posted May 04, 2018 06:24 PM            

It wasn’t until my early teens that I have learned to be nice and tactful and reasonable. This got me in unwanted trouble a lot because I would either be too nice or not able to say no. I became sort of a pushover.

But lately, that’s slowly starting to change again. I am starting to feel all my aggression coming back.

Just today, I caused a scene in school because people weren’t doing their jobs and I had to clean up after them. I spoke in a very loud authoritative tone that startled everyone. I also almost started a fight with a cashier for being rude to my friend at lunch.

I’ve also been more competitive lately and thinking about either getting into dance or martial arts.

I am wondering what kind of transit would indicate this? Or if this is something in my birth chart?

I have a natal Mars-Saturn-Neptune t-square. My Mars energy is not supposed to be aggressive, but I feel that it is. In return, I feel like I am drifting further away from my femininity.

I am trying to find balance between the two energies—depolarization. I have noticed I’ve been swinging back and forth both extremes. I want to be nice and tactful, but at the same time, I want people to take me seriously. I wonder, what could help with this?

Could it be tPluto squaring my Mars causing this as well?

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Gemini Rising
Sun in Leo (2nd house)
Moon in Cancer (1st house)
Mercury in Virgo (3rd house conj.)
Venus in Virgo (3rd house)
Mars in Libra (5th house)

posted May 04, 2018 10:35 PM            

I also see that you have your Leo Sun opposite Uranus 8+ Aquarius.

tUranus is finishing Aries and will be in Taurus square your Sun Leo, and square your Uranus Aquarius 8+.

tMARS is finishing Capricorn and will come to conjunct that natal Uranus Aquarius.

tMars will go retrograde, and conjunct the South Node on top of your Uranus Aquarius for some eclipses in July.

That's a LOT of energy you're going to get the opportunity to harness.

tUranus square your SUN will take a handful of years. (long one)

posted May 05, 2018 12:10 AM            

And I know there are female celebrities (especially the female celebrity judges, from Judge Judy to Judge Pirro) and talk show hosts that many can find verbally aggressive but not question their femininity. And there are plenty of female athletes, including in boxing and mixed martial arts, and if anyone confuses them with a guy then I haven't heard of it. (A few can be, but not all of them by any means.) Plenty of men also prefer honest and assertive women to the passive aggressive who play mind games and force you to figure them out and give them whatever they're fishing for.

I can sympathize as I subconsciously absorbed the message growing up that women are submissive and victims. I learned that wasn't the case (as long as I didn't let it be).

posted May 05, 2018 03:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I was always really aggressive as a child. I was mean and domineering, but I had the uncanny ability to speak my mind. I also used to be violent, to be quite honest. But things have changed as I grew older.

It wasn’t until my early teens that I have learned to be nice and tactful and reasonable. This got me in unwanted trouble a lot because I would either be too nice or not able to say no. I became sort of a pushover.

But lately, that’s slowly starting to change again. I am starting to feel all my aggression coming back.

Just today, I caused a scene in school because people weren’t doing their jobs and I had to clean up after them. I spoke in a very loud authoritative tone that startled everyone. I also almost started a fight with a cashier for being rude to my friend at lunch.

I’ve also been more competitive lately and thinking about either getting into dance or martial arts.

I am wondering what kind of transit would indicate this? Or if this is something in my birth chart?

I have a natal Mars-Saturn-Neptune t-square. My Mars energy is not supposed to be aggressive, but I feel that it is. In return, I feel like I am drifting further away from my femininity.

I am trying to find balance between the two energies—depolarization. I have noticed I’ve been swinging back and forth both extremes. I want to be nice and tactful, but at the same time, I want people to take me seriously. I wonder, what could help with this?

Could it be tPluto squaring my Mars causing this as well?

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You never really grow out of your Marsy energy, you just learn how to deal with it better.

posted May 05, 2018 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
You never really grow out of your Marsy energy, you just learn how to deal with it better.

Just think of how the opposite sign of Aries deals with things, it may give you an idea of how to act as to not be 'too much', or 'too little', whether you're a woman, or a man.

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posted May 06, 2018 12:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
By opposite sign I mean Libra. What would a Libra do??

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Libra would talk it out. Aries is action, Libra is talk.

posted May 06, 2018 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Could it be tPluto squaring my Mars causing this as well?

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Yes. I think so. Is your Mars between 15-25 Libra?

posted May 06, 2018 06:10 PM            

If you are Gemini rising, it is very possible Pluto [21S30] is now in transit contra-parallel your Asc.

Also, you are definitely experiencing the transit of Pluto 21° Capricorn squaring your natal Mars in Libra.

Natally, aspects of emotive force like Sun parallel Moon, Mars aspects like: parallel Pluto, opposite Saturn, contra-parallel Mercury -- all of which you have. With Mercury, it is the vocalization; with Saturn the maturing, learning restraint; with Pluto, the underlying push for forcefulness.

posted May 06, 2018 09:25 PM            

Uranus has been starting to square my Sun. It’s actually pretty cool. I thought it was gonna make my life more difficult. In a way, it will be, but I will do my best to welcome the change it brings. I have natal Sun-Uranus opposition, so I am hoping that will help with it a bit. Although... that would mean it will create a transiting t-square. I’m not sure what that holds for me.

Just recently, I have started to set goals for myself to change bad habits. I’ve set in mind goals to get fit, pay off whatever debt I have, save for the future, and get better at hairstyling so I can improve career-wise. I agree with everyone saying this is an important phase in my life.

I think Pluto squaring my Mars is a little harder to manage, as I have a tendency to swing from one extreme to another. I’m either too nice or too aggressive. The challenge Pluto represents for me is to find balance in both areas.

I will take a look at the rest of my chart to see what else is there.

posted May 06, 2018 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
By opposite sign I mean Libra. What would a Libra do??

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I’m unconsciously doing the opposite of what Libra will do. Lately, I’ve been feeling more Aries than Libra in terms of my energy and willpower. When there’s something I want, I know I will achieve it, no matter who gets in my way. I’m not normally like this, especially with Mars in Libra opposite Saturn in Aries.

posted May 06, 2018 09:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yes. I think so. Is your Mars between 15-25 Libra?

I have Mars 19 Libra. Its a tense time. Most things annoy me now.

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posted May 07, 2018 07:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Mine is at 21 deg Libra, so yes. And I do feel you! Things that didn’t use to bother me or annoy me trigger me a lot more lately. Like crossing in the street.. I get annoyed with cars thinking they can turn when pedestrian lights are on. I almost got run over because a stup*d driver thought it was his turn. I was like, hell no. You either stop and let me pass first or you run me over and get a lawsuit.

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There is something about Pluto-Mars energy that wants to get "even" or completely annihilate(Pluto) any opposition to their will(Mars).

So yes, you will personalize such acts of selfishness. And since your Mars is in Libra, its the inconsiderate acts and breaking of social rules that will annoy you the most.

Someone cut me whilst I was in line at a local convenience store. I immediately felt the anger well up my throat. And I immediately checked them by telling them that what they did was unacceptable. I just went cray cray.

After that incident, the momentum was still active. I wanted to take a knife and slash their tyres or beat them with the baseball bat etc. I got home and found my sister had still not washed the dishes from last night(she made them). And I was furious. Totally gave her the silent treatment whilst I angrily washed them. I think I even broke a champagne glass because of the forceful way I was handling it.

Be careful of displaced anger or the force of the anger being carried over to other parts of your life(as was the case with me above). There is so much force with Pluto-Mars being set off that it can be hard to stop when something has set you off.

Dedicate yourself to some strenuous activity outside the home to prevent domestic confrontations. Take up a sport or activity that engages your attention and requires energy etc.

This transit could easily land you in jail or in a violent situation (at worst). My cousin and mother have Pluto on their Mars right now too.

My cousin got arrested for assaulting his girlfriend just last week when Pluto retrograde sat on his Libra Mars. His actions were appalling

With Mom, an ex mistress of my Dad is claiming child support for an illegitimate child my father and she had through their joint estate. And my Mom is mad as hell!

posted May 07, 2018 11:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

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Honestly, I have been having aggressive dreams, too. It’s not just in waking life I have been experiencing it. I’m trying to be calm lately whenever I am at home so I don’t explode on my boyfriend. He’s been noticing it too, commenting that I always seem so angry nowadays.

posted May 07, 2018 12:09 PM            

tUranus makes a t-square with my Sun-Uranus opposition.

tSaturn is opposing my Moon currently.

My transit chart shows barely any easily-flowing aspects. This is gonna be a challenging time for me, I guess. tPluto is also just entering my 8th house and tSaturn is transiting through my 7th house.

posted May 08, 2018 07:21 AM            

Having Sun/Uranus opposite natally suggests that you are not one to be too sentimental about things or hold on indefinitely. And the relevant opposition with Uranus may emphasize this.

I would look to the houses that the Sun and Uranus rule to see which areas are to be affected with the "letting go" principle.

Transiting Saturn on Moon IMO creates a cramped situation. Its either you feel your current living situation is not allowing you any leeway to breathe. Or that there are circumstances beyond your control forcing a situation where your emotional freedom will have to be held back.

This could be living with parents, living with a stranger or even having a baby.

Look to the house that the Moon rules to ascertain which area of life is feeling a little "cramped". Most people who have the Saturn/Moon natal aspect often need the illusion of freedom in order to feel better about their emotional well being.

This could mean taking a walk in nature or spending time outdoors just sitting. Or it could be scheduling to do something fun to take the edge off.

I have Saturn trine Moon and usually when trans Saturn aspects my Moon, there is a stressful or tense situation that doesn't allow me much peace of mind or breathing time at home(Moon rules the 4th house and is in the 3rd). So I don't particularly like that transit.

Speaking of your anger, Mars-Saturn natally is a volatile combo and can be surprisingly explosive. My midpoint natally of Mars-Saturn conjuncts Pluto and so I think I have an idea of what you might be feeling.

Anger, irritation with " stupid people" and rage that comes from "nowhere". Its not that Saturn suppresses IMO, it just looks for the most productive way to utilize the energy.

My advice is as as I stated earlier: do something strenuous physically. But be careful too as Mars-Saturn with Pluto can also induce physical injury of a serious nature.

A broken arm (for instance) that takes a long time to heal and disrupts your everyday life.