posted April 19, 2018 05:46 PM            

Eish...what can be said?

My Dad has Cap Moon. Step Dad has Cap Moon.

I think Cap Sun is for me slightly "better" than moon there.

Emotionally "flat"... Ehm if there are no Pluto/Neptune aspects, it can certainly come across like that. I would say more likely to be emotionally impassive.

All earth signs are a little emotionally impassive. Taurus just has Venus on its side so it " appears" more palatable. And Virgo has Chiron/Mercury helping it out to come across more evaluative in response.

But Saturn is Caps ruler and can be so...well...inexpressive.

Its in "detriment" in the Moon because Cap Moon blocks the ebb and flow of the emotional currents. It wants to gain control.

This can bring about all sorts of ailments associated with emotional blockages.

Scorpio Moon does the same... It struggles to let go and wants to control everything. Maybe that is why these two get on?

posted April 20, 2018 07:07 AM            

But really, you need to consider how this people grow up with the parents/the family environment. A good parents/family environment growing up will make the moon well developed. This moon is secretly attach to home bringing/parents, like their opposite moon in Cancer.

My brother and younger sister have Cap moon, while my husband also has a Cap moon, but they are all different.

My brother and younger sister are almost single throughout their life. Because they have already feel secure spiritually, emotionally and materially, they have a hard time to find someone who match their expectation/level as they can be very judgmental to let someone in. They demand total loyalty and don't trust people easily.

They are caring people actually, but rarely say/show it until you run to them for advice and you will get the surprise. They know and listen to everything about your life if they care about you in unemotional way, from problems to friends, otherwise they don't really care.

My brother is more emotional/sensitive than my younger sister but both always act cold/aloof (but I actually feel it as a normal thing). They don't like dwelling in an emotional and dramatic situation and people. They are sometimes wiser like an old person and sometimes need you to nurture them with kindness, comfort, food, etc, especially my brother. Both respecting my Father like he is the Boss and run like a child to my Mother for emotional support, letting all the worry out from their chest especially my younger sister who constantly talk or crying to my Mother privately. The downfall is, they tend to stress themselves out with achievement.

Well, while with my husband, he confuses me. He may be in the negative side of this Moon has.

He doesn't know how to appropriately show a care. He only acts generous with money, like, his parents do to him to show they still care. There is no emotional support, a good advice to solve problems, or listening to problems that we are facing.

He is security driven, but in a negative way, you can see this at work, so he attracts a lot of enemies and obstacles. His motto is, if there's someone tries to be on his way to climb, he will be a nightmare to that person. But, he tend to falsely accuse people to get to him, so...

Very insecure person, but won't admit it. Very prideful and think he deserves high respect, no matter what, but I know inside he just feel insecure materially and doesn't know how to fill those empty unknown things/emotions he has. Possessive and have a really hard time to let go what's in the past.

He rarely share his emotions, but if he lets it out without warning, like, if he feels really secured and comfortable at the moment, usually in our bedroom with a dim light and he starts with a small talk, it will come out with tears. It feels like he always has a heavy chest but do not know how to do with it. But he doesn't share everything, so sometimes I just there hugging him or let him talk if he continues to talk which usually he just wants me to hug, listen, and try to understand. He feels deep actually, but since he doesn't get emotional support from his parents/family environment, constant obstacles because no one educates him how to handle stressful situations or feeling good to self, a hard time growing up, he grows a negative Moon in Cap.

I have Moon in trine to Saturn, so sometimes I kind of understand Moon in Cap in some way.

There will always a pro and cons to each Moon, the developed one and the undeveloped. I don't know if I can judge this moon is bad, but unemotional, yes. (judging for only the moon sign)

posted April 20, 2018 07:41 AM            

What I am:

goofy
aloof
detached when needed but mostly warm
My feelings can be gone in a heartbeat towards someone
Funny
Sarcastic
Self depricating

What I am not:

Vain-I rather make a dollar, or two, than stare in the mirror
Superficial-you won't find me chatting away about the latest nail polish trend anytime soon..
Easy-easy things are not worth keeping and usually won't last to the expiration date anyhow.
The "clown of the party"-I like to dance and when I do, please don't hump my fukcing leg!

What I don't like:

posted April 20, 2018 10:03 AM            

She is a loving person, but not emotional, or sensitive to emotions. Or it goes through a filter, may be moral or other, I don't know

You can't manipulate her emotionally, the kind of crying like a baby, if she thinks it is unjustified, she will let you deal with your pain, just changing the conversation as in :

"Anyway, so did you work today ?"

not inflicting pain, or being mean, again she is very loving, just not emotionally demonstrative and receptive.

As her son, growing, it sometimes felt like being cuddled with a rough to the touch object.

But she being aries sun, gave me the tools to be independent and self reliant.... the hard way

posted April 20, 2018 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
This moon is secretly attach to home bringing/parents, like their opposite moon in Cancer.

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ABSOLUTELY.

They don’t like to admit it, but they are. However, even then, they will still prefer responsibilities over family when hardships come. Their way of thinking is that they would rather focus on securing themselves first because they know they can always secure their family after.

It takes seeing through a Cap moon’s hard exterior to understand how they work. They feel as hard as any other sign but have learned to be stoic through their harsh experiences in life. They know they can’t break or they lose. Because of this, they are very strong people—emotionally. They can withstand any pain or obstacles life throws at them.

The only thing with this placement is that because they try to shove their feelings under the rug, they tend to fill that void elsewhere. This is a dangerous placement if combined with a non-commital venus or mars (gemini venus, aries mars, sag venus, pisces mars etc).

I’m not a fan of the dry humor either. My bf is a Leo with Cap moon. He has a god complex, and when combined with a Cap moon, he likes to make jokes about domination. He’s joked around about buying an island and a bunch of slaves before. I got really triggered and told him that joke was out of line.

He has Moon square Saturn natally and I find him to be extremely un-empathetic. He knows it too. He says he just processes emotions differently. He processes survival first before anything else. One example he said was that if his mother died, he would be more worried about the stuff she left behind—like her assests/liabilities, his grandma, his sister, etc. He would probably be upset about losing his mother after he takes care of all those things, but his instinct says survival first.

His doctors told him when he was young that the hormones in the brain responsible for feeling good about rewards/accomplishments is apparently low. He’s never satisfied with himself. But the good thing about it is, he’s never satisfied with mediocrity either.