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Topic: Cancer/Gemini Combo is a mofo!
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StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 2946 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted May 03, 2018 10:07 PM
I have Gemini Moon/Mars in 4th house.My friends would agree that I am pretty neurotic at times (not helped by being a triple Virgo) and that I also have a tendency to be paranoid. (Although not in a Scorpio type of way, but in a way in which I find that I can't help but be concerned about how another person feels about me. Overly sensitive, plus the obsessiveness of Virgo.) BUT with Gemini anything, I think we're pretty good at rolling with the punches. But I also feel like this gives us the appearance of being bipolar - one minute we're pouting about something seemingly minor (to you) and the next minute we've moved on and found something else to talk about it. People often can't keep up, or maybe they're more comfortable taking their time with their emotions. I personally find it exhausting to be upset about anything for an extended period of time. I used to identify more with my Gemini counterparts, but I've found that they often don't emphathize with the depth of my emotions. Now I find myself associating more with water signs. My closest friend is a Cancer Sun with a large Cancer stellium. And she would happily tell you that I'm crazy - in a mostly good way.  No quoting please. IP: Logged |
FireVirgo Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Registered: Mar 2018
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posted May 04, 2018 12:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Went on a date with a Gemini with Moon and Mars in Cancer. Venus in Leo and Mercury in Cancer.All I can say is.....no thank you 
PLEASE elaborate! I feel like finding this thread is a blessing in disguise. Gemini is already against my better judgment (based on experience), but this guy I'm talking to has Merc/Mars/Saturn Cancer (Aries Venus)...and I thought I had read somewhere that Gems with heavy Cancer placements were okay because they were more in touch with their feelings? IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2833 From: Venus Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 06, 2018 02:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
I luvvvvv guys with Aries suns and Aries rising!! 😍😘 Where are the straight male versions of you, LA86?! Lol.
Aww, that's awesome!  *goes and resurrects Marlon Brando for you* Lol. As his chart was quite similar to mine. A true Hollywood pioneer he was! IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6017 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 06, 2018 01:20 PM
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9651 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 06, 2018 01:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by FireVirgo: PLEASE elaborate! I feel like finding this thread is a blessing in disguise. Gemini is already against my better judgment (based on experience), but this guy I'm talking to has Merc/Mars/Saturn Cancer (Aries Venus)...and I thought I had read somewhere that Gems with heavy Cancer placements were okay because they were more in touch with their feelings?
I don't agree. I think Gemini tells tall tails -esp with Cancer, Pisces or Sag in the mix. This one was just very swift with the tongue. Awesome to talk to and great company. But I wouldn't date them. I don't trust them  I feel like deep into our dating, I will find out they are married, are already in a relationship or that I am just "one more fling" in a parade of lovers. Even though Sag(my Sun) are also famed to be "players". I just find them to be so " obvious" about it. Gemini has the ability to.convince you of their sterling virginity even if you know/have seen them sleeping around. You have talk yourself out of believing their silver tongue with "wait...I know this person is not an angel. Why am I believing they are?" Over and over in your head. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6017 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 06, 2018 01:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I don't agree. I think Gemini tells tall tails -esp with Cancer, Pisces or Sag in the mix.This one was just very swift with the tongue. Awesome to talk to and great company. But I wouldn't date them. I don't trust them  I feel like deep into our dating, I will find out they are married, are already in a relationship or that I am just "one more fling" in a parade of lovers.
Yep this is exactly what I think too. That's why I won't go behind friendship. Do you think they would make good roommates?
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9651 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 06, 2018 01:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: Yep this is exactly what I think too. That's why I won't go behind friendship. Do you think they would make good roommates?
Yes. The ones I lived with were. A lot of fun when they are detached from you and playing out there far from a fragile heart. Lol. Both were Gemini Sun/Aqua Moon interestingly enough. Unusually close to me for someone with an emotional Moon in Cancer. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6017 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 06, 2018 02:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Yes. The ones I lived with were. A lot of fun when they are detached from you and playing out there far from a fragile heart. Lol.Both were Gemini Sun/Aqua Moon interestingly enough. Unusually close to me for someone with an emotional Moon in Cancer.
You said you wouldn't date one but have you been out with one? I'm really cautious so everytime he's asked me to go out with him I just make up an accuse. I want to though but based on what you and what others have been saying it doesn't seem like a good idea. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6017 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 06, 2018 04:13 PM
I think he has a good relationship with his mother. I remember once he told me he was doing something with his mom.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9651 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 06, 2018 04:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I think he has a good relationship with his mother. I remember once he told me he was doing something with his mom.
You should just test the waters for yourself. Ironically in the end, I got my heart broken by a more "steady" Sun/Moon Tau/Tau and Sun/Moon in Lib/Cap. So go figure. After the Libra,a fling with a Pisces/Sag turned sour. And I thought that that was promising. Trust yourself more. I have Moon in 3rd(affinity to Gem Moon) and Gem north node. So I can't say that I am not in some way projecting some of my own not so desirable traits on Gem. I went on one date with the one I spoke of. We clicked a lot. I expected it. Its just that I don't want to play policeman with my feelings by ascertaining they were exactly where they said they would be etc. I am just too damne old. Ain't nobody got time for that! IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6017 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 08, 2018 09:09 PM
I just wish he wasn't a Gemini so we could be together. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 160968 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2018 05:13 PM
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Astra Knowflake Posts: 1166 From: Pluto Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2018 07:38 AM
I'm a Gemini and I have learned to avoid Gemini moon men like the plague. The Gemini moon females are ok. They are very loyal....more so than the aries moon females in my experience.However, there is something about Gemini moon males that makes me instantly distrust them. They are perfectly fine as acquaintances, but I just can't be friends with them. I always feel like every word out of them is a lie. My capricorn moon needs more stability and integrity, which Gemini moon males can't seem to provide. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9651 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 15, 2018 04:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I just wish he wasn't a Gemini so we could be together.
Ironically, they can be more stable than Sag. And that could be because Taurus is the solar 12th house. And Sag has Scorpio as the solar 12th house(unconscious attraction to crises/risque stuff) IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 6017 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 15, 2018 04:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Ironically, they can be more stable than Sag.And that could be because Taurus is the solar 12th house. And Sag has Scorpio as the solar 12th house(unconscious attraction to crises/risque stuff)
What does that have to do with Gemini and Taurus not being compatible? I'm just kind of frustrated. Well I don't mean be together as in a serious relationship I just mean in general.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2833 From: Venus Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 30, 2022 07:52 PM
Yep. 4 years later... and it's solidified. 💯 I just cannot seriously commit to men with Gemini/Cancer mix. I'd end up killing them or going Lorena Bobbit on their moody a**es LOL I can be friends or good acquaintances with them though. 👍🏾 But it stops there. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74285 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 30, 2022 08:45 PM
I am Gemini sun, Merc and Venus and Cancer Moon and Mars. We have many different sides lol------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2833 From: Venus Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 30, 2022 09:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I am Gemini sun, Merc and Venus and Cancer Moon and Mars. We have many different sides lol
Indeed y'all do. Lol. My dad is also a Gemini w/ Cancer Venus. He's crazy and he admits it. 😂 I do feel like I learn a lot from you guys. And I appreciate your versatility. 👍🏾 But we are best as friends rather than romantic partners. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted July 31, 2022 02:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Yep. 4 years later... and it's solidified. 💯 I just cannot seriously commit to men with Gemini/Cancer mix. I'd end up killing them or going Lorena Bobbit on their moody a**es LOL I can be friends or good acquaintances with them though. 👍🏾 But it stops there.
That comment had to make me smile.. I was good acquaintance with a triple aries...sun/moon/asc. My Libra bud asked her what she thought of me, she says he's a good guy...but sometimes he scares me. I think it's the Aries Moon square Cancer Mars in me. Sometimes I can unexpectedly snap!!!. It's not so much the case now since I'm a bit older and busy enought that I will forget it later...so I can't stay mad mad very long. Get a laugh out of this...this happened this morning. Anyone that's been working at home because of COVID is probably annoyed with the MS teams or Zoom...calling sound. The sound of either a coworker or boss trying to talk to you or schedule an online meeting. My office uses teams: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6V_foJlTHls I was sleeping and that sound appeared in my dream...I said to myself "$hit..it must be that idiot overseas contractor again....what did he brake this time?". So I leaped out of bed, logged on to my work laptop expecting him waiting for me... I then looked at the clock and realized it was Saturday and I dreamed someone had called me. Yes, I was furious.... but then though well I'm up early I can finish off fixing my windshield.. If I pull this off I can avoid making a claim to my insurance and I can boost that I know how to fix a windshield with those windshield repair kits...instead of being angry. It just takes time and heat...the chip is getting smaller. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 7357 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 31, 2022 11:56 AM
I was in a relationship with a Gemini Sun and Cancer Moon, Mercury, Mars.I have Gemini rising and Cancer Jupiter. We fought a lot. My friends and family got very involved. The only guy my dad has ever threatened to beat up too. My sister even flipped him the bird. And my mom prays for him. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2833 From: Venus Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 01, 2022 06:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: I was in a relationship with a Gemini Sun and Cancer Moon, Mercury, Mars.I have Gemini rising and Cancer Jupiter. We fought a lot. My friends and family got very involved. The only guy my dad has ever threatened to beat up too. My sister even flipped him the bird. And my mom prays for him.
Oh wow! Wish I could say I am surprised. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 2833 From: Venus Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 01, 2022 07:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: That comment had to make me smile..
Thank you for taking this well and having a sense of humor about it. 🙂 IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 160968 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 07, 2022 06:40 PM
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StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 956 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted August 10, 2022 05:48 PM
I have dated a lot of that mix, only reversed... I always seem to find Cancer Suns with Gemini Venus. My favorite one was Cancer Sun with Gem Mercury- he was funny and quick witted! But the others - no thanks. One I swear is a pathological liar and is super passive aggressive (Cancer Sun, Gem Venus, Cancer Moon). The other is so self absorbed but feels he is the either the victim or the hero (Cancer Sun, Gem Venus and Mars, Pisces Moon). Their moons all played a huge role though in their personality. The best, most stable one though was Cancer Sun, Gem Venus, Capricorn Moon. But I have Cap Moon and they were conjunct and no one needs two Cap Moons like that. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Toronto, Ontario Registered: Aug 2016
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posted August 10, 2022 08:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by StoneMoon: I have dated a lot of that mix, only reversed... I always seem to find Cancer Suns with Gemini Venus. My favorite one was Cancer Sun with Gem Mercury- he was funny and quick witted! But the others - no thanks. One I swear is a pathological liar and is super passive aggressive (Cancer Sun, Gem Venus, Cancer Moon). The other is so self absorbed but feels he is the either the victim or the hero (Cancer Sun, Gem Venus and Mars, Pisces Moon). Their moons all played a huge role though in their personality.
Other then the Pathological Liar part, i'm all those personalities above, lol. I couldn't understand why my Scorpio boss likes me, I figured out why. I drop dead and say whatever it is to him...I don't sugar coat it. As mentioned it could be my Aries moon bluntness, sometimes it will cost you more later if your caught in a lie then it is just to be honest right now. I think the issue is not knowing what exactly is going to come next with someone with the above combo. I normally get along best with Fixed Air Aquarians or Fixed Fire Leos. They like to push a certain level of firmness on people and enjoy being around people that are willing to accept that, which is rare. My Planets ========================================= ☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑ IP: Logged |