posted May 15, 2018 07:58 AM            

Well I kept texting him about business and nothing flirty (all business)... well we have another video we are doing. I told him I wanted him to handle the cameo and for me to no longer engage with them until the day of the shoot because the last experience once they know who I am made me feel uncomfortable with them coming on to me and such... he handled it in one week tops.

Then he kept saying “anything else you need help with let me know” I kept ignoring this but he kept saying it and I started to realize it’s probably a way of him wanting to get close without letting me know. I draft up a one year plan of where I want my career to be and what I want to accomplish (he is a videographer and manager) it was so long an tedious and was a way of deterring him a little honestly because I decided I’m not holding back what I want for myself anymore. Well he said he would love to meet up and talk about it. I gave him the option to talk about it through text, after the music video shoot, or over lunch. He chose the latter.

He’s very slow, but I notice he’s taking an interest in what I’m doing. I think the control turns him on or whatever. Well the “date” is tomorrow which he planned the date time and location (local breakfast spot). I’m sure it’ll be business focus. But anytime I’m around him I’m a nervous wreck... I can’t be my bossy little self like normal now... he makes me weak but I always act coy I can’t look him in the eyes cause it’s intense. But this is business however I know something else is there. I also plan on asking his birthday at that point.

Any ideas of how to conduct myself? This will be a long road but I feel a connection with him and I know he feels it too.. but no one is crossing the barier yet. By the way, I’ve always been the initiator of the texts and this is the first time he has initiated and has actually “taken charge” almost like the tide is changing?

He’s a cap (will get birthday at the meeting)
I’m a Taurus sun/moon Scorpio mars Aries Venus

posted May 15, 2018 09:38 AM            

Its only when doing something serious that Capricorn relaxes. Only in work do they play and only when trying to have a business relationship with them that a romantic one happens.

I guess they feel they can't fully trust anyone whom they can't get into business with. And the more they see your sensibility in practice when doing the work together, the more aroused they get(I kid you not).

I think it suggests to them that you are serious and bankable(magic words to a Cap).

Just don't get distracted and stick to the agenda of the meeting. If they steer off course, bring the focus back. It could be a way for them to flirt and a way for you to play a little footsie.

posted May 15, 2018 01:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Work has a way of getting a Cap to become quite gregarious(ironically enough). So whilst you two are focused on a project or assignment, they might let a little bit of their personality come through.

Its only when doing something serious that Capricorn relaxes. Only in work do they play and only when trying to have a business relationship with them that a romantic one happens.

I guess they feel they can't fully trust anyone whom they can't get into business with. And the more they see your sensibility in practice when doing the work together, the more aroused they get(I kid you not).

I think it suggests to them that you are serious and bankable(magic words to a Cap).

Just don't get distracted and stick to the agenda of the meeting. If they steer off course, bring the focus back. It could be a way for them to flirt and a way for you to play a little footsie.

Let the Cap initiate intimacy. Good luck

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posted May 15, 2018 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
Show your passion about your work. This is a MAJOR turn on. Smile. Be friendly, but don't flirt. Throwing yourself at him during a business meeting will most likely cause him to think of you as just a fling. Cap is all about business: work first, play later.

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posted May 15, 2018 05:30 PM            

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Originally posted by shaniajam:
Ahhhhh... now I get it. I didn’t throw myself at him the first time, and I didn’t suggest anything up till now so he may of thought I was gonna chase (because he sure tested me I know he did) yet I stayed put. It was difficult to not heed to all his subtle advancements (Scorpio mars I can feel them). Thank you I will make sure to keep it professional to let him make the move if he ever does.

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posted May 15, 2018 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I'm a Taurus sun/Aries Venus as well and I have a Cap moon and a stellium in Cap (my 7th house is also in Cap). 95% of my exes are Caps or have a Cap stellium like me so I know all about these driven men lol. They appreciate Taurus suns like us because we are grounded and stable like them, but if they have a fire Venus like you and I do then that makes them even more receptive to us. My ex was a Cap sun/Sag Venus which went well with my Taurus sun/Aries Venus (earth sun/fire venus). We both had the right mix of drive and playfulness. That's how you have to be with a Cap, you have to be driven but still know how to have fun.

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