, foggy mind, fantasy, delusion

Sun aspecting one or both and Mars aspecting one of both can be a sign of infidelity, mainly the adverse aspects like squares and oppositions. Transits too. Placements like Sun and/or Mars in Aquarius/11th house or in Pisces/12th house can point towards infidelity too in my opinion.

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I know somehow who cheated on his wife and all but I look at this person and he honestly feels like the type of guy who did it because he really just happened to fall in love with the woman.

He has the Mars square Neptune aspect but 7 degrees apart which I think is a lot.

Sun conjunct Neptune.
Mars and Venus making a nice aspect to Uranus.