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Topic: CONFUSED ABOUT A CAPRICORN MAN
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shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 01, 2018 10:11 AM
  
It’s long but I did space it out. Please help me. The Capricorn is my videographer whom I pay to do my videos. I met him through another artist at a concert where I was performing. I approached the friend just to get some networking in the area and saw the artist videos on social media and fell in love with them and so I got the videographer contact. He was also there at the time but was hesitant to approach. Anyways fast forward to my first video shoot. He got the cameo for me took care of all the details and make my experience great. Before leaving the first shoot I learned he had a girlfriend (wether it was true or not so I didn’t bother) Plus I’m paying him but for some reason I felt something there. On top of that the cameo wanted to have sex with me that night and I remember saying “but I don’t know you” (Plus I just finished paying the cameo to be in the video are you kidding me?) Capricorn text me “go to sleep” while I was talking to the cameo. I told him I will and laughed it off. He made the experience great and even aired teasers before the video on his page for me to see. Well he never contacted me after so I didn’t think anything of it and bit my feelings. Second video, no cameo, just me and him... now it gets confusing. He’s asking me personal questions about my kids, my goals, giving me advice. I just moved closer to the area and he said he’s about 5 mins away, told me about the police in the area to be careful. Drove me to the store to get some liquor so I could loosen up (Plus this is what I do at the shoots then just give the bottle afterwards) he also mentioned being careful about drinking too much and said he just got off probation for a stupid drinking level which I congratulated him. Just seemed very personal. Well then he said the video would take 4 weeks instead of two (he said I was impatient last time and if I gave more time it would be better?) between the 4 weeks we had casual texting... he would reply immediately. I tried calling once but he declined and text me immediately. I even put myself out there and said I would like to hear from him sometimes and thanks for a great session and his response was “no problem anytime thanks for rocking with me” (maybe to say stay using me and it will be good?). Well I got the video and it was amazing but this time he didn’t post the video on his page. And actually took my phone while I was there to play the music and didn’t use his like before. Also mentioned he is no longer with his girl for jealousy reasons and such. He even texted me where I worked and has been real attentive if I text (kept it business to make sure he is interested and still can’t tell). Is this posssiveness? Not wanting anyone to see me or know what we are doing I’m lost why he wouldn’t post it as this is business. Same way he told me to go to sleep when the cameo hit on me. He doesn’t imitate but if I ever text he responds immediately. I see him again for two more videos and so I’m just wondering if I’m reading too much into it? Something is there... maybe he just being nice? I’m a Taurus, he’s a Cap... I don’t have his birthday as I was gonna wait for the right time to ask. IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 01, 2018 10:17 AM
Oh and I don’t text him at all unless it’s for the video then I’ll slide something like what’s a good place to eat around here. I have an issue with chasing and I will not do it. But he won’t either and maybe because either were working together or he needs time to access or he’s just being nice. The fast response is very puzzling no matter what time of day and is why I’m puzzled. Almost like he wants me to talk first but as a Taurus I believe the man should lead. And since it’s business I won’t cross unless he asks me out and I’m almost feeling it’s gonna take forever. I feel the chemistry but I just need help if it’s my feelings getting the best of me. IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 01, 2018 10:26 AM
Oh and I don’t text him at all unless it’s for the video then I’ll slide something like what’s a good place to eat around here. I have an issue with chasing and I will not do it. But he won’t either and maybe because either were working together or he needs time to access or he’s just being nice. The fast response is very puzzling no matter what time of day and is why I’m puzzled. Almost like he wants me to talk first but as a Taurus I believe the man should lead. And since it’s business I won’t cross unless he asks me out and I’m almost feeling it’s gonna take forever. I feel the chemistry but I just need help if it’s my feelings getting the best of me. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 4529
From:
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 01, 2018 10:56 AM
What is your question? This is also an astrology site and not REALLY a dating-advice site. You could probably post chart in Interpersonals and get an analysis  IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 01, 2018 11:00 AM
Not looking for dating advice (were not dating) want to interpret a Capricorn behavior and surfing the internet about a specific sign issues always leads here. Guess wasn’t a right place sorry. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3352
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 01, 2018 12:17 PM
Capricorns are direct and persistent. Its hard to miss when they're interested in you.IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 01, 2018 12:57 PM
Thank you nine... I will chalk it up to him just being friendly. He knows I’ve been celibate and asked me why that is also (due to following me on social media). I advised because men seems to have an issue with me being an artist and the attention... seems like he was taking notes in his head. Why even bother about my well being then act another way next time... beats me. I’ll just take it with a grain of salt and keep it professional. IP: Logged |
Selenite
Knowflake Posts: 1621
From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 01, 2018 03:34 PM
It seems like he likes you but is too busy to chase at the moment... I would just wait and see if he continues and it progresses. It would be helpful to know his chart tho in case he has something like Pisces or Cancer placements who are less straightforward...IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 01, 2018 03:51 PM
Thank you celinite we meet again for another video later this month and I will strike up a conversation and ask at that time to see where his placements are and also watch to see how his behavior is if it’s the same or anything different I appreciate the insight IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 94970
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 01, 2018 10:09 PM
We don't like to chase unless we know we can catch. In other words, drop hints that you are definitely interested.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 94970
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 01, 2018 10:11 PM
Don't read anything into the quick text responses. We don't play those text reply delay games. If we get a text, we reply soon if we can. IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 01, 2018 10:24 PM
Awesome insight RANDALL... thank you for that... I will make myself a little clearer next time around. Thank you for the insight on the texting too. It’s hard for me to say hey I like you let’s get to know each other (funny I did with two other caps and they were full on at that point)... been hurt too many times and now I feel like maybe I’ve been doing all wrong and should wait on the man. I will try to be a little more forward with him. Try... takes a lot but I will try IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 94970
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 02, 2018 12:59 AM
Caps assume you're just being friendly when you flirt. You have to beat us over the head sometimes.IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 02, 2018 01:15 AM
Lol... got it... gave me something to go on now thank you so much Randall! Appreciate it big time.IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
Knowflake Posts: 882
From:
Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 02, 2018 03:42 AM
Been chased by 2 different Capricorn sun before in the same work environment. I mean, their building was next to my building and I got a side job in their building.One was just breaking up with his gf but I didn't trust him when he started talking about why they broke up. The other one was my friend who sometimes gave me a side job too when he knew I got a side job in his building. We grew closer professionally after I broke up with my ex, as he often offered me a side job. He also suggested me to move in to his boarding house because he knew I tried saving money to buy my own place at that time. Both are very direct and persistent if they like you. At work they will try to keep it professionally though but in private they make it very clear. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 5368
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 02, 2018 06:03 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Caps assume you're just being friendly when you flirt. You have to beat us over the head sometimes.
But even when that happens, Capricorn will simply go to the hospital and assume it was all a big misunderstanding. I have NEVER met a Cap who flirts. Even when they are attempting to flirt, it sounds more like a command.  I say be as receptive and passive as possible. Caps are usually hesitant to wear their hearts on their sleeves. It will take them time to muster up the courage to say "I like you". When it comes to love, one sometimes needs the audacity of Aries/Sag to get things moving. If the Cap has Moon/Venus in Sag/Aries, things could progress quicker. But even then, caution will be the modus operandi majority of the time IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 02, 2018 06:37 AM
At HeartTreasure... yes that’s exactly what I was feeling... alone he was very more responsive I mean he started conversation with me and I kept looking and thinking where did this come from? Was not expecting that... I touched him lightly on the arm to flirt some and he didn’t flinch just looked at the touch. Even at the liquor store I could tell he was staring at me... I’m an introvert (yes catch 22 since I’m an entertainer) I can tell subtle cues and he had them. At one point he was finishing my sentences it was so intense we both stared at each other for a good while till I smirked and the gaze broke. One scene he advised me to raise my butt higher (as in a bdsm sense as I am a sexual artist) in another scene he advised to go topless... yet still he didn’t even try me or address me he was still a gentleman and professional. I will stick around and see what happens next... seems to progress each time I’m around. Plus I’m still paying him. IP: Logged |
shaniajam
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2018
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posted May 02, 2018 06:45 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
But even when that happens, Capricorn will simply go to the hospital and assume it was all a big misunderstanding.I have NEVER met a Cap who flirts. Even when they are attempting to flirt, it sounds more like a command. I say be as receptive and passive as possible. Caps are usually hesitant to wear their hearts on their sleeves. It will take them time to muster up the courage to say "I like you". When it comes to love, one sometimes needs the audacity of Aries/Sag to get things moving. If the Cap has Moon/Venus in Sag/Aries, things could progress quicker. But even then, caution will be the modus operandi majority of the time
Be As passive and receptive .... oh yes that is something I can definitely do lol... I see it will take some time now... I started having fantasies about him and I’m like what the heck is wrong with me! Am I making this up? Maybe I’m imagining things that’s why I hesitate. He is very charming I’ll give him that. But I am also hesitant so it’s weird because I get the cautiousness, I feel he is the same... I can feel it I can’t explain it, and I am the same. Will take that advise thank you.
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